@soundmind, you lucky oooo!.

Thats too bad of her!

I broke up with my ex because he is not ready for commitment even though he claimed to love me. I really love him so much and it really caused me so much pains leaving him. I had to let him go so that he wont be forced to do what he is not ready to do.

Although, he gave the excuse that he still wants to further his education overseas and don't want to keep me waiting nor waste my time. So i let him out so that i wont be a stumbling block for him not to achieve his goals.

ciao!

@ Topic

My break-up with my EX was justified because hes a full fledge Homosexual
MY 2nd EX was into some weird sh**t
MY 3rd EX was into gang banging
MY 4th EX was too poor

I broke up with her cos she was one slimy lyin B.I.T.C.H

Soundmind:

She was cheating on me. I caught her red handed with 3 different persons and different times. She will deny it initially but will accept it later. We broke up and few months after that, she tested HIV positive. She accused me of infecting her with that but suprisingly, We went for text and i am negative. I have gone for text 3 times since then and have come out -ve. Though i still talk to her and help her but our intimate relationship has stoped.

wow!!! Thats one hell of a story.
I broke up with mine cos he was just crazy. He did everything a man was not meant to do to a woman

Broke up for 2yrs and reconciled again she was misbehaving then but now behaving.we understand each other better than the first time.

Got her today, two weeks later dump her. Before her, I got another one, lost interest within a week. It has been like that. Some even think I'm possessed with one kind spirit. Note, I didn't take them to the room and was not after that. The reason was that the girl I was before them politely told me she was going to marry, we didn't quarrel for a day. I was not ready to marry then, so, I reluctantly said no problem. She saw the pain in my eyes and tried to calm me down. Since she married, I have never got a girl that could be like her till today. To me, is like someone has taken my wife.

She wakes up one very good morning and says she wants out. . . . why? she says c'os i don't think it'll work out in the long run. . . . why? she says i don't know anything about u. . . .

Jeezuuz. . . . this is the stupid dame that u spend 99.99999% of ur conversations asking questions about stuff, encouraging her to feel free with u and it doesn't occur to her that she can ask u questions back  if she w'anna get 2 know anything about u

Cause we weren't compatible (But she was a sweet soul)

Large differences in life's goals, aspirations, desires, and some.

I look back and i'm happy i broke it before it went too sour.

he broke up with me because he was tired of me and he went under the excuse that he needed some breathing space so i gave him but he is back now with apologies.guess wat i ll do, continue to fool him. i ll pay him back in his own coin

he was such a nut. 

he did not love me as i did 

he ws greedy 

he ws not caring 

he ws too harsh 

ignorant 

dwarf 

lazy 

dump 

wanted to hv sexy w me   

i can't even tell some of the reasons   

Chei !!!
So much bitterness !!!!

I wasn't ready to get married and she was.

lol, yes you are right, it is funny.
when in love - "he's the best man in the world"
when broken up - "he is the biggest jerk in the world" "I dumped him"

Too stingy! Wanted to "eat" all my hard earned money without spending his! He was always broke!!!!! I do not like irresponsible "needy" guys! Stink like Gigolos!

I didn't trust her enough.

And believe me, i didn't regret breaking up with her.

double talk - why did he/she dump you u mean.

Both of us are AS ,so not medically compatible

You know, i can't muster anything spiteful about my ex. I just got tired of that girlfriend crap and she wasn't ready.

To the extent now, IF SHE IS A "GIRL", SHE IS JUST MY FRIEND. My cupidity will only be satiated with a lady who can ride with me till the wheels fall off - a lovely and sophisticated African Queen.

she was damn bitchy, in ma school ppl kal her FREE YAYO,a word for anbody u can get yo grind with

@omega25red

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i stopped being sexually attracted to her don't tell her


How can u stop being sexually attracted to someone, isnt that the whole reason u started liking them in teh first place.?

@ sound mind

Geez,i'd show symptoms of madness or even aids if i were u

My Ex,was too loving in a kind of disgusting way! always calling,complaining about me not calling as much as she did,too opinionated,manipulative, and wont let me bone her,religious rubbish! imagine! but she'll kick-start with some intense smoochis and eventually run-me-down she had a bunch of elder sisters who couldn't keep their noses out of our sh!T too

The other was a nympho     was loosing weight with her,and she can finish a drum of shekpe!

I dunno. she dumped my ass. Said I wasnt serious, and that I had issues. Can you believe that??

The truth is, the bitch was cheating on me and I knew it, but the sex was good so I did nothing. She realised that i was only down for the sex part so she split. good ridance to bad rubbish.

My ex got pregnant for someone else. didnt find out until i got her to the states  Even her family kept quiet about the whole deal when i was processing her visa!!

was disappointed at first but later think it was for the good. a lot of things i learnt about her after the ordeal. some friends who knew some stuff about her later start fessing up after we broke up.

I was like why didnt u guys tell me this all along?

@ Militia,
how are you doing. Greetings from here in California. Will like to hear from you. Yuo need a stable guy who is appreciative. Here i am.

oboatioko:

it is funny how these ignoramus talk about their ex here - even when they are the cause of the break - funny.

an ignoramus is he or she who thinks she/he is wise but does not know otherwise. These are people who once said I love you to these same ex - but now come here with the same mouth to talk gibberish and unpalatable marionated and harangued mistotoes. May these ex come back to hunt you in your life as you speak evil about them.

and wassup with u miss"cant handle the guy with the big oko"

MILITIA:

Too stingy! Wanted to "eat" all my hard earned money without spending his! He was always broke!!!!! I do not like irresponsible "needy" guys! Stink like Gigolos!

You don't mean it!

same old story he was cheating on me the sad thing not even with fine chicks, wait oh i always wonder how a girl will feel if her boyfriend cheats with a world class chick will she be content or she ll be more angry?

The truth:
I went out with her cause i admired her boldness in telling me she really liked me. Then i thought she was likeable n i would also learn to love her back but lately i realised i was lying to myself n her if i decided to spend the rest of my life with her and was going to hurt her more if we stayed on together so i slowed down and she got the message so she quit.

Still friends though

Quote from kateflow
and u are proud to say it out

hmmm na wa for some people ooo,agirl u call your girlfriend went out to meet another man that can handle her
and to add to that she got pregnant the first day cheiii
boy u need to see your doctor.



we’ve been dating close to 2 yrs and we’re pulling along 2gether. All of a sudden I just started noticing some traits in her that’s unusual of her so I had to check myself by calling it quit. Not that I can’t satisfy her sexually. If not why did she stayed for that long?

Esss:

I don't know. she dumped my ass. Said I wasnt serious, and that I had issues. Can you believe that??

The truth is, the bitch was cheating on me and I knew it, but the sex was good so I did nothing. She realised that i was only down for the sex part so she split. good ridance to bad rubbish.

good for u,

@Militia, i like u gaann!!!u know my ex was doing the same thing to me, irresponsible needy guy.i dropped him like an old habit, a sista need no such thing in her life.

I never seemed to have the kind of time she requested of me, was just too busy for her, maybe if she had gotten a job and started doing stuff with her life, we would still be together but oh well

Why did I even break up with my exes?

I don't know,quess its one of those things.

soldier go soldier come.