Got a friend who is about doing that. I told her Bleep it!. take your time and know this man well. she no that she knew what she needed to know. thats the word she had been telling me a year ago when 5 diff men used and dumped her. now she is going down the same path that failed her the previous years. i that done this days?

Your friend might be one of those desperate women

Personally, I don't think so. But it's not to say someone can't actually meet the "the one" marry and actually live happily ever after.  But considering your friends repeated pasts, I can understand why you are very concerned and against her making this leap.

You've told her and pleaded with her to really think about her actions before proceeding and if she refuses to listen then sadly to say, that's on her.   It's only so much you can say and/or do considering this IS her life and she has the choice to live it how she pleases.  You've spoken your peace, so all you can do now is leave her be, pray for her and move on.  There is no need to stress or upset yourself over the decision she is making/made with her life.  You have no control over that.  If it fells, then it fells.  IF she is making a bad choice (again) then she is the one who have to live with it.  If she haven't truly dealt with whatever her issues are to why she has such low esteem or underestimate her value in these tainted relationships, she will continue to go through this until she learn the lesson that's trying to be taught to her.  Unfortunately, besides praying for her and being there to listen, there isn't much you can do.  Some people have to learn the hard way.  Eventually, she will learn "the lesson" and deal with the "issues" she has within and stop falling in these kinds of relationships.  You can't save the world and I know it's hard to sit back and watch someone you care about make one of the biggest mistakes of her life.  But she has to learn.  Remember that.

Clearly NO

OP.

NO!!!

Nayah:

Clearly NO

Sometimes you wont even know how it happens, some strange feelings will take control over you

Seriously High Chief I can have a crush but then my head will take over the rest, marriage is really meaningful for me so NO

^^^Its easier said, sometimes you dont just think with your head anymore, I dont pray to experience that but it sure happens and can happen to u too. Lol

High Chief sometimes we have to think with our brain and not our heart, difficult but it's compulsory sometimes.

High_Chief:

Sometimes you wont even know how it happens, some strange feelings will take control over you

A stranger feeling will take over you after you are married and you discover the man is not whom you though.

Thunderous NOOOOOO:,

YES OH !!!

if d guy has money u can marry him, 2dayz is even enough 2 know each other.

D world is developing fast.

op

dont u know dat d ratio of women in d world re bigger than men.

Dere by make men/husband scarce.

Godmother:

A stranger feeling will take over you after you are married and you discover the man is not whom you though.

Then you must have married him, it works out fine for some people and to some its tragedy. Anyways to me 6months is ideal