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Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by muller101(m): 9:00pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Throw her out |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:07pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Belafonte:But he disvirgined her naw, how come she ate another plantain? I thought virginity assured loyalty 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:08pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
muller101:most people are soft with their replies because d op disvirgined her and d son is his. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Caramia2020(m): 9:11pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Jehovah |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Belafonte(m): 9:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: How did your argument fly from not starving to him marrying her a virgin? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Dufil(m): 9:19pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
This is really tough. Pls uncheck her friends, watch out for them. Report the number to your service provider for tracking. Your disvirgined her and she sleeps with an older man; it's definitely, for money nothing more. She is giving that man hope that baby was his but thank God you found out, it was yours. She wants the man to be her maga. Maybe they met at work place. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Ayo2004: 9:20pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
It's until the 2nd child is not yours that your eyes will open You better collect all the gifts you have that hoe and send her packing...someone had activated Okafor law on her even when you are both in a relationship and you are still talking about love She cheated on you once so that means if the temptation comes stronger in the form of a wealthy, handsome,6 pacs and caring guy,she will willingly do it again (and trust me,that temptation will come especially if she is pretty) while you are here killing yourself Imagine you bought an iPhone for the hoe and you are using an Android Shows how much you value her above yourself I am even sure she has been hoeing around but you only caught her with one Love is truly the opposite of common Sense... May God not let me see such YOU ARE INVESTING IN A LIABILITY AND WHEN SHE FINALLY LEAVES YOU FOR A RICHER DUDE,NA THEN U GO KNOW SAY U DON ENTER VAGINAL MMM 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:22pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Belafonte:We brainstorming arguments naw. Las las loyalty has to do with individual values |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:24pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Dufil:abi she told him the baby is his to collect money? Nawaoo |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Belafonte(m): 9:27pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Sorry, I don't scalar brainstorming |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by ruffkenny: 9:31pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Somehow this is good but on a second thought i don't think it is,because Ur peace and mental health will be affected and u are going to become insecured,loosing all ur confidence and mental power as a man,if u continue to be in a marriage where Ur spouse is cheating on u,but from all u said about her,if u can communicate well with her again and get her to be close to u once more and love u again like she did before after u guys must have settled this maybe she can become a better wife,but once a cheater always a cheater,and most times girls who marry as virgins have a lot of unfulfilled fantasy in their head which u might never be able to fulfill but if u want to forgive her and go down that path,is ur chioce,there is going to be a lot of more trauma so be ready for it cos she is only 25 and she has cheated this early in ur marriage,so I doubt if she will ever stop doing that,just do what's best for ur peace that's all I can say.. Justanonymous: |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by 2rez: 9:32pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous: Hey bruh, nah common. Cut the older nigga some slack, aight? If your woman loved u, she wouldn't have cheated on u. However, we aint perfect. Since she a good girl like u said, be easy with her when u confront her. Yeah, do confront her & let her conscience take it up from there. BTW, the niggar aint no bastard. Niggar just catching cruise & your woman, loves cruise i presume. That said, thank God the boy is yours. Once again, go easy on your woman. All the best.
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:33pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Belafonte:Good night jor |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:35pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
2rez: 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AutoChick4U(f): 9:38pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous:Yea imagine d guy in that position.
