Hello fellow Nlanders, there is this thing that's been bothering my little mind that I need help with.
A girl left me for something close to a year without reason or for one best known to her. I made attempts to reach her which she rebuffed from all angles making it apparent that she would want to have nothing to do with me. To say I was terribly pained is to say the least and I had to pretend I was ok, secretely wishing she could come back.
To cut the story short, she started trying to establish contact all of a sudden, wanting me to visit her. I am at a loss now because i dont want to undergo the pains i did in the past.
HELEP ME

She had found out that the grass ain't greener on the outside.
Ladies need a little time to make up their minds. . .
As long as you have to deal with other human beings. . . you never have any control over their emotions.
You just do your part and leave the rest to take care of itself.
A secure self-esteem goes along way too.
Now you know she can be 'flighty'. . .Just give her the same treatment if she leaves again.
When she comes back again. . . h-enjoy yourself and let her keep 'waka-ing' till you get sick of her arse!

Well, you wished she'd come back.
God has answered your prayers.
Enjoy!

@Poster,

It is obvious she left you for someone else.
The person has proberbly dumped her,now she is running back to you.
This is why I always warn brothers not to take them serious.
Enjoy her but be careful,she could be coming back with an STD.
Goodluck.

@poster, u mean since she left u, u ve not found another person?