Stargurl20:

I'm not oppressed by anyone. Even if there are in gold. I'm just wondering what being the good gurl has gotten me so far. Nothing. Whereas the so called wild gurls are doing perfectly. In fact, I've come to realize thatost guys just come to the public to rant they desire good gurls where as deep down it's the bad ones they want...
Being a good gurl in this Nigeria is of no single value

Stargurl20:

Don't mind all these NL's men who think I'm envious of one imaginary friend. What u commented is the reality of today's world. Gone are those days when good gurls where valued. Today's men are confused about what they want. They will see a good gurl and still not no her value..

When I see some so called bad gurls not talking about their financial achievement o...but the kind of men they end up with even u wey be good gurl gan go dey wonder if karma actually exist. I've been reading comments and my reaction so far was just nose wringing ( yinmu).

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

advanceDNA:


Bad girls never tell you what’s going on on the bad side...Until you join them....

For example, Olosho or runs babe can brag about her iphone 20 or the car she drives or even the house at lekki she collected from alhaji.....u will never know what she went tru to get all those things...

We hear of some of them eating Arab man sh!t for 6000$ dollars...don’t let anyone deceive you that one guy touch her boobbii and gave her a house in lekki

The price for being a good girl is easier, with time, hard work and improvement of skill or degree, u would have paid your dues.. las las, you go dey alright ....

Benstino:


I know it's wrong to judge people, but analysing the tone of your message simply says that you're a 'not-good-girl' who's trying to convince herself that her character can be justified.

Anyway, incase you wanna know the truth, bad girls are for fun, and the good ones are for keeping. No well-mannered man wants to raise children with a 'bad girl'. The bad ones might seem to be having success because of the corruption that's destroying our society, especially when they're still single, but on the long run, heartbreak will visit them in their families. It's inevitable.

alen4smith:
this one don chop breakfast

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Stargurl20:

Lol... NL men and their assumptions. Mitchewww

Pascopele:
Just do you, half the time the bad girls are getting married and getting the best things of life. Be smart Be good and Be Bad

Pascopele:
Just do you, half the time the bad girls are getting married and getting the best things of life. Be smart Be good and Be Bad

Stargurl20:

Thank u so much. U spoke like a sister.

Crimpsy:
what a nice advice

Never knew a girl can advice a fellow girl like this

Thumbs Up

jasminer:


I see you as a sister and I know the amount of lies that flies about. The bad girls won't tell you the truth because they want you to be like them, the good girls your age may not be experienced enough to tell you facts but I have been there and seen everything. Believed some stupid lies that nearly got me raped by some desperate guys.

That brings me to another advice for you, avoid being in any place that has a bed or any place that is too private (a place where you can have up to 10 minutes without anyone seeing you or walking past), don't believe that you guys will rent a hotel room just to gist ooo .

If you have private questions, send me a PM here, love you so much

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Stargurl20:

No.... That's who I'm. However, seeing that having that as one's personality isn't healthy in this country, I'm having a change of mind.

CountVersailles:


Lol. See this one. And you think Mercy Johnson is or was a good girl? I laugh in Swahili

Stargurl20:

Lol... NL men and their assumptions. Mitchewww

Vinnie2000:
OP, Depends on what you want. If want to smoke, drinks and receive Diccks, you re free! But know dat the deeds of Men have CONSEQUENCES!

Moloso:




Comrade Calm down if to say she is not a good girl her marriage for done crash since.

Why Tonto Dike own no last?.


No dey quick judge abeg

Stargurl20:

I never stated in my post that I'm a good gurl.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

MisterKennedy:


Hello Stargurl,

Happy new week to you

Yes, there's still tremendous benefit in being a good girl.

It seems like guys pick the bad ones over the good ones but they just do that because it's easier to get sex from the bad ones without hurdles or stress that's why but every sensible guy prefer a good girl

Stargurl please send me a message on WhatsApp 08100553547

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

slickycee:
Bad girl , Bad boy, Good girl and good boy are just labels we put on people..

The person you think is a bad girl might just be daring and adventurous, but our olodo society might call such people bad. It's just a tag , don't let name decieve you.

That good girl you're thinking of , might just be a homely , shy and churchy girl.

All these traits don't make any one bad or good they're just different characters.

Good or bad is in the heart.
The more selfish a person is , the more likely vhe or she would do wicked things.

Secondly,
You need to remember life is not the same for all of us,
That girl did this and is enjoying life, doesn't mean you would do it and enjoy life too.

God would bless everyone according to his wisdom and time.

Don't envy people or compare, God sees the heart , me and you don't.

Thirdly.
You are not for everyone and everyone is not for you.
Even if you try to be a bad girl, the same guy that you think Is confused and always pick bad girls, would still ignore you.

You can't be for everyone !!!
It doesn't work like that.
Jesus Christ wasn't even accepted in his home town.
His own people asked for him to be crucified.

It's never personal, but everyone is not for you. And even if you do surgery to look like them , or change your name to theirs, they won't still accept you.

Just love yourself and be confident I yourself.
Don't let social media or Tv fool you.


Let me say this again,
A quiet person doesn't make them good.
A shy person doesn't mean a good person.
An emotional or cry baby is not always a good person.

Those are just traits, so don't mistake them for good and bad.
We know the personality types, sanguine, melancholy, phlegmatic and choleric.
None is good not is bad.
It's what people decides to do.


Lastly,
The grass always seem greener on the other side.
Humans are naturally ungrateful, and never know the value of what they have until they Lose it.

They're many people who think bad people are having life easy, but they feel cheated , being ungrateful for the peace and blessings they enjoy.
Like my role model , J Cole said.

There's no such thing as a life thats better than yours.

They would always be someone richer than you, finer than you, more talented than you.
Like your latest would always be someone outdated, your choice would be someone Godforbid.
But you would never be happy untill you learn to love yours.



So love yourself and the things you have and believe better days are surely ahead.
If you believe what you're doing Is right , and you feel it's something that doesn't compromise your peace , please keep at it

Don't let labels decieve you or make you question your beliefs.

Stay true to yourself.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.