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I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Bvercially(m): 12:23pm On Jul 13, 2011
Lola was beginning to get exasperated with Gbenga’s incessant talk about wanting to start a relationship with her. No matter how many times she told him how disinterested she was, Gbenga refused to back out. As far as she was concerned, there was nothing appealing to her about Gbenga, who was too full of himself. She wondered for the umpteenth time why any sane girl on campus would agree to a relationship with Gbenga whose ego was the size of Olumo rock.

But Gbenga was not going to take no for an answer. His confidence came in large doses; he rarely ever got his requests turned down –– not when it had to do with intimacy with the opposite sex. In most cases, he didn’t have to do any chasing, his physical appearance and deep pocket spoke for him in no small measure. So, it was an affront to him that Lola who didn’t look half as good as the ‘sex bombs’ that swarmed round him would repeatedly turn down his request for a relationship, not even after he had put on his irresistible boyish charm.

Compared to Gbenga, Dayo was more level headed and had sincerity of purpose. Just before their final exams, she finally agreed to give Dayo a chance –– a development Gbenga didn’t find funny at all. But he managed to take the disappointment in his stride.

They soon graduated from school and, before long, each found their own level. Gbenga got absorbed into one of his father’s companies and after several months of job search, Dayo also got a job in an insurance brokerage firm. Lola wasn’t as lucky, as it took her time to get a job but she eventually did –– a teaching job in a highbrow school. Three years after graduation, Dayo and Lola settled down to marital life and immediately began the business of child bearing. In five years, they had all of their three children and concentrated on raising them.

Then one day, the nightmare that would threaten to ruin their marriage began.

Dayo complained of acute pain in his joints while at work and soon after, his eyes began to reel and then he slumped. He was rushed to the firm’s clinic where he was put on bed rest and got referred to a teaching hospital for a comprehensive test to properly corroborate their own findings. It turned out that Dayo had kidney problems and needed to be placed on dialysis before getting a replacement for the malfunctioning kidney.

This sounded like news from outer space to them. Their entire savings couldn’t pay for the required number of dialysis needed, including the cost of a kidney transplant. They soon scaled the first hurdle when a series of test revealed that his wife could comfortably donate one of her kidneys, which matched his. The impossibility of raising almost N3m to make the trip to India for the transplant stared them in the face; and the longer they delayed, the more Dayo’s health deteriorated.

Lola did everything within her power to raise the money, but it was beginning to look like an uphill task. Her school’s alumni had managed to raise about N500,000 for them, which was barely enough. Then one day, Gbenga, who was now married with children, paid the family a visit and offered to help. He would gladly give them N5m to cover their expenses and even have enough to rebuild their lives on the condition that Lola, who had long eluded him, grace his bed for one whole week.

As soon as he dropped the bombshell, he stood up and left, but not without leaving his call card on a table. Dayo and Lola could not recover from the shock of what they had just heard. They could not respond, because it sounded ridiculous to even consider. After a few days of musing over the offer, by which time tempers had simmered down considerably and Dayo’s health had really nosedived, he told Lola to take up the offer.

No man in his right senses would encourage his wife to engage in extra-marital affair. His case was peculiar and he didn’t want to die. There were a lot of things he was yet to accomplish and he wanted to die a fulfilled man, not one cut down in his prime. He promised to continue loving Lola and to never allow the action come in the way of their happiness.

To say that Lola thought it incredulous for Dayo to suggest such a thing to her would be just putting it mildly. She couldn’t, for the millions in the whole world, condescend so low to having anything to do with Gbenga. She was prepared to go cap in hand begging on the streets to raise the balance of the money, but not to be found on the same bed with Gbenga.

The die is now cast. Should Lola maintain her integrity and watch her husband die; or should she accept Gbenga’s offer as prodded on by her husband?
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jul 13, 2011
Lola this is pathetic but do not accept the suggestion of your husband to go to bed with Gbenga. While I don't pray that your husband dies, his chances of survival during the operations is 50:50. What of if he dies? Meanwhile Gbenga had slept with you for a whole week, I bet you you will not forgive yourself. Your husband who said you should go ahead is saying this (I'm sorry to say this) out of desperation. My advise is don't succumb. Hold your head high up. The Lord will make a way for you. He makes a way where there is no way. As for Gbenga I pity him. I won't say more than this, he will regret his actions.
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Dyt(f): 12:49pm On Jul 13, 2011
Sighs
crazy things u know
if u do it,ur hubby ll eventually abandon u n if u dont n anyth happens u ll neva 4give ursef
pray harder lola
God s ur strength
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by tosyne007(m): 1:26pm On Jul 13, 2011
dis aint a new story na. saw dis about a month ago or is it that the issue has not been resolved?

anywayz, the situation is dicey and i really dont knw wat to say but i pray God sees them tru dis trying period.

