My niece is currently enmeshed in this predicament, she has broken everyone's heart in her family including me and my brothers that provided her financial support from 100-400l in uni, she doesn't pick my calls anymore, starting from the week I sent her money last, that was the week I heard everything about her and the moment she knew that, she avoided me like plague as well as my brothers and sisters, she even ignored her mum's calls during that period, she finished school and refused to travel home with an excuse that she was still working on her project, her boyfriend hide her for weeks inside the campus, nobody knew her whereabouts, her mum became very distraught then, eventually she left the campus and traveled to another state entirely without the knowledge of anyone of us.
Her boyfriend is from another tribe and he's not well polished according to my sister, he doesn't respect my sister and her husband! he talks to them rudely, though when I called him he denied those allegations.

Personally if I'm dating a lady and her family says leave her alone, I will end such relationship immediately because I don't want any problem at all, if something happens tomorrow, how do I handle it.

I believe as a grown up person we're at liberty to make certain decisions, but we should not ignore some good advice from our family members.
Sometimes when you are madly in love with someone, it blinds you, you won't be in the right frame of mind to make certain decisions by yourself, your family can see somethings which you cannot because of the love. But eventually your eyes will open.
I am an advocate of inter ethnic marriage, but that's just me alone, I don't want to to incur the wrath of my family by supporting her at this point.

She alleged that her family (her mum and dad) are trying to force someone else on her, but my sister denied the allegation, according to my sister, she was the one that even met the second guy herself, the relationship started and they both agreed to do introduction the moment she finishes from school. My sister prefers the guy from my tribe but she doesn't want him.

I raised this girl while she was growing up because I lived with my sister till I finished primary school, she was a very humble girl to the core then, she's almost 26 now! she's the first child

Actions have consequences and we should always be ready to accept them, our decisions will either make or mar our future, so it will either be a good or bad turn.

No insult please.

Holly Gram Make una LEAV am naa. abi she never pass 20yrs. wen she see waiting she de fine she go LOCATE HOUSE. WTF MAN

It never ends well except on rare cases and luck is really needed..

As long as,i no go end up telling who suppose tell me sorry,sorry.

Ritzybeauty:
It never ends well except on rare cases and luck is really needed..

Thanks, I saw a post from her this morning expressing her deep love for the guy in birthday message, i don't know how this will end for her.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Make una LEAV am naa. abi she never pass 20yrs. wen she see waiting she de fine she go LOCATE HOUSE. WTF MAN

We've already given her a space since she doesn't want anyone interfering in her decisions.

donbachi:
As long as,i no go end up telling who suppose tell me sorry,sorry.

That's it

It Depends.
But a good partner should not instigate me against my family.

No... Familiar first, capiche...

In most cases, it ends in regret for the person. Family is important and sometimes they are the ones that we see through some things for us.

Divoc19:
It Depends.
But a good partner should not instigate me against my family.

Exactly, from every indication the guy is clearly disrespecting her family, this breaks my heart so much

Opeyemiextra:
In most cases, it ends in regret for the person. Family is important and sometimes they are the ones that we see through some things for us.

I agree wholeheartedly