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Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
adeogunn:hmmm ur name is adeogun, but trust me, ur jazz or ogun no go work on this one o |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 7:07pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: This is one of the moments I like singing one of my favourite nelly hooks: "She's right, you kno? Sheeeeee's right!" |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Cuddlemii: 7:14pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Sagamite: This is one of the moments I like singing one of my favourite nelly hooks drop down and get you eagle on segamite, flap your wings |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 7:36pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: You will have to shake that ish your mama gave you while dancing in front of me and then you will see how I get my eagle on. Princek12: Even though you make alot of sense and I agree with you, she is right! How does claremont know that this applies to the OP? Some women might just be unfortunate. When I see women getting older complain about not finding someone, I normally have zero sympathy. I can only have sympathy for those that: a) Dated a guy for long and were jilted. b) Dated a guy for long and he did something that they reasonably couldn't be expected to continue with him. c) Are not great looking and struggle to get attraction. If a woman has average or above looks and is struggling to find a man at a later age and has not had any of the problems listed, I have absolutely nada pity. It is hard to have any pity when, as a guy, you have seen people like them when they are young (and the current young ones) with their absolutely shyt attitude. More so, no disrespect, Naija girls. I don't know the poster and can't talk about her character, but majority of Naija girls are shyt heads. I say that without reservation. I am purely being objective. Naija girls need to unlearn that culture of being rude and disparaging to men to show they are "too much" or "holy". 1 Like |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by monblaze(f): 7:49pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Eyaa dearie, im praying 4 you sha |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by SSaemoenl(m): 7:54pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Then You 're QUALIFIED as your name implies. Sucks, but u are saying no young guys confronts us, My quest is this: Will they be seeing u going out with PAPAs and still expect them to date u when seeing alllllll those mens' I cant try that girl. Change ways and even relocate to attract a new life, but only if u can end dat habit. Change dear. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Cuddlemii: 8:06pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
@segamite men dt brag have nothing to show off. ur eagle is under construction I presume dt why u spend a lot of time glancing at Kunbee's displays. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by ace4luv69(m): 8:16pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
It happens! May be u are just 2 fine |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by anishe(m): 8:17pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
What is bad in married men asking you out? perhaps it has been destined you are to be a 2nd wife. PLEASE, jump at the gesture and get hooked. Time is not on your side. It is obvious we have more marriageable ladies than marriageable guy and guys are not willling to settle down on time. As such, taking 2nd, 3rd anf 4th wives becomes a very viable alternative otherwie, some women will never be hooked if we maintain the ratio of 1 man to 1 woman. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 8:21pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: Kunbee's displays make my Eagle fly. The hook to those are: "I believe I can fly. I believe I can tosh the skies!" Why do all these NL women keep on calling me S[b]e[/b]gamite. Una dey play SEGA games for una youth? |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by donald1010(m): 8:25pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
not too worry,since u have brought the issue right on here,i bet with you, you will surely get a better one and of your choice on here, just be patient and b prayerful but do not be moved by the things you see or here from men, be very careful, anyway,here is my contact,you can reach me anytime any-day, i'm also interested in getting to know you more, 08032877537,08025268564, hope to hear from you soonest, takia!!! |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Cuddlemii: 8:27pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Sagamite: Why not get ur eagles flown with real women |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by claremont(m): 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
I like the way some persons have totally ignored the plight of the Poster, and colluded to severely derail this thread ; way to go guys! |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sagamite(m): 8:44pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: Me? I no get game o. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Cuddlemii: 8:55pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Sagamite: I figured but ur magic school bus bag does. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by delpee(f): 9:00pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