BTW, Gbenga na badt guy oooo. shocked
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jul 13, 2011
Are you that Cheap? undecided
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by God4: 2:02pm On Jul 13, 2011
II read the story about a month ago in Punch newspaper
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by MMM2(m): 2:17pm On Jul 13, 2011
then,
what re u waiting for. angry
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Mynd44: 6:49pm On Jul 13, 2011
She should nyash him, collect the 5m and then go back for seconds
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by ronkebp(f): 6:57pm On Jul 13, 2011
If the guy would give you 50million, take it.
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Omolola1(f): 7:03pm On Jul 13, 2011
this is very complicatd cuz if lola sleeps wiv gbenga, her hubby wud stil use it against her, and if she doesnt, her hubby might die. . .
She shud jxt pray hard, she shudnt accept d offer, even God wud b pleasd
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by DrLuv: 1:39am On Jul 14, 2011
Some people can be so mean and inhumane,taking advantage of the afflicted.
Nope,she should not take the offer,I know its a difficult situation.they should try and explore other options like churchs ,there are ministries inclined to assisting in cases like this;financially or otherwise.besides its not going to be out of place if the can just believe God for a miracle.there are. Some great healing true ministers of God around right
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Nobody: 2:05am On Jul 14, 2011
Cheap Hot hungry yoruba girl. . *no tribal hate intn*
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Pafuri(m): 2:43am On Jul 14, 2011
I'll pay 3 milla. Take it or leave it. grin grin grin
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Mynd44: 2:59am On Jul 14, 2011
Okay lets flip things if the girl was the one on the dying bed would you advise the guy not go get laid by some chick who promises to pay her health bills?
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by 677ano(m): 3:49am On Jul 14, 2011
Bvercially:

Then one day, Gbenga, who was now married with children, paid the family a visit and offered to help. He would gladly give them N5m to cover their expenses and even have enough to rebuild their lives on the condition that Lola, who had long eluded him, grace his bed for one whole week.

As soon as he dropped the bombshell, he stood up and left, but not without leaving his call card on a table. Dayo and Lola could not recover from the shock of what they had just heard. They could not respond, because it sounded ridiculous to even consider. After a few days of musing over the offer, by which time tempers had simmered down considerably and Dayo’s health had really nosedived, he told Lola to take up the offer.
For Gbenga to appear and make such a proposal indicates he might be responsible for their predicament
Secondly the husband is wrong and selfish to ask her to accept such a proposal, he will definately throw it at her face as soon as he is well and okay or better still leave her for another woman. It is better for him to seek financial assistance elsewhere than to subject his wife to such a degrading ordeal
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by onenighty: 7:34am On Jul 14, 2011
So if she nyashes him for 2Weeks that is 10million naira

and 3weeks that is N15 million - waooooooo!

That is money!! shocked shocked
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 8:53pm On Jul 14, 2011
Peanuts to give up happiness for.
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Dyt(f): 9:28pm On Jul 14, 2011
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Gbenge77(m): 6:47pm On Jul 15, 2011
@op,follow your heart.
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Payoyo(f): 11:02am On Jul 16, 2011
@ poster

Its really a pathetic situation but I will advise you not to do it. Dont sleep with him no matter the condition of your husband.

Your faith in God is really being tried in this situation. Dont listen to the advice of ur husband cos he was only saying that out of desperation. You might do it and lose ur husband after the transplant & live with the regret all days of ur life.

Just believe in God that makes a way when it seems that there is no way. No temptation that wil come over you that God wil not give you a way out.

Meet your local pastors, media houses for help but pls dont give him ur body,

May peace of God be wit you.
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Nobody: 11:19am On Nov 16, 2011
sexkillz:

Are you that Cheap? undecided
HYPOCRITE! angry angry angry angry[color=#000[/b]099][b][/color]
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by eghost247(m): 11:33am On Nov 16, 2011
[size=13pt]Fiction sounds Like a nolly wood movie to me,  undecided[/size]
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Flashaldrin(m): 12:05pm On Nov 16, 2011
eghost247:

[size=13pt]Fiction sounds a nolly wood movie to me, undecided[/size]
it is! But i like the story shaa. I swear if its me and i cant see any other means, hmmm,,,,,, tough situation buh life is far more important!
But finally, the couple should just present this story to nta, with a picture of gbenga looking as evil as possible. I'm sure it will garner enough response, even boko haram will contribute sth.
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by lifestyle1(m): 8:39pm On Nov 16, 2011
[size=15pt]Don't do it ! sad[/size]
Re: I Am Married But Another Man Wants Me For N5m by Exponental(m): 8:26am On Nov 17, 2011
Money!
If u has 2 do it, anyway if nt done by now, terms n conditions should apply.

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