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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Rree: 8:34pm On Dec 08, 2021
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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 8:35pm On Dec 08, 2021
Nosa111:
I am a guy, but I don’t know if I should call this ignorance or illiteracy. Nor be too much Bleep Dey make Toto wide o, just the way your penis small, so theirs is natural

It's obvious you're not that experienced in toto matter grin
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by gambia(m): 8:35pm On Dec 08, 2021
sammuell:


My babe dey put her phone on airplane mode or reject call wen we dey together and the tin dey make hard for me to trust her

Planning of breaking up with her

That's a big red flag.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 08, 2021
Asking for too much money mehn I'll leave your bitch ass

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by gloriaolachi: 8:53pm On Dec 08, 2021
Nagging and keep counts or records of offences. Red flag

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Dec 08, 2021
NewSoul:

You are very right with this one GLUTTONY. That's why I run away from fat girls. Not all of them are a glutton though but must of them are. I associate fatness with being gluttonous, lazy and dirty

Not always bro. Gluttony has nothing to do with stature, albeit being fat triggers increased demand for food.

A lady once expressed interest in me, though I didn't like her that much, I was cool with her, until I noticed she was a glutton. The type to be shouting "I'm hungry o" so that people can buy her food. Tueh! angry
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by BISHOPCHARLIE: 9:12pm On Dec 08, 2021
My ex got a video from a guy, dude was celebrating my babe's birthday and switched to talking about her boobs. I didn't see the video initially until she posted same on her status.

30 seconds birthday video and goodwill greetings switched to talking about boobs? What if he's given 30 minutes to talk about her? Maybe he'll talk of how he slept with her and she was flaunting same. I broke up with her, she said I overreacted.


SirMichael1:
1. Don't know the lyrics of the song she's been hearing for over a week now but she always sings and murmur the lyrics. #Redflag!

2. When she sees sexual compliments from other guys as normal and same as mine, even to the extent of blushing. #Disrespect! #Redflag!

3. When she doesn't appreciate the little things I do for her and thinks it's my responsibility to always do them. #Underappreciated #Redflag!

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Glink2018(m): 9:13pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check on my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.


W have heard from your side of the story... let's also hear from his side of the story...there is no smoke without fire.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by lilvicky68(m): 9:18pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

They said red flags not red banners..

Too much long long talk.. grin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Melaninprincess(f): 9:26pm On Dec 08, 2021
If he doesn't drink coffee in the morning for sure. That means he's not a strong man grin

Want to win exciting gifts this period?? Then jump on the Nescafe train wink

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by labelle123(f): 9:27pm On Dec 08, 2021
Came to read lies
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by SweetDipBenny(m): 9:27pm On Dec 08, 2021
Using sèx as a weapon. If i did something wrong lets talk about it and resolve d matter, dont wait till time for sex then u start actin up. Any woman that can do that is capable of killin. Thats a Red flag bìtch

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by SweetDipBenny(m): 9:27pm On Dec 08, 2021
Using sèx as a weapon. If i did something wrong lets talk about it and resolve d matter, dont wait till time for sex then u start actin up. Any woman that can do that is capable of killin. Thats a Red flag bìtch!
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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 08, 2021
Drunkness....
Lying.......
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 08, 2021
lilvicky68:

They said red flags not red banners..

Too much long long talk.. grin

You could have just passed under the banner and gone your way.

Uchu.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by AlphaBeta130: 9:47pm On Dec 08, 2021
My Red flag; Pretending too much. Unfortunately, most ladies are pike that.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Awesometouch1: 10:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
I like your reasons.
I hope you were actually the faithful type, anyway.
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by kunle75(m): 10:09pm On Dec 08, 2021
ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.


Saving my digits with funny name or mugu 9.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Babastrong(m): 10:17pm On Dec 08, 2021
[quote author=MufasaLion post=108324255] grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man. [the fear of failure in the mind of performance is already evidence of failure for onlookers. Guy, you're a coward. I have married for the past 6years now. No regret, in fact i used to say "if i had known i would have married 10years earlier".]
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 10:21pm On Dec 08, 2021
[quote author=Babastrong post=108333410][/quote]

You ain't me, I ain't you. Stick to your choice and respect people's choice.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nosa111(m): 10:30pm On Dec 08, 2021
There is no evidence that sex makes the p**sy wide oga! They can be a little change, but not with an exaggeration. Unless you want to say the same thing that sex also make a smaller D bigger after it stretch.
DaudaTheSexyGuy:


It's obvious you're not that experienced in toto matter grin
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by macho44(m): 10:36pm On Dec 08, 2021
ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.

She BULLIED Me While We Were Doing "KPONKI-KPONKI" grin
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by macho44(m): 10:38pm On Dec 08, 2021
Melaninprincess:
If he doesn't drink coffee in the morning for sure. That means he's not a strong man grin

Want to win exciting gifts this period?? Then jump on the Nescafe train wink
I Prefer MONKEY TAIL & Baby Oku in the morning, do you mind? grin
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ghostboy: 10:41pm On Dec 08, 2021
macho44:


She BULLIED Me While We Were Doing "KPONKI-KPONKI" grin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by macho44(m): 10:42pm On Dec 08, 2021
[quote author=ghostboy post=108333908][/quote]

Only A LEGEND Will Understand grin, My Able COMRADE!!! I Salute You grin
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ghostboy: 10:46pm On Dec 08, 2021
macho44:


Only A LEGEND Will Understand grin, My Able COMRADE!!! I Salute You grin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by GhostWisperer: 10:58pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

you're cheating that's why you're worried. Funny you're not eager to prove your identity anymore than you're eager to safeguard your privacy.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by joyousever(f): 11:00pm On Dec 08, 2021
Silent reader. But I usually comment when need be.And why the tongue out?? sad angry
LesbianBoy:


Huh? I never see your moniker before o. shocked shocked Maybe you are one of dem silent readers or you once had a popular moniker and decided to open this new one. Which one is it? angry angry tongue tongue
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Holybaddo: 11:04pm On Dec 08, 2021
Once I sense you don't love me anymore boom! Am gone
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:12pm On Dec 08, 2021
KingZaddy:
...



That would definitely be body odour and mouth odor... It doesn't matter how beautiful she may be.... I'm out...



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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by StarGra: 11:12pm On Dec 08, 2021
you deserve SAN of Singles affairs..


MufasaLion:
grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

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