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by ruffkenny: 9:45pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous:Oh sorry Ur title actually made me not to see that part that u guys are just engaged,bro this is good,the solution is simple,since she is not Ur wife,keep her as a baby mama and move on with Ur life,u deserve a better woman who will not cheat on u bro cos u are a good person..Only take care of ur son..infact u have saved urself from marrying a cheating wife..I know u didn't bargain for this baby mama things but that's the best thing to do,u won't regret it.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by AbujaCitiBlog: 9:54pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous:Why women do it these days is that you young men of nowadays have failed to understand that women cheat with their whole being. Infact that your so called love can poison you while still smiling with you! And they know that you hegoats of nowadays are just so addicted to sex that you can murder both your parents for them. The day the lady will start loving you is the day you stop running around to impress her with your hungry mouth hanging open! Imagine using Android but she uses iPhone! This is a classic case of self hate. You love her more than you love yourself. This is the pathetic story of most young men these days. Grow a pair like a man and confront her like a man should and throw her out. Have some standards! Learn to masturbate rather than become a lust slave to a wicked girlfriend. Be wise. Women who treat good men bad ain't worth it. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by OhMyGodWtf: 9:57pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Decency2020: Stop being jdugemmtal, people are different ..trying to sound so sure about your statement made it look completely off |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by OhMyGodWtf: 9:59pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
JovialJune: Ignore that stiking wrench of a human .. shes just too ignorant |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Lamasta(m): 10:04pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous:Your girl is taking advantage of your calmness and gentility to cheat on you..... Voice out your discovery to her and make your decision to forgive her or let her go instead of holding grudges towards her |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Moz22: 10:08pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:this is wicked |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Justanonymous: 10:20pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Lamasta:bro I have checked her phone, from Facebook to Instagram and WhatsApp and there is no evidence apart from the other one that she is cheating and most I be someone else ( shouting and trying to prove I'm the man) to show her am in charge? We just finished praying right now after she served me dinner and I can see her not happy but I just feel empty. Maybe I should just tell her and if we can work things out. I feel sad I'm putting her through this and no be say I no dey see women wey want me ooo but I believe In the sacred and sanctity of marriage. May God help me on what to do |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by realestate99: 10:24pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous: The love can't come back, don't deceive yourself, for that man to think he has a son with your girl means they have done " terrible things" for long. Most times girls cheat just to have a feeling of being with a new person, not that they have any problem with their relationship. I really pity you because psychologically you are down at the moment, Time will heal you but you are better off by solving the whole issue once and for all, you can call respected people from both families and treat it once and for all, any move you want to take is in your hand. do you know your evidence is weak in front of a defiant lady?, you still have unfinished business with her phone, you need to get more details of their chats and get a vivid identity of that man or else your lady might deny everything and turn you to mutembe. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
What is wrong with women of these days,cheating does not mean anything to them these days |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Justanonymous: 10:35pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
realestate99:I have pictures of the chat saved on my phone, I know if I tell my Mom the marriage is over, I made my friend swear a oath of silence not to tell another soul? This girl is sweat like really kind. My perfect kind of lady, innocent ( I thought she was) gentle, super clean, prayerful ( she wakes up each day by 3am and pray and all she says is God bless my husband) she never allows me and my son gets hungry, she never fights or quarrels with my neighbors, like I don't know why she did that. I don't just know. I swear I still love her and pray I grow feelings back for her 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by flokii: 10:39pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
@OP Don't rejoice yet.. run another DNA test to be extra sure the boy is truly yours.. reason I'm saying this is because the other guy you saw his chat was very confident that the boy is his and he will come for him. Married young ladies are easy to lay with once you say the right words they want to hear and shower them with attention. I saw the papa Ijeoma story and I felt sorry for him. Backstabbing wey reach cheating for this life no dey. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by realestate99: 10:49pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous: like I said earlier, some girls cheat just to have a taste of something new, you might give her heaven on earth, it won't change anything. check your soul very well, if you still think you can continue with her, then carry go but if you just want to turn her to sex slave as a result of her sacrilege committed, that I won't support. if u find it hard to forgive her then let her go, that would be far beneficial for your mental health. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Ghostrye: 10:54pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Justanonymous:Know that someone that cheats once will almost definitely do it again. So be prepared to be sharing your babe with someone (or more). Also start preparing money down for the DNA test of any future children with her. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by khia: 11:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Pierocash: Paternity fraud comes with cheating, and he never said he hated his girl he said he hated his son. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Nobody: 11:52pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Wow…… From your description, she is a good and prayerful woman that cheats. Isn’t it contradictory? You know at some point you will have to tell her and surely you cannot hold it for half a year right? The sooner you treat this, the better for your mental health, hers and your son. In whatever you do, ‘I am sorry’ should never be enough. If you must forgive her which I think you should, you must exert a kind of price that makes her place a high value for your union and budding family. If it means sending her away for a while for a short while do. You have to place a premium on your union, so she know the value is high, else no guarantee she won’t do such again. They only get clever when caught and change tactics. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Nobody: 12:00am On Sep 11, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Lol.. u are evil |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Know I Know She Cheated And That I Did A DNA Test On My Son by Jeremani: 12:24am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Man just take heart. Redpillers have said this over and over again. apart from getting a child i don't why i need women in my life. |
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