babeface3:

I told him I would contact my folks in this forum since hes not internet savvy. The simple story is that this girl has been so desperate to marry this my friend, constantly flying into Lagos from PH as if going to market from her house. He is to leave for Europe by the end of the year for further studies. she objected and he lied that he had chenged his mind. The last visit was contested but she had her way and managed to get pregnant for him which is going to 4wks. Abortion is being contemplated for my guys imminent travel but she puts immediate introduction and court marriage as a condition for it. "We have to bear a possible future outcome of the abortion together" she mused. They had just dated since last year september, though they were acquainted before then. He never ever promised her marriage or initiated the relationship. How can this desperate move be handled?

lET THE GUY BAIL OUT AND GO TO eUROPE, wHEN SHE DOESNT SEE HIM SHE EITHER ABORTS[b] OR BECOMES A BABY MOMMA[/b][/quote


good point there
but you guys shouldn't forget that if she becomes a baby momma the guy also becomes a baby dadda and has a responsibility to the child
that's the beginning of living up to your mistake and being a man!
he should plan his future with that in mind sha if she decides to keep the baby

tpia@:

condom!!!condom!!!condom!!!

i thought they taught that to all fornicating individuals.

femmy2010:


If you friend never wanted BELLE he should have used condom or abstain.

Natasha,,:

op how can you say she delibrately got pregnant for him?, did she violation him? why didn't he use domcon? or he is one of those yeye boys that will say '' she said i shouldn't use it, that she was safe'', okay well he can still go na or is he the one carrying the preg?  as for marrying her no he shouldn't but he should take care of the child when its born that's if its really his

madoba:

Straffing without condoms is asking for trouble. Your friend needs to ascertain that she is indeed pregnant by taking her to his own Doctor for a test or has he done that already?

I am not for abortion, so let your friend take responsibility for his actions by that I don't mean he must marry the chic, but he must cater for the unborn child now and continue forevermore when the child is delivered.

On the other hand if he likes (I use the word likes because love is often abused) this chic enough then he should go ahead with the introductions and all.

Richvkunt:



Lots of these posts amuse me.
Anyone with real experience about S-E-X,knows that condoms are unreliable.
Condoms TEAR [size=15pt]ALL[/size] the time!
Just confirms my belief that most people posting on this romance forum are virgins.

na which can dickosboy you get? You have to use condoms correctly even though breakage might occur, most people don't use condoms correctly, its one thing to use condom its another thing to use it correctly. Any how its still better you use it than to go in shirtless   

Richvkunt:



Lots of these posts amuse me.
Anyone with real experience about S-E-X,knows that condoms are unreliable.
Condoms TEAR all the time!
Just confirms my belief that most people posting on this romance forum are virgins.

Natasha,,:

na which can dickosboy you get? You have to use condoms correctly even though breakage might occur, most people don't use condoms correctly, its one thing to use condom its another thing to use it correctly. Any how its still better you use it than to go in shirtless   

femmy2010:


Condom tears in 5% of cases and the fact that it tears doesn't mean one should risk everything.
If you cant abstain,at least use a condom.
He shouldn't come on here and say a lady deliberately got pregnant for him after he deliberately had unprotected sex with her.

Richvkunt:

Lots of these posts amuse me.
Anyone with real experience about S-E-X,knows that condoms are unreliable.
Condoms TEAR all the time!
Just confirms my belief that most people posting on this romance forum are virgins.

femmy2010:


Condom tears in 5% of cases and the fact that it tears doesn't mean one should risk everything.
If you cant abstain,at least use a condom.
He shouldn't come on here and say a lady deliberately got pregnant for him after he deliberately had unprotected sex with her.

Richvkunt:

My brother abstainance is the only fool proof strategy.
Anything else,you are playing Russian roulette with your life.
5%? Very funneee!

MRbrownJAY:

some people make no sense, and have the audacity to call others virgin, lol!
FIRST let me just say that the condoms YOU use may be unreliable, the ones I do aint.

SECOND wearing condoms is the safest thing to do if a person dont want to get pregnant/get infected. yes abstinence would be nice but since we already confirmed that we all aint VIRGINS then that would be out the way.

THIRD some novices out there DONT KNOW how to properly wear a condom and therefore they will always break. . . . . . . not because the condom is unreliable but because they have no clue about what they are doing.

FOURTH only an inexperienced virgin would say that condoms tear. yes "some" do, but then as soon as you realize that you stand up and change condoms. the virgins are the ones who keep on fukcing thinking that the girl suddenly got juicier while in fact it's the condom that was busted.

FIFTH one of the MAIN reason why condoms tear is because the girl is dried out down below and the guy keeps on sha.gging her rather than A) get her excited and juicy again or B) get some damn lubricant. its LOGICAL!!!!!

well said, it would definitely be in the region of 5%.

practice what you preach, holy man!!!!

funny how first you insult them of being virgins BUT YET, now you are saying that being a virgin is the ONLY way to be safe, make up your mind bro, lol!!!!!!

if its ok FOR YOU to play Russian roulette with YOUR life then why would you come here and talk down on others doing exactly the same thing?!
btw, did you know that you could catch HIV/AIDS from Kissing? although the chances are slim, we should all think like you and also abstain from ever kissing.
did you know that you could get hit by a car and die, i guess we should all think like you and abstain from going outside the house.

Richvkunt:

Have you ever used one before?
Talking from my vast experience,condoms tear lots of times.Sometimes from the activity and sometimes from the contact with p.ubic hair.