Op is a big simp. No wonder both his wife and the guy man dey call am small boy.

You're not married yet she calls your mom to complain about your sudden reluctance to have sex with her? You mean your "unmarried" girlfriend of 4+ years called your mom to complain about this?

Considering the kind of family you have, I don't think cheating should be considered an issue to be very honest.

Just six weeks of no sex with your girlfriend and she's already crying, calling your mom?

LMAO!

Acidosis:
You're not married yet she calls your mom to complain about your sudden reluctance to have sex with her? You mean your "unmarried" girlfriend of 4+ years called your mom to complain about this?

Considering the kind of family you have, I don't think cheating should be considered an issue to be very honest.

Just six weeks of no sex with your girlfriend and she's already crying, calling your mom?

LMAO!

are you so stupid to see where i Said we are engaged. Do you know what the term engagement means? Don't be stupid behind your keypad.

Keep your relationship out of social media

Justanonymous:
are you so stupid to see where i Said we are engaged. Do you know what the term engagement means? Don't be stupid behind your keypad.

I'm not too stupid to understand the difference between being engaged and being married Because you gave her a ring means that you "own" her na? Abeg gettat of here.

The trash you have up here does not invalidate my previous post about the fact that your GIRLFRIEND whom you're yet to marry called your mom to complain about your changed attitude to sex. If she could do that without shame, then she can do anything and more.

I expect to see more of your threads btw as you no wan get one sense.

Man you have to sit her down middle of the Night would be better, Show her the The DNA results she may also think your son belongs to the side chick but for that result she will also feel relieved and can confront the side chick to clear him now.
Ask her why she has to cheats on you ,
for her reasons you will know what to do if to forgive her or release her

Mmadu2:
ANYONE THAT TELLS YOU NOT TO READ TEXT MESSAGES FROM YOUR PARTNER IS COMPLETELY MAD.

100% correct. But you have to do it codedly. If not the aim will be defeated.

Acidosis:
You're not married yet she calls your mom to complain about your sudden reluctance to have sex with her? You mean your "unmarried" girlfriend of 4+ years called your mom to complain about this?

Considering the kind of family you have, I don't think cheating should be considered an issue to be very honest.

Just six weeks of no sex with your girlfriend and she's already crying, calling your mom?

LMAO!

Good point.

Pierocash:
Your post is incoherent. You started of with paternity fraud ,later switched to cheating. And turned to you hated her,but you still love her.


Your post is direction less.

I was discombobulated as you, cause this is merely a strive for attention, caused by need for an additional dopamine boost.

Knowing the truth wasn't enough, and he needs more attention, more validation hence NL.

Imagine a case of mixing Bullet with Stout to achieve a stronger effect.

Humans!

@op, I can feel your pains.
But you have to tell her ASAP for the sake of your mental health.
Her reaction will even determine whether to send her away or forgive her.
Unfortunately you have been scarred for life.


That lady saying MOST of the stories are fabricated doesn't know anything. You should have said SOME.
MOST of them are real.

PS: Someone said you should get the identify of the man. Please do. It's very important. Information is power.

What's her birth date n birth month? These would help me give you a more accurate advice.

What date of birth and month are you guessing?

The earlier nboth of you sit down and discuss the matter the better, to enable you know why she went awol and if you can't deal with that let her find her way asap