Quadrant4 lol you want to meet me what for? lol
The Doctor is right you don't even know me lol
Ib I truly believe in God but we shoudn't put him in everything to explain some trends. I don't think God wants us to be happy and not the contrary, and searching for marraige at any price it's not a good thing I think.

Nayah, we don hear u, U TOO HARSH SEF, PERSON NO FIT MEET YOUR FOR CONNECTIONS, SAY BIZNESS AND /OR ROMANTIC, Oya , please affix yah real pix dear, remove that model pix. na wetin cause the gbege be dat o! lol,

NO VEX O!!!!!

Da doctor lol thx for compliment lol but this me in this pic sorry to disappoint you,

Nayah i sincerely wanna know u mind giving me your number or mail address??

Quadrant4 with all due respect I think this is not the place for that hope you'll understand, and you don't know maybe I'm a vampire or gay lol better talk about the topic.

I know but i will still like to know u all the same. Well if you don't mind we can exchange mail addresses and phone number.

Quadrant'4 have you read what I said or not? lol please talk about topic do want to be embarassed

I have read it already is not about topic now sincerely is all about you and wanna know u better than on line. Pls take me serious

Mostimes women are desperate to get married,basically due to security reasons, financial security, emotional security, physical security(cos they know they fade fast like d sunset), and when married, they put all d security burden on a man and take his name in exchange for the burden, dont get me wrong here, i do not mean women do not contribute to a home financially and otherwise, but their mind is now in a state of absolute rest(and dats why they easily blow up, even without eating)
. And for you brothers, thats when you know the innate character of most women(most times u re shocked at how callous nd terrible they can be). So ladies cut that crap of sharing your love with someone nd bla bla bla, women re basically the happiest on their wedding day, inrespective of what they feel for a man, cos now they have got a life mugu, while they can now be madams nd express all their negative attributes.

MEN BEWARE: Marriage should not be rushed into cos of feminine pressure, societal pressure,or love pressure(cos reality always dawns),u should be aware of what you are going into, women always do change, nd most times for the worse.Marriage is the biggest school of life,it teaches you of the infallibility and inconsistency of the human nature.Its never a destination,its a journey, nd d road can get bumby at times.

can you pls drop me your e-mail address or phone number to hear your voice?

Nayah i am waiting for you please talk to me.

Quadrant4 lol I think you become crazy oh , can not display my adress on here, plus I'm not living in Nigeria sorry for you.

well i know friendship can start anywhere. You can send me your mail address to bankedee@yahoo.com

Babe, my sister as you said we don't know maybe I look horrible oh, my brother does not even know me lol

^^ lol--- Well, **sighs** That's a Nigerian guy for you-- so annoyingly persistent--The word "NO" doesn't exist in their vocabularies.
(I'm generalizing)   

Give him a shance though  --anytin can happen  ---do you have a significant other?

My Babe oh lol don't want to be embarrased so that people can be far from the topic! this is not a dating room.

Nayah pls just send me a mail i will reply u

looooool
dude leave Nayah alone haba
She no wan do

Nayah is not about your looks pls just send me your mail address and i will contact you from there. Thanks in advance though.

hihih Babe
Quadrant4 talk about women and marriage it's better, but thx for compliment though, you should check your mail.
Babe as for me I really wish to build a family, but this is my own decision and wish, but if our sisters or other women don't think about the same, so we need to accept it without judging them, because yes marriage is not the goal for everyone, not even for me.

Nayah why don't u wanna marry have u been disappointed before.

Quadrant4 that's what I said before you're stubbered, I said I wish I could BUILD a family with my husband, but I'm not that kind of woman chasing after marriage at any price.

I love your outspokenness and that is the more reason i wanna know u well. Hope u will not mind us knowing each others as friends?

Nayah, pls communicate with this fine bro in private by accepting his request and sending an email, if you dont like him, u can discharge him in private

so that this thread can carry on

On the marriage matter, i am also not in support of the "get married or die trying" approach, i was just offering an explanation on why women crave for a husband/companion so badly. Any other explanation that opposes this notion of the desire being innate is not understanding the matter. Its God's design.

I don't usually like to scripturise every argument, but this one is fact and the right answer, no need beating about.

I agree with kandi, you (mr OP) are not in a favorable position to criticise women and men who are desperate to get married, you dont know how they feel and how it feels. Have you ever felt incomplete, like there is a big void in your life that you really need to fill? I believe thats how they feel, and its quite unfair for you to downplay and scoff at their emotions and feelings. Its like telling someone who's hungry that he mustn't eat, or someone who's about to die that he mustn't live.
Yes marriage is not compulsory, but for some people it is.

Lol Ib sorry that's what I said to him, not disturbing this thread, and I already answered him on his mail!!
On topic thing, I guess we got the same opinion

how far has being desparete gotten anybody to marrying?

poster is so right, and mind ya all,

he didnt say u shld not get married, but it is not compulsory that u shld do silly and fetish things becos u ''just'' want to be named ""married''

It is a terrible thing for a woman not to marry talkless of not having a child in Africa. She will be called a prostitute, Ashewo, Agbakara, Agbongidi etc. Especially in her old age she will be left alone in the cold, no body to send on errand and to be close to her when she is old, ugly and wrinkled. it is a terrible thing to imagine, it is worse than AIDS itself. A woman who is not married is not respected small boys will tap her bumbum and make jest of her. Guys who want to cool off will got to her and ease up tension. Infact is a curse of a generation not to be married. Imagine from 18 years all thorugh no husband no child, it is unthinkable. It is unacceptable what was the person doing, sleeping around ofcourse, frolicking with all the big boys. All unmarried girls should be banished from Nairaland they have no shame and no respect. They are prostitute and so should be sent to a special place created for them only wherethey can stay and grow old.
Every woman must marry or have a child of their own.
YES ALL WOMEN MUST BE MARRIED

Babe! Dear

lets start ours,

PLEASE CAN U MARRY ME?

PLEASE SEND ME YOUR CAR NUMBER??

JUST CAR NUMBER