Hi guys ...I'm ready to settle down , but out of curiosity ,I'd love to ask the married folks among us about the things to look out for before settling down with her? I really don't want to make a mistake.

Accomodative to others (Big heart).

A dig beek

Ishilove:
A dig beek

This is very essential in rainy season

Ishilove:
A dig beek

I saw what you did there

Big boobs and hefty ass






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If she vex, she dey enter kitchen? Knife issues o

Anything that's not a threat to your life is okay...

Madnesses and weréy: yes very important I'm a living witness, my uncle nah ibo man nickname (baba oshodi), him go marry Yoruba caring and loving lady wey get gbana and shókó anyway they are living well and , but sometimes ehhh when weréy jamb weréy.

Damnnn niggar

Check wether her sympathy and empathy hormone dey increase anytime you have problems

If yes then you are good to go

Shegzdave:

I saw what you did there

What did I did?

gnykelly:


This is very essential in rainy season

I concur

Ishilove:
A dig beek

You're a bad girl Ishilove

Acidosis:


You're a bad girl Ishilove

How na? But you do know 'beek' is a word?

Ishilove:

What did I did?

You did what you did
Bad girl

Shegzdave:

You did what you did

I didn't know what you are talk about

Ishilove:

I didn't know what you are talk about

You got me confused at first but later I knew you’re passing a message across

Shegzdave:

You got me confused at first but later I knew you’re passing a message across

I still don't know what you're talking about

For me o, let her know how to cook and the other room. The remaining we go manage am.

Ishilove:

I still don't know what you're talking about

You and big gbola ehhn

Ishilove:

How na? But you do know 'beek' is a word?

I know right

Anyway, it's important raw material

KingintheNorth:
Hi guys ...I'm ready to settle down , but out of curiosity ,I'd love to ask the married folks among us about the things to look out for before settling down with her? I really don't want to make a mistake.

True love

KingintheNorth:
Hi guys ...I'm ready to settle down , but out of curiosity ,I'd love to ask the married folks among us about the things to look out for before settling down with her? I really don't want to make a mistake.

Peace
It's very important, marry someone you can find peace in

Her virtues, this is the most important thing to look for in a woman. Her virtues are the building bricks that make up her character, and when you marry a woman, you basically marry her character. Check this website below, they contain a list of virtues to look out for.

https://www.virtuesforlife.com/virtues-list/

Also, check my topic on what to look out for in a woman before getting married to her.

https://www.nairaland.com/6253429/traits-man-should-observe-woman

Think of virtues like an app you install on your phone. If your phone doesn't have WhatsApp for example, then you can't enjoy the benefits of being on WhatsApp such as group chat, communicating with customers, etc. Now here comes the trick. If your wife's phone has WhatsApp, then she will suffer because you will have to always use her phone instead. You will use up her sub, run down her battery, and just inconvenience her.

Now substitute the app with virtues. If your woman doesn't have the virtue of contentment for example, then you will suffer, because you will have to probably overwork yourself to meet her dissatisfaction. The same goes for virtues like faithfulness. If she is not faithful but promiscuous, then she will bring disease and a bastard for you to father, and you will suffer. If she lacks the virtue of forgiveness, then she will remind you of something wrong you did twenty years ago, and hold you to it, so bitterness and anger you shall deal with.

If she lacks the virtue of a supporter, then you will overwork yourself to death, and if anything happens to you, the whole family will crumble. If she lacks the virtue of peace, then you will probably first go crash for beer parlor, then come back home at 12am so you can just sleep and go to work early in the morning because you don't want to deal with her anger. I can go on and on, but you get my point. If you marry a woman without virtue, YOU WILL SUFFER. It is sad people have reduced marriage to artificial things such ''she get big yanssh'' and ''he is rich'', but it transcends that. Marriage is basically a place where all the virtues you have been developing while being young are put to test.

Material wealth only makes you enjoy your marriage more, it is not the qualifier of a good marriage. Life is lived immaterially, and the material compliments it, not otherwise. In other words, you do not sacrifice your health (immaterial wealth) for a job (the material), but you go to the job so you can have money to improve your health. So when you realize that the necessary skills to have a good marriage are not dependent on money, the better for you. Marriage is sweet when two people with high virtue become one, trust me, it's heaven on earth. I have been there, well not marriage, but dated a woman where material things never came in between us, where our best memories have nothing to do with money, and so on.

So my guy, virtues. Virtues. Virtues. These are what you should look at. For example, If she is a hardworking woman and frugal, but poor now, then it's only a matter of time before she will be rich, so the virtue of ''hard work'' has to be there. On the other way round, if she is not hard-working but knows how to spend, spend your money, of course, then it's only a matter of time before both of you will run down, especially in this Buhari era. So you see, I am pondering on this virtue thing because it is the absolutely important thing to look out for in a woman. A woman that makes your home peaceful, not quarrels because things are hard on you. Good luck my guy.

Her family.pay close attention to her mum how she treats her dad, most ladies take after their mum when they marry

Op.. there is nothing to look out for. Just marry who you can tolerate. It's all.

Look out for her Mileage....just the way we do when buying a car .


You cant afford to marry a lady whose mileage (bodycount) has gone very far.

My 2cents

GOFRONT:
Look out for her Mileage....just the way we do when buying a car .


You cant afford to marry a lady whose mileage (bodycount) has gone very far.

My 2cents

How can one check?
By asking her abi thermometer don dey

Toxicity
You’ll know a toxic lady when you see them

this is enough for me

If she from a poor background .. e go hard ooh

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...