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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Kingisibor: 7:04pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mko123:



Ability to drop pu**y for you at the slightest request.

Just wanna play prank on her but I ended up cumin



Madman madman madman madman......

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by SirJerrie(m): 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ebubechuwku:




...I once dated one cold girl, there was a time her charger spoilt, and it was so shocking, the girl was sad and kept to herself for days and I kept on asking her everyday, petting her, calling her before she told me her charger got spoilt.. when she told me, the thing vex me say na wetin dis one wan talk wey take u days.. your charger got spoilt and you don't have money to buy another one , what's so much in that that it took days for her to talk...
No be her charger cause am...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ghostboy: 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Asiri1991:


You be mumu
why?
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
MufasaLion:
grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man.
Yes, but get married and reproduce, that was how they gave birth to an intelligent man like you.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Asiri1991: 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Over shaving. I like the beautiful scents from hairy vagina.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Calicoe: 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Once she says she need urgent 2k

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by TheGift: 7:06pm On Dec 08, 2021
So you are you saying Men and Women are not equal? Or are you saying a husband and a wife are not equal?

I hope you are aware that different does not automatically mean unequal.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by FOREX4free(m): 7:07pm On Dec 08, 2021
BigSarah:
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

My fiancée had this mentality until she me. She dated an abusive pastor brother before me. This is our 2 year together (getting married by January).

I treat her with respect and care cause she is loyal, smart, supportive and hard working.

One stick of cigarette helps me analyze the forex market like a Wallstreet Baron

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by SirJerrie(m): 7:10pm On Dec 08, 2021
Omniman:
wink

k
Alt
brb
cu
ntn
Wyd
wya
cm
ttyl
and you
Have you eaten
What did you eat
Who cooked it.
When are you eating...


The "and you" family...
Na "and you" full everywhere nw

Fine nd you.
No and you..
Yess and youu...
Not yet and you...
Why not and you...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nicepoker(m): 7:10pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

I bet is that your hotel ex. Mercy abeg leave that guy alone he is married grin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
SirJerrie:

No be her charger cause am...


Me I no get that time... na her problem be that..

I did everything just to suit her and still she still feel insecure.


She later told me, that I will find someone better than her...
Shey na talk be that?..

I didn't cheat on you, I didn't lie, I do everything to please and still you are telling me that, that's still not the real me and that she doesn't deserve me and I should find someone better... and as for me , I no get time, I don man up quickly, I get bills to pay than thinking on one failed relationship....

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 7:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mikefrik:

Yes, but get married and reproduce, that was how they gave birth to an intelligent man like you.

I can do that without marriage, you know?

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 7:13pm On Dec 08, 2021
newdawn2017:
but a very lonely one especially in rainy season of cold nights.

Not so.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Splintinterior: 7:13pm On Dec 08, 2021
No. 1 is disrespect in any form and disloyalty.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:14pm On Dec 08, 2021
MartinsD12:

I hate biiiiiitches , thinking men owe them marriage in return because of sexxxxx, I hate pained biitches carrying grudges, finally I hate biiiiiitches with bad mouth like damn insultive
I feel you my nigga. Those ladies are devil incarnates. Infact, they are worse than a stagnant gutter.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
- If she isn't susceptible to emotional blackmail/manipulation, then that's the biggest, wrapper-sized red flag.

- If she ever says "my pastor/God said . . .so i can not. . .". Run from these ones. They're damaged goods.

- If she doesn't give BJs. Her ego or sense of self is clearly inflated. Jump and pass.

I'd drop more, but they might come for me.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MrMacinterchi1: 7:17pm On Dec 08, 2021
jericco1:
Ingratitude Supercilious attitude Laziness Low IQ
that ingratitude na real deal o

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by TheGreatOne90: 7:19pm On Dec 08, 2021
SirbobbyDgreat:
Is her mother living with her father?
Lol.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:20pm On Dec 08, 2021
MufasaLion:


It's not a must to have offsprings and it's not a must to marry before you have offsprings.
Oga, it's a must to have offsprings if not wetin you come do for this life? To eat, chop shit am trowey? You must get married in Jesus name. Don't disappoint the generation in you by saying this gibberish pls. I like the second sentence. But it can only happen if one is barren or infidel. So pls get married that was how they gave birth to an intelligent man like you so that you also would see your replica o.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by seanwilliam(m): 7:20pm On Dec 08, 2021
SirbobbyDgreat:
Is her mother living with her father?
Expanciate Chief
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by obinna58(m): 7:24pm On Dec 08, 2021
SirbobbyDgreat:
Is her mother living with her father?
Very important

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 7:24pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mikefrik:

Oga, it's a must to have offsprings if not wetin you come do for this life? To eat, chop shit am trowey? You must get married in Jesus name. Don't disappoint the generation in you by saying this gibberish pls. I like the second sentence. But it can only happen if one is barren or infidel. So pls get married that was how they gave birth to an intelligent man like you so that you also would see your replica o.

grin grin grin

Can you get me Gal Gadot's contact?

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Princeton92(m): 7:26pm On Dec 08, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Cheating, receiving calls outside, bad communication, slapping or beating, lies

When you say bad communication what do you mean??
Lol
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Sheriman(m): 7:27pm On Dec 08, 2021
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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Princeton92(m): 7:28pm On Dec 08, 2021
MufasaLion:
grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

Tell me more about this brother cool grin cheesy

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Enny2013(f): 7:29pm On Dec 08, 2021
Timekeeper:


cheesy

U r a great lady. U didn't reply me back with insults.

I like you lady grin
Thanks..
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ghostboy: 7:29pm On Dec 08, 2021
jericco1:
Ingratitude
Supercilious attitude
Laziness
Low IQ
90% naija girls possess these

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Princeton92(m): 7:29pm On Dec 08, 2021
Johel:



They can't tell you everything....in their truth,there will be small lies.....so I rather stay cold.

Supported

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Sheriman(m): 7:29pm On Dec 08, 2021
SirJerrie:
All these people shouting "I hate lies".. Can you withstand the truth??
Don't mind them bunch of fucking hypocrites!!
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:33pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ebubechuwku:



You are funny, read the comment over again,

Am not saying cold people are bad or are not good , they have their strength and good sides also.

My own trait, if I want something, I want it as fast as anything and I want it now now, so I can't cope with the sluggishness of cold people.. imagine petimg someone for days just because I want her to talk to me...


I once dated one cold girl, there was a time her charger spoilt, and it was so shocking, the girl was sad and kept to herself for days and I kept on asking her everyday, petting her, calling her before she told me her charger got spoilt.. when she told me, the thing vex me say na wetin dis one wan talk wey take u days.. your charger got spoilt and you don't have money to buy another one , what's so much in that that it took days for her to talk...
Okay now you explained better. But you can actually do a work in her to change her if you still want her. Or, didn't you notice she was cold before you asked her to be your fiancee?
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Dec 08, 2021
Nicepoker:
I bet is that your hotel ex. Mercy abeg leave that guy alone he is married grin

Hahahahaaaa.. na him ooo..

Leave wetin? Ta! cheesy

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