@poster Its never too late. A 40 year old cousin of mine is getting married soon. She was jilted after a long courtship and nobody came her way until recently when a relative advertised on her behalf in a newspaper! Of course there were many unserious callers but she finally found her soulmate in a 45 year old man who was also jilted though he has a child. I remember she had callers aged above 32 from Abuja but was not interested because of the distance. For me the newspaper idea is risky but there singles fellowships and agencies that link people together. Find out such places in Abuja and take to some reasonable advice given on this forum with regards to your dressing and behaviour. I pray that you meet a man who will make you happy afterall. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Pafuri(m): 9:04pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Unbelievable! Everyone here is telling you to call on God. I, THAT I AM havent heard from you. Now get down on your knees and give me, a BJ. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by infofta(m): 9:19pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
I hppe you never friend your husband pass. Try to dress decent instead of exposing your breast. Stop looking for high class guys or those driving expensive cars Don't let your behaviour show you are expensive Be humble and don't be harsh Check your lifestyle and your environment. Study guys that come your way and avoid club guys they will never get married in the next ten years. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by lareine(f): 10:02pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
@ poster, I'm 32 too and single but not desperate. I have a man who wnats to marry me but I'm not sure I want to marry him. Many of my friends are married. But you see, as much as I want to get married, I'm not desperate cos that's what men don't want. You are not old, you are a young woman only matured and know better how to handle marriage. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I buy cuddlemi's advice, aplly it and pls invite nairalanders when the wedding bells start ringing. In the mwantime, get busy and your man is on his way. Love! 1 Like |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Debokan: 10:13pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Try and date a married man they are more caring. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Select(m): 10:52pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
@ Obowunmi, Hi, can u pls send me a mail on select500@yahoo.com it's quite urgent pls. thnks. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by MrsChima(f): 10:54pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
OP Have you asked yourself why YOU ARE ATTRACTING MARRIED MEN? Why would you want someone's sloppy seconds or leftovers? |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Cuddlemii: 11:07pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Misbee: thanx. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by boomssey(f): 11:19pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
@posta,we both av similar case,bt in mine its guys younger dan i am(am not up 2 ur age nway) dat usually ask me out n in most cases i do turn dem down cos i knw dey aint crius,jst wana av fun.most of dem r my last younga bro's age.ders even 1 who has bin avin did crush 4 me bt dont av d lever 2 com up 2 me.bt its neva 2 late 4 GOD 2 do woteva he'll do.so dnt giv up hope my sis,kip prayin. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 11:22pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Hmm, do you look your age or older? |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Sacarstic: 11:27pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Dear Poster,it is really sad,be yourself, don`t try to pretend,be humble and modest in everything you do,just go about living your life as each day comes,forget about desperation and what the world thinks of your single status,you can only hear what they say if you care to listen. Take a deep look into your life may be you have made some mistakes when you were younger by been choosy,arrogant,proud etc if that be the case ,consider publishing a book to help the younger ones who could just be making the mistake you made, rest assured you will have inner joy and fulfillment even when no single guy comes around. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by boomssey(f): 11:32pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
@ candiikane,it depends on how u c me. |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 11:45pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
^^Right, ok. .Are these married men the same age as you or older and when you say younger men do you mean men younger than you? |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by cashful(m): 12:41am On Jul 17, 2011 |
@op, there are some nice responses here, that could be useful to you, be yourself, don`t try to pretend,be humble and modest in everything you do,just go about living your life as each day comes,forget about desperation and what the world thinks of your single status,you can only hear what they say if you care to listen. also Try and socialize, keep the right group of friends and who knows anything can happen. and Asides beauty, you have to be well behaved, have principles & all the wifely characteristics. then answer the following questions I think you need a self evaluation. You are the one who knows yourself. Are you arrogant? Are you too flashy? Do you live a flamboyant life? Do you frown all the time? also It can also be that you are too choosy. are you? i am afraid this might not work but rather lead you to more married men Take yourself out once in a while and spoil yourself. Please don't be desperate, you are not too old as some as pointed here, hoping it ends well for you |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 12:50am On Jul 17, 2011 |
kandiikane: Hey babe |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by kandiikane(m): 1:05am On Jul 17, 2011 |
Hey you, how are you? You know I am abit confused-are you male or female? |
Re: Only Married Men Ask Me Out! by Kunbee: 1:14am On Jul 17, 2011 |
Am fine o and you? What do you think my gender is and does it matter |
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