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Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by african1(f): 1:49am On May 02, 2011
I am curious! Personally I would as long as the other person felt the same. I wouldn't want to lead them on.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by BABE3: 1:52am On May 02, 2011
Nah! I won't.

I have a poilcy; if the guy is not a potential life partner, then I'm even gonna waste my time. Life is too short! cool
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by african1(f): 1:54am On May 02, 2011
Respect wink
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by r231(m): 1:55am On May 02, 2011
if the s3x is good grin grin

why not
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by Nobody: 2:18am On May 02, 2011
Do I know tomorrow? If I knew the future, then no lol, I would not remain in that relationship. Some people change, some people don't. I can give anyone a chance if he's willing to improve himself along with me and make the relationship work. If he's not willing to change, then hasta la vista.

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Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by MrsChima(f): 2:28am On May 02, 2011
r231:

if the s3x is good grin grin

why not

Slap yourself.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by iice(f): 6:14am On May 02, 2011
@Topic yes.
Don't like to limit myself. They maybe boundaries or not but generally i'd experience what i want to. . .which usually is everything, good and bad.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by Atreides(f): 8:17am On May 02, 2011
Nope. Why would i cause trouble for myself? This has happened to me before-some guy who i was really really into. I was so into him i was sorely tempted to break my vow(i told myself that there would be no boyfriends in high school). At the end of the day though,i had to admit that it wouldn't go anywhere-there was a distance thing(and he wasn't coming back anytime soon-he had to finish high school,and then college,and then med school before he could come back to Naija). So,i sorta cut contact with him. No more calls,no more IM's except random hellos,no more long,stirring discussions,for the sake of the continued well-being of my heart.
The point is,i don't think it woulda been wise for me to get into something that couldn't possibly go anywhere. I'd only hurt myself,and him too.
I don't like doing things that are pointless. If for some reason i know that things can't work out,then why bother starting something in the first place? Why bother raising expectations i know i can't fulfil?

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Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by Ranoscky(m): 8:30am On May 02, 2011
Re: Will You Be A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere?

Long as there's free pu-C, then why not?
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by LordReed(m): 8:44am On May 02, 2011
I guess it depends on what you want out of it. If you both are serious about the future then the question won't arise. This sort of question only comes when one person starts feeling short changed.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by esteduca(m): 9:57am On May 02, 2011
Unless she is in jail for life I don't see any reason to say I am sure she will bring me nowhere.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by InkedNerd(f): 10:19am On May 02, 2011
@OP: No, I wouldn't. Being in the relationship even though it isn't gonna go anywhere would be leading the person on. Besides, I just can't do it. I did it before and I hated it. I didn't even like the guy and I still dated him. Even the guy I'm involved with now, I'm actually repulsed when I'm think about him.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by jaybee3(m): 10:24am On May 02, 2011
I usually have things defined before venturing into it so i def wouldn't go into a relationship knowing fully well nothing is going to come out of it.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by denzel2009: 10:30am On May 02, 2011
jay bee:

I usually have things defined before venturing into it so i def wouldn't go into a relationship knowing fully well nothing is going to come out of it.


hmmmn, what came out of the previous ones? tongue
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by CrudeOil1(m): 10:31am On May 02, 2011
Of course, for the fun and adventure.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by jaybee3(m): 10:44am On May 02, 2011
denzel2009:

hmmmn, what came out of the previous ones? tongue
U really wanna know?
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by InkedNerd(f): 10:46am On May 02, 2011
^^^ I do cheesy
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by jaybee3(m): 10:48am On May 02, 2011
hehehheheheheh Just know i'm more of the friends with benefit kinda guy cheesy cheesy cheesy
I'm not really into da emotional shitzo
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by InkedNerd(f): 10:49am On May 02, 2011
Oh, I see wink
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by jaybee3(m): 10:51am On May 02, 2011
different ball game with u though wink
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by InkedNerd(f): 10:54am On May 02, 2011
lol, oh really? cheesy
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by jaybee3(m): 10:55am On May 02, 2011
most def cos u is special wink
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by InkedNerd(f): 10:57am On May 02, 2011
kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by denzel2009: 11:28am On May 02, 2011
jay bee:

U really wanna know?
Not the fetish part lol

jay bee:

hehehheheheheh Just know i'm more of the friends with benefit kinda guy cheesy cheesy cheesy
I'm not really into da emotional shitzo

jay bee:

I usually have things defined before venturing into it so i def wouldn't go into a relationship knowing fully well nothing is going to come out of it.


You see, if you are a friends with benefit kinda guy, the emboldened above applies.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by jaybee3(m): 11:43am On May 02, 2011
^^^^
Oh i c grin grin grin grin u going all technical on me cos i haven't specifically defined the kinda relationship I'm talking about.
Anyhoo, ma drift is towards relationships with emotional commitments
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by denzel2009: 11:51am On May 02, 2011
^^^Cleared cheesy
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by Zahnda(f): 12:17pm On May 02, 2011
I'm assuming that Anywhere is St Matrimony Valley? Pass. I enter into relationships purely for the sheer experience. - 'Till death do us part' isn't my scene - There's nothing in this world I wanna do for the rest of my life except maybe breath, besides, I quite like my last name. And I can't pay exurbitant amounts to lawyers everytime I need to dissolve a partnership that's ceased to add value into My Life Inc.
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by IZUKWU(m): 1:40pm On May 02, 2011
Zahnda:

I'm assuming that Anywhere is St Matrimony Valley? Pass. I enter into relationships purely for the sheer experience. - 'Till death do us part' isn't my scene - There's nothing in this world I wanna do for the rest of my life except maybe breath, besides, I quite like my last name. And I can't pay exurbitant amounts to lawyers everytime I need to dissolve a partnership that's ceased to add value into My Life Inc.

Every r/ship will ñot end up in marriage ,so i can go a r/ship and enjoy it knowing fully well that it will not lead to marriage.









Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by MrsChima(f): 1:57pm On May 02, 2011
Inked_Nerd:

kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
jay bee:

most def cos u is special wink
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by Atreides(f): 2:19pm On May 02, 2011
Mama Chimette!!!!!
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by MrsChima(f): 2:21pm On May 02, 2011
I called you million moons ago! angry angry angry Yams are gone now!

Baby Atreides!!!!!!! kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Will You Be in A Relationship If Deep Down You Know Its Not Gonna Go Anywhere? by Atreides(f): 2:49pm On May 02, 2011
*sobs uncontrollably and stamps her foot* I want my yams NOW!!!
How is Uncle Chima?

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