Naturally masturbation is good but this religion makes it look as if.....

Medianna:
See what is a relationship that is suppose to make a man better has changed his life too..
My father,my father
Any relationship that will give me ordinary headache plz take it away from me

You made sense but I noticed you a bit late. Keep it up.

Oluromantic:

This issue naturally gets settled when you fall in love with someone else.

true

Ifeanyicosta:
I don't know if am the only one that know to the logical way of stopping masturbation.it took me more than 10 years to discover that.for men only

So that men will now be quoting you asking for it abi?
Why not type it out?

Keep your nonsense solution.

Gentlerespect76:

Chaaii, see bondage and manifestation of personal inadequacy.

Be a man and move on!!! I can't support formication but look for another lady no matter how ugly self in order to liberate yourself. Note: I am not advising you to indulge in illicit sex.

Trust me, ugly or even average looking girls might not be able to turn him on. He need an extremely hot and sexy lady to overcome this.

How old are you please Bro

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

This is a mental thing...
I believe you are masturbating towards your ex's pictures simply because you haven't moved on or you haven't found a decent replacement. To break out of this habit, you need to do 3 things as soon as possible:

1. Get rid of all your ex's pictures
2. Discover a hobby to keep your mind busy (eg playing chess, reading books, writing, cooking, traveling, working out etc)
3. Take your time to find a magnificent replacement that gives you not only physical connection, but also mental/ emotional connection.
Until these things happen, I don't see you stopping this habit any time soon.

The sad part is: you are only missing her because she is no longer available; I honestly don't believe that your masturbation habit is based on love. So, just chill out, occupy your mind with other great things and find a replacement that makes your head spin.

Good luck!

Failure44:


I eat too much?

This is very funny honestly because as am speaking right now I haven't eaten any food since yesterday morning and it was a plate of spaghetti and Pepsi I ate that morning.

So believe me, food isn't the problem.

I have done a lot of researching these past few hrs and am trying my best to turn a new chapter.

Bro, try to occupy yourself with something that will keep you busy that will exust you from morning till night so when you get home after work, you will be tired to the point of retiring to your bed without even having the thought of turning on your television Set let alone press your mobile phone. By so doing, this process will not only make you forget about your ex, it will also reduces your chances of masturbating by at least 75% this I am sure of.

Simple solution

Quit Smart Phone and Internet for 12month
you will stop Mastubating because you can't masturbate without watching pornography

Simple solution

Quit Smart Phone and Internet for 12month
you will stop Mastubating because you can't masturbate without watching pornograph

TheWolfen:
It is called sexual bond.
She was able to move on but you couldn't. You guys already bonded.
My point here is for you to imagine one creating a sexual bond with different people just by sleeping with them.
Look at guys who do it. Look at girls into runs/olosho/prostitution. You see how damaged they are and got a lot of issues within themselves

This is what nobody wants to talk about.
It damage the soul but unfortunately the new world encourage it. That is why they approve abortion in most countries. It only gonna get worse..

My advice:
You eat too much that is why u still have the strength to masturbate. How about you go on 7 days fasting. 6am- 6pm and only drink water. Mind you u must keep yourself pure this seven days. At the end of the seven days fasting. Delete every pornographic content on your phone. Remove the sexual provocative pictures of your ex. The final step is to unfollow the people displaying sexual content or girls displaying their body on all your social media

Opy, listen to this man
True and but so funny

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

The most useless thread on nairaland

noCAP:
I was fvcking attached to my ex that I felt I couldn't do without her. When we eventually broke up, I made up my mind that we aren't getting back together. She came back begging, but unfortunately, my mind was already. After the break up, I fought a tough battle to get over her. And it worked. Now, 6 months into the break up, I don't feel an atom of emotion for her.

So OP, make up your mind, delete her pictures, block her everywhere. Then give yourself time to heal

Exactly

Not all this 6am to 6pm dry fast wey some people dey write upandan

IS YA MIND YOU NEED TO WORK ON BECOS YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH HER VISUALS.
KEEP TELLING YASEF EVERYDAY THAT NO BE SHE BE THE ONLY FINE GIRL O;GIRLS PLENTY THAT CARES. SUICIDE IS NO WAY OUT.
THROW AWAY HER PIX AND THEN GO GET YASEF A BETA GF WHO HAS BETA FEATURES YOU LIKE THAN HERS.

OP,this is how it works for me.
Create a mental pictcure of a troubled situation,where u will be the judge.
Place ur challenging situation on a side and place the created troubled situation on the other (could be ur mum crying out in pain,could be your lil sis been beaten up) just any picture u hold so dear.
Now decide on what to do at this point.
You will agree with me that ur present masturbating issues,is no where close to this problems,as i know u will trash away that ur ex's nudity obsession and save ur family.
Always use this comparison.

None but u can free yourself bro....

Lalami3232:
Let me ask you this question, bro. You no sure say your own version of mumuness too high? Which kind of people we even get nowadays? When some of us dey think of how to make mama and family proud, you dey think of your ex unclothedness. No be juju be that? Some of una just get preeq as men but una brain na amaka kind of brain. Continue masturbating with her pic if you think it's good for your life. At this juncture of my life eeh, I no get time to advise anybody, not even myself. Make everybody do wetin dem feel say it's right abeg.

Tuehhhhh!!!


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "E better make you born thief instead of to born mumu"

What does having a penis have to do with acting like a man? You must’ve forgotten about Bobrisky.


