maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

omolola100:
You better carry your body and move on with your life.
what kind of love is that?
he is not straight forward, just free him, Basic.
he might put you in trouble, who knows if he is an IPOB.

omolola100:
You better carry your body and move on with your life.
what kind of love is that?
he is not straight forward, just free him, Basic.
he might put you in trouble, who knows if he is an IPOB.

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Deborah98:
Cut it off joor, which kind relationship be dis if he doesn't tell you where he is going now that you both are in relationship is it in marriage he'll do so, mehn you guys should learn to read warnings before it's too late. You said time is going and judging from what you wrote it looks like you want to settle down with him okay but can I ask you? In as much as he doesn't tell you where he goes to and all that what are those characters/behaviours you put up that annoys him, one thing I've learnt from men, brothers and fellows is that they want a woman who gives them 'peace'. So my dear check yourself if you are the reason he's running away from you all in the name of traveling and even at that he switches off his phone to avoid communication.

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

kolakolex:


If she doesn't give him peace of mind or she is frustrating him with bills,he will keep running. let me ask u a question, Do u nag a lot? If yes,find a way to reduce it gradually still u stop it.
Just work on urself because there is no smoke without fire except in cassava plantation

Wrong diagnosis, wrong prescription, Quack Doctor!

NOTE: Be an asset to ur man and not a liability

iInjureHerYansh:
You don't wanna break up with him and you can't cope.

At least you can't confuse me... Confuse others

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed ung back.

omolola100:

i agree with your point ma, its possible he has a secret wife elsewhere, men are dangerous.

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Vision101:
@pocohantas
Travel to where?

Na engineer abi e done marry? Because na only them dey behave possessed like that.


@me
Engineers don do you particularly civil engineers. Ashawo profession.

MrSly:

IPOB means indeginous people of biafra. All biafrans bvy birth are members and it is no crime. Read well before making silly comments online

jubrilELsudan:
YOU ARE MOST STUPID.

CAN'T COMMON SENSE TELL YOU HE IS A MARRIED MAN?

HIS FAMILY IS BASED ABROAD THAT'S WHY HE DISAPPEARS FOR 3 MONTHS CAUSE HE IS TRAVELLING ABROAD TO GO BE WITH HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN.

kolakolex:


If she doesn't give him peace of mind or she is frustrating him with bills,he will keep running. let me ask u a question, Do u nag a lot? If yes,find a way to reduce it gradually still u stop it.
Just work on urself because there is no smoke without fire except in cassava plantation

NOTE: Be an asset to ur man and not a liability

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Debra911:

You dont want to break up cos you feel you've gone a long way,see the earlier the better, what if youre married,these are red flags already. From all you've said, you really love him so much. You love him more than he does, thats even if he loved at all. I've been there and I'm still trying to detach totally. It won't be easy but my advice for you is "to leave" You've tried. You also need to stop thinking cos of your health , self love is bae. This male folks ain't loyal anymore, all they do now is to play mind games till they get in between your legs and that's all. They love to toil with ladies emotion's. Relationships/marriages these days don't worth the stress. Live that single life, love yourself and look good. Don't just let any kind of person into your life again, be the captain of your life.