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Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by BigBashiru: 9:41am On Nov 19, 2021 |
jaxxy: If there was a way to like this x10 I would. And you forgot to add - they always only do what is convenient for them. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by vikgreen01(m): 9:41am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: This is the reason why you should be grounded bfr taking the marriage route. See Ino Dey blame ladies nobody like to suffer. Economy is hard Nd your wife doesn’t see through that angle. You just have to sit her down Nd discuss about your pressing issues. All the best sir.!!! |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Mrnairalandd: 9:43am On Nov 19, 2021 |
okoroemeka: This is one of the stupid men out here who are slaves in their marriages. They ll go to any length just to make their cheap hoes called wives happy. Listen @Op, if you follow this fool, you ll never be happy in life. You ll keep pushing and pushing until you drop dead. Women ll always demand for more and more unless you r one of luck men whose wives aren’t materialistic and greedy. Solution: Take care of yourself first! You come first before anybody. If you run and run for a woman, she ll eventually say you are not doing anything. If you have #500, your wife should be able to manage it with you without running you down with her useless mouth. If she doesn’t understand your financial situation now, trust me, she ll never understand your situation tomorrow. If she can’t do it herself, then tell yourself, why do i need to kill myself on top of a wretched lady who could not set herself up before marriage? Why must it be you? Why? Don’t throw your happiness away cos of a bitch who could dump your ass tomorrow and go with another man. Go for your professional course regardless how she feels. If she needs money, tell her to go and do something. If you allow this silly myth-“A man must provide for a woman” in your head, you ll be wasted like a lot of men out here. If you are in doubt, do you see Davido, Wizkid etc, pls compare their lives to those foolish men in marriages, you ll see that 80% of those guys in marriage are miserable. They are scared of being alone, so they ll do anything to keep their wives in their lives. If she is giving you problems, listen, kick her out. There are thousand women out here that ll cherish 10% of what you have done for that ungrateful bitch. The reason a lot of Nigerian men are living below poverty line is cos of this stupid mentality of marrying and carrying wretched ladies responsibilities… 5 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Aarenasbaba(m): 9:44am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Pls be cool,God will ease ur affairs |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by NarcissistKing(m): 9:46am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Oizee: Exactly! A typical African lady always assume the man is solely responsible for everything. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by jaxxy(m): 9:47am On Nov 19, 2021 |
BigBashiru: Yes bro, the tendency to think one sided is dry high with them especially if Ure a good. Only very very few really understand and appreciate ur efforts. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Bola146(f): 9:48am On Nov 19, 2021 |
DreamSonInlaw: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by expensivediamon(m): 9:51am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Dalil8: Hahahaha! |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Atk1nson(m): 9:52am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: simply let her know you expect she will be responsible for repaying the loan so you can use your salary for other beneficial things for the home. After all, if she took it from LAPO, won't she be responsible for repaying it from the business income? |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by oluade11: 9:53am On Nov 19, 2021 |
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Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Opinionated: 9:54am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: Your wife is doing what women do. As the husband you have to be emotionally deep to overcome these tantrums. Have a hands-on approach to the business to ensure she doesn't wreck you both financially. Communicate with her firmly but with love on the other things. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Easylifelomo(m): 9:57am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Give her some time, she Will change |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by DreamSonInlaw(m): 9:57am On Nov 19, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Good perspective |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by na2016: 9:58am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Bola146: You must be a very good lady for you to say this. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Gkemz: 9:58am On Nov 19, 2021 |
iliyande: That's scary of marriage. To survive this harsh economic period as a man, marry not necessarily a working class lady but an industrious and independent lady who can turn a thousand to two thousand to complement your effort. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by elooma: 10:01am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Hello Brother, can we talk via your email. Do relax, there is light at the tunnel. You ll be happy. Mark these words. Changes that will marvel you. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Bola146(f): 10:02am On Nov 19, 2021 |
incogni2o: Exactly how your image is |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Lexusgs430: 10:03am On Nov 19, 2021 |