By the way; I’m Amaka and I’m pretty sure no one in your generation is as intelligent as me.

First Surrender your life to Jesus, delete her number, delete every single pics of her, block her from all social medias, start praying and attending church services, never be idle again. Whenever a thought of sexual immorality comes to your mind, rebuke it in the name of Jesus and walk away from there. Write it down that "From today, (date) I (your name) will never masturbate again, in Jesus name, And I bind every evil forces pushing me to masturbate in Jesus name, So help me God. Amen.

It's over hallelujah.

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

Go and watch City Hunter first. Check the scene where City Hunter look into the mirror saying "forget her". He braces up to forget Kim Nana. You can try it as well.

Here’s the problem
You still have her pictures on your phone which are very hard for you to delete

Guy man no be kuntus

Delete everything about her and ensure you block her on all social media platform which you know you might still bump into her profile

Ensure you don’t ever search out her profile to check on how she’s doing, no matter what

This is how I also got over my ex

It’s been 3yrs that I blocked her on all platform and I’ve already gotten myself a babe way sexier , Lenient , beautiful , respectful and caring and godly too with small ashawo vibes when she’s with me

No let woman cage you bc she’s comfortably sucking another guy’s gbola

After 3yrs of blocking her everywhere, just two weeks ago I summoned the courage to check her profile again on Facebook, that’s when I realized I’ve been missing her for nothing compared to the current babe I’ve got

Get your life together firstly
Then get yourself a babe from a wealthy background, I use God beg u , no date any poor man pikin

E GET WHY

GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS,
HE IS THE ONLY WAY

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

I understand your condition
But here is not the best place for advice
Go and seek for a mental health doctor
They will help you
But God will help you most
Thanks

HouseRavenclaw:




You heterosexual men are just violently mentally ill. Everything is about hyper fixating on sex. It’s just a fucken orgasm. Get over yourself. He’s clearly still EMOTIONALLY invested. Stop reducing everything to sex because you’re emotionally disabled. Whether it’s because men are not enabled to see women as beings capable of personal autonomy or he really just wasn’t ready for the relationship to end, I’m not sure but reducing it to sex?

You’re not nearly smart enough to opine on anything, let alone affairs of the heart. Waddle back underground and see if you’ll find what’s left of your IQ. Stupid misogynistic oaf.

Mr/Mrs homosexual with new account.
You too coward to write from your old moniker here. Idiooota.

Pls deal with your issues.
I am not the cause of your bitterness and frustration. You will need walk into the nearest psychiatric hospital to get check as it appears you not normal
Frustrated busybody that is completely devoid of logical reasoning, you aren't op and I never mentioned you to my initial post.
Further mentions from you will be ignored.

Nature abhors vacuum. The only solution to your madness is to get another better lady
See ladies everywhere na.

Penis enlargement products dey available.
Check my signature for all kinds of terminal diseases solutions.

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

Block her on all channels..

Delete all you have about her...Both contacts, pictures,memories....Then, get busy with work, business..

Socialize with people regardless of gender..

In few months time..you won't believe the result..Ex is a forgotten case...Maybe you can be friends years later.

Lastly, we have beautiful ladies here and there...The way you woo your ex, use same way to woo those ladies giving you green light...

If you like somebody, you walk up to her and tell her...

See it is a spirit, only genuine repentance can safe u!! If u get a new girl na double problem, it will be fornication and mastubation! Na die be that! Disease they oo!! Spiritual wife go soon join!! Be wise repent accept Jesus and it will die a natural death!! Avoid watching romantic movies! Watch genuine teaching of righteousness and holiness! I will recommend bride assembly Ijesha-Lagos and Jesus Christ temple ministry Warri I.e temple tv on you tube!! If u watch one samon that spirit will jumb out of your body!!

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

Failure44:

It's not funny at all bro, I feel mentally down these days and am not happy at all.

GO and wash your head with coconut water so that the spell the girl casted on you can leave you

Be free in the name of JESUS!!!!

Let see the evil picture first let see if it worth worrying bout for

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

What led to the breakup?

So far she's not married, scatter that her new relationship! Here's how:

Whatever it is, masturbation will bring you down and make you unmotivated to do things that will make you a better man, like work and general self care.

Set a target for yourself like 3 months, work on yourself, like hitting the gym, starting or pushing ideas that will make you money. Just focus on being successful in small small ways to boost your confidence.

Be social. Go out, take pictures, especially with fine babes and ensure you post and make sure your ex sees it.

Send her messages once in a while to check up and catchup. Or whatever it was that she liked you for originally. But not in a SIMPle way sha.

Doing some of these will help you achieve 3 things,

You will reduce masturbation (its not a crime to masturbate. It can not be stopped, dont let anyone fool you)
It will make you a better person to yourself,
And you will either get the ex back or find something else to spend your energy on.

But the goal is to scatter that her new relationship sha make everybody enter street. Lol


Be strong.

Gentlerespect76:

Chaaii, see bondage and manifestation of personal inadequacy.

Be a man and move on!!! I can't support formication but look for another lady no matter how ugly self in order to liberate yourself. Note: I am not advising you to indulge in illicit sex.

masturbating has nothing to do with having a girl, woman or a wife around, chronic masturbator will masturbate hidden from his woman why because he will enjoy masturbating than sex with women, it only takes grace of God to stop it