Iam in a delimma nown. I have always follow my intuition, i have been for all my adult life, a man who take his time to take a decision. Not just any decision but well thought and calculated decision that is lasting and stand the taste of time . Friends and close collegues and family members always run to me for concrete advice as they believe that i have the wisdom of king Solomon, the calmness and dexterity of an old man.
I grew up as the favourite of my uncles, aunt and other elders around the family and neigborhood. I was exremely close to my grand Father who taught me alot about life. He made understand that there is no need to be a hurry in life. I may go on and on to tell you about myself. But that is not what is bodering nown.
I am afraid to fall in love. Am in love with a lady that is very close to me. I have taught about it for over 3 months nown, but my head is blank and block. I seem not to have any decision or action to take. am confused. for the first time in my life am comfronted with a problem i cant solve. Pls help me. what do i do? am afraid of what i want, or should i go for what am afraid of. I dont need to go into any relationship as am already married. But this gal, I cant take her off my mind.

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i did get it.

Hmm