Men are not as skilled as women in hiding their tracks when it comes to cheating, they are mostly been found out by their wives or been implicated by their greedy side chicks.

Women are used to playing the victims where as there are more women cheaters out there, they appear to look mistreated and vulnerable because women are very good actors, they can summon their emotions so fast and communicate sympathy in you in a moment.

An average Nigerian man puts in a lot of work into his marriage to make it work more than women, but the men will never admit it because they don’t want to feel emasculated and ego-bruised. Nigerian men are programmed to live under the culture of silence; some men had to endure some unimaginable things from their wives in order to keep their marriages.

Men have been accused of being dogs and cheats by women simply because they are not as skilled and intelligent as women in hiding their tracks after a cheat, as well as women do, besides it is quite easier for women to cheat than men, I mean how difficult is it for a woman to work to get sex from a man?

There are number of reasons why a man would hardly expose his wife’s promiscuity if he really loves his wife, the reasons are;

https://gistcityafrica.com.ng/community/marriage/men-would-never-expose-their-cheating-wives-for-a-number-of-reasons-unlike-women-who-will-at-every-slightest-opportunity/

it is really sad

Women are not more skilled than men in cheating. When I was in the world, it was me who remind my affair partner to delete their chats and call logs.

Basically the guy has to exercise maximum caution for 2 major reasons.

1) If she gets caught and kicked out, the burden of being committed will be on you.

2) you don’t know the extent to which her man will go to deal with both of you. Her guy may be a cultist or know people that know cultists. No one wants to die for nothing.

Another reason why it seems girls don’t get caught is because girls don’t have to lie about their relationship to cheat. A girl will tell you she loves her man but still ride you like a bull. You are careful when texting or calling, you make sure she is the one with the phone and she’s comfortable before you start flirting.

Most guys lie to cheat, so the side piece has no idea about the existence of their gfs. Side chick sends messages or call or sends nudes when gf is viewing pictures on her man’s phone. Bursted.

Button line is women aren’t smarter cheaters. The men still do all the work to keep the relationship secret.

Op. I agree with you, men and their ego won't let them open up to their guys about what they face when it comes to cheating girlfriends and spouses, cause they don't want their ego bruised.

One time around the bar table, a man in his 50's opened up to us younger guys about his cheating wife. His story was bone chilling, in fact if not that we know the said wife and respect the man in question a lot, we would have said baba is telling us about his up coming movie.

In fact he told a story that made me realize the wife actually set him up to be killed. I was so shocked I couldn't finish my beer . Old boy who marry bad wife don miss road.

Only pussy ass niggas keep silence when they find out their whor.e wife cheat, but a real nigga will sent her back to her parent house and collect back his remaining change

hosemujica:
Op. I agree with you, men and their ego won't let them open up to their guys about what they face when it comes to cheating girlfriends and spouses, cause they don't want their ego bruised.

One time around the bar table, a man in his 50's opened up to us younger guys about his cheating wife. His story was bone chilling, in fact if not that we know the said wife and respect the man in question a lot, we would have said baba is telling us about his up coming movie.

In fact he told a story that made me realize the wife actually set him up to be killed. I was so shocked I couldn't finish my beer . Old boy who marry bad wife don miss road.

That was how another young baba told me another story how he bursted his wife with another uncle in the uncle's house. Baba came back from work earlier than he normally does, couldn't find his wife at home, he asked his little boy where mummy is, he said he is in uncle's house. It appears that this woman carried their little baby to go and cheat in another man's house. She was caught...

Afrogoddess25:

That was how another young baba told me another story how he bursted his wife with another uncle in the uncle's house. Baba came back from work earlier than he normally does, couldn't find his wife at home, he asked his little boy where mummy is, he said he is in uncle's house. It appears that this woman carried their little baby to go and cheat in another man's house. She was caught...

This things happen for real, its very shameful.

hosemujica:
Op. I agree with you, men and their ego won't let them open up to their guys about what they face when it comes to cheating girlfriends and spouses, cause they don't want their ego bruised.

One time around the bar table, a man in his 50's opened up to us younger guys about his cheating wife. His story was bone chilling, in fact if not that we know the said wife and respect the man in question a lot, we would have said baba is telling us about his up coming movie.

In fact he told a story that made me realize the wife actually set him up to be killed. I was so shocked I couldn't finish my beer . Old boy who marry bad wife don miss road.

Reason I suspect that a certain togolese houseboy who died in the police cell didn't kill the boss as alledged.
There's a cover up.