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Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by iz2much: 11:15pm On Jun 16, 2011
Got a friend who is about doing that. I told her Bleep it!. take your time and know this man well. she no that she knew what she needed to know. thats the word she had been telling me a year ago when 5 diff men used and dumped her. now she is going down the same path that failed her the previous years. i that done this days?
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by won90: 11:24pm On Jun 16, 2011
Nigerian women are specialised in that

They dont know a man and Jump into marriage with him

Just cos he came from abroad or cos hes working in a bank and their mates are already married

This is my biggest issue with them  undecided

2months after marriage - u see them cursing men and mankind say men are devils

Nutter rubbish
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by HighChief4(m): 11:34pm On Jun 16, 2011
Your friend might be one of those desperate women
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by livedit(f): 11:44pm On Jun 16, 2011
Personally, I don't think so. But it's not to say someone can't actually meet the "the one" marry and actually live happily ever after.  But considering your friends repeated pasts, I can understand why you are very concerned and against her making this leap.

You've told her and pleaded with her to really think about her actions before proceeding and if she refuses to listen then sadly to say, that's on her.   It's only so much you can say and/or do considering this IS her life and she has the choice to live it how she pleases.  You've spoken your peace, so all you can do now is leave her be, pray for her and move on.  There is no need to stress or upset yourself over the decision she is making/made with her life.  You have no control over that.  If it fells, then it fells.  IF she is making a bad choice (again) then she is the one who have to live with it.  If she haven't truly dealt with whatever her issues are to why she has such low esteem or underestimate her value in these tainted relationships, she will continue to go through this until she learn the lesson that's trying to be taught to her.  Unfortunately, besides praying for her and being there to listen, there isn't much you can do.  Some people have to learn the hard way.  Eventually, she will learn "the lesson" and deal with the "issues" she has within and stop falling in these kinds of relationships.  You can't save the world and I know it's hard to sit back and watch someone you care about make one of the biggest mistakes of her life.  But she has to learn.  Remember that.
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by Nayah(f): 12:52am On Jun 17, 2011
Clearly NO
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by Dsense(m): 12:53am On Jun 17, 2011
OP.

NO!!!
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by HighChief4(m): 12:54am On Jun 17, 2011
Nayah:

Clearly NO

Sometimes you wont even know how it happens, some strange feelings will take control over you
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by Nayah(f): 1:06am On Jun 17, 2011
Seriously High Chief I can have a crush but then my head will take over the rest, marriage is really meaningful for me so NO
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by HighChief4(m): 1:10am On Jun 17, 2011
^^^Its easier said, sometimes you dont just think with your head anymore, I dont pray to experience that but it sure happens and can happen to u too. Lol
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by Nayah(f): 1:13am On Jun 17, 2011
High Chief sometimes we have to think with our brain and not our heart, difficult but it's compulsory sometimes.
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by iice(f): 2:07am On Jun 17, 2011
Resounding NO.
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by Godmother(f): 9:51am On Jun 17, 2011
High_Chief:

Sometimes you wont even know how it happens, some strange feelings will take control over you

A stranger feeling will take over you after you are married and you discover the man is not whom you though.
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by Excelboi(m): 10:06am On Jun 17, 2011
Thunderous NOOOOOO:,
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by MMM2(m): 11:04am On Jun 17, 2011
YES OH !!!

if d guy has money u can marry him, 2dayz is even enough 2 know each other.

D world is developing fast. wink
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by MMM2(m): 11:24am On Jun 17, 2011
op

dont u know dat d ratio of women in d world re bigger than men.

Dere by make men/husband scarce. angry
Re: Can You Marry A Man You Meet Within 2 Months? by HighChief4(m): 11:57am On Jun 17, 2011
Godmother:

A stranger feeling will take over you after you are married and you discover the man is not whom you though.

Then you must have married him, it works out fine for some people and to some its tragedy. Anyways to me 6months is ideal

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