I've been feeling down lately, and my girlfriend went to chicago to visit family and she ended up saying that I could take another girl on a date because I've been so upset, but I feel like I'd be cheating on her. What do you think?

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Like I said before, my girlfriend said I could take another girl on a date while she is out of town to cheer myself up, but I feel like I'd be cheating if I did. What do you think?

She is only testing you, if you are silly enough then fall for it


Games women play mate games women play. LOL

Idk… she got upset when I said that I feel like I'd be cheating

U be capital MUMU if u do thatooooooo shey u hear

How far are you both in this relationship besause i know no woman in her right sense would willingly agree to share a man she LOVES

dats jst a test dnt fall 4 it though u can still scew around but dont let her catch u.

she gave u hall pass n ur dulling

My thing is, why have you been feeling down? Are you depressed because your "girlfriend" is out of town? Are you feeling alone, lonely etc.? Livedit hate games. Why on God's green earth would a GIRL not a woman, tell her man to go out on a date to cheer yourself up. I would be completely bothered if my man was depressed or upset. Why? Because I care about him. I'm not for the "test" games. Those can/will backfire on you. I respect the fact that you acknowleged and told her that you going out with someone else would make you a cheater. In your time of distress, she should be trying to encourage you and find a more POSITIVE way to bring your spirits up.

Mynd_44 we've been together 2 and a half years, and we've both decided to wait till we've graduated college before tying the knot.

Livedit yes I'm feeling lonely because she's out of town. It's also the fact that I wanted to go with her but I couldn't afford both our tickets.

Aawwl.  Well, that explains it a little bit better.  Have you told your girlfriend why you feel down?  I know for a man, you have pride, but maybe it will help for her to know why you are feeling the way you do right now.  Only thing I can suggest for you if you are unable to borrow the money from someone to go and visit with your girlfriend is to maybe trying to find other things to keep you preoccupied with your time while she is away. (minus the cheating)  Maybe you can try going out or hanging out with your guy friends, family, co-workers.  Do you two talk on Skype or webcam? Maybe try working OT or get a part time job, this way you can save up and then be able to plan and take her and yourself away on a trip together.  I'm sure she won't be gone forever right?  Just try to take some of this time to rediscover who you are.

No iice, I just want to know where other people stand on this and try to get some advice on how to handle this situation

How is it cheatin wen she da one dat asked u to??

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OP, i doubt if this gal of urs love u. How could she say such thing. She's probably doing the cheating where eva she is maybe thats why she is giving u the go ahead 2 do alike.

bros she don take dat one take discharge u.she don go dat side go sharpen some other guyz pencil,u dey here dey fool urself.mstchhheeewww

wait a minute!!!!!!!
so you had only enough money for 1 ticket and decided that SHE should take it and go?! and then, as she is leaving, she is telling you to go on dates with other women?!BWAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!

at least, when she comes back and tell you that SHE went on dates with guys in Chicago, you will have nothing to complain about, lol!

MRbrownJAY:

wait a minute!!!!!!!
so you had only enough money for 1 ticket and decided that SHE should take it and go?! and then, as she is leaving, she is telling you to go on dates with other women?!BWAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!

at least, when she comes back and tell you that SHE went on dates with guys in Chicago, you will have nothing to complain about, lol!

MBJ you said it all!

Mugu could only afford one ticket and gave it to her SMH. They should either have gone together or stay back together. Better still, he goes alone if he wants a vacation.

The girl is giving herself freedom to do all she wants and Mr mugu is asking NLers what to do

^^^ well said.
if she aint got money to pay for her own tix and he was paying for it then HE should have gone or they both should have stayed.
mugu indeed!!

This is be a good opportunity to go after that sexy junior sister of hers