When money is present, love is sweeter......... |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Lexusgs430: 10:08am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: Both of you are stressing over different things ...... Both of you need to sit down and calculate real figures, not in your heads, but with a pen & paper..... Put yourselves through stress, would not also hasten her ability to conceive........ Get your finances right before she conceives, because having children is a very expensive business (if you want the best for that child)........ |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:Unless where you suspect poisoning, never refuse food that was cooked with your hard earned money. She must have made a new female friend or currently has an admirer. These majorly two things that make shallow minded women to misbehave 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by jesmond3945: 10:13am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:welcome to marriage brother. That's women for you. They don't care about the sacrifices you make for them rather they care only about themselves and their wants. You would be shocked she is measuring you and comparing you with her friends. My advise for you is to keep on working hard not for her but for your unborn kids. Leave the business for her and look for other ways to generate money and please let her not know about it. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Druss(m): 10:15am On Nov 19, 2021 |
People and words. Going through difficult times is normal but to now be insulting your partner during those times is something I cannot stand. Job's wife told him to curse God and die. She insulted and left Job. Job wasn't a poor man. He was going through difficult times. How a partner behaves during difficult times is hard to predict. However a partner bringing nothing to the table and starts insulting their spouse during difficult times is the very height of immaturity and stupidity. That person is a liability. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by OriOko88(m): 10:15am On Nov 19, 2021 |
simplepee:ɭɷɭ.ىҽҽ taɭk. wɧҽŋ ʏɷųɾҽ a bɩt cɷmʆɷɾtabɭҽ ʏɷųɭɭ maɾɾʏ. aىɩʆ ų ɧɩɖҽ a ɧųىbaŋɖ ىɷmҽwɧҽɾҽ wҽʏ ų ɠɷ pɩck ųp ɠɷ .maɾɾʏ aʆtҽɾ ʏɷųɾҽ cɷmʆɷɾtabɭҽ |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by TheGiftedOne(m): 10:18am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: Your words are nerve calming, reassuring and comforting. But you didn't add prayer,very important. Kudos! The person I quoted is a rare breed on NL. Everywhere is full of garbages in here. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by lomprico(m): 10:20am On Nov 19, 2021 |
angelfallz: if there have money, i tell you, this issue will not arise. forget the trying to conceive issue. they are just 1yr in the union. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by dododawa1: 10:20am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Is marriages compulsory? |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Excellentmind: 10:20am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: When one party is making a huge sacrifice for the survival of the marriage and the other party fails to recognize and appreciate it out of a deep sense of entitlement, is always the begging of crisis in marriage. OP, you need to know that pains of ingratitude and betrayal in marriage kill faster than cancer. A lot of men have developed high blood pressure and other related sickness because of pains of betrayal. Don't be emotional about your marital issues, and take everything off your mind and remain focused. Find a way to improve yourself and take care of yourself at all times. Don't reject food because it is yours. The kind of person you marry will determine the kind of sacrifice you will make, therefore, not all sacrifice is worth making. You will certainly pay back the loan alone, even though appreciation has already gone down the drain. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by dfrost: 10:21am On Nov 19, 2021 |
okoroemeka: A man's advice. Much respect. 21 years experience is not child's play. That's a Board Member of Marriage Institution. I salute you sir. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Druss(m): 10:21am On Nov 19, 2021 |
DreamSonInlaw: Very important. The woman must be able to bring money into the home. I pray no man marries a woman who would rather have a spend mindset rather than a growth mindset. Every tree needs nutrients and foundation to grow strong. No seed germinates immediately. I am not so worried for Nigerian women. I am aware that the noise makers are a minority of the female populace. However that minority, flee from them. They add no value to your life - absolutely none!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by sishol(m): 10:23am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Davash222: Who made it a law that you must kneel down to propose to a woman? This is an alien culture that is exogenous to the institution of marriage. In other words I don't think the marriage institution in it original and pure form has any ethical flaw. What we need to adjust are the wrong notions, ideologies and mindsets we have associated with the institution, because all that God created was good. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by udemzyudex(m): 10:27am On Nov 19, 2021 |
silvoclaira: Who is pressurising her? The economy? |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 10:34am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: If it depends on money then it's not love. 1 Like |
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