caesymore:


last last na h

Delight2014:
Most girls these days are so desperate to the extent that they will do anything just to get married.
There are a lot to learn in marriage which most of them didn't know, all they want is to enter into a man's house

BigBashiru:
I am grateful for the redpill for opening my eyes about the female gender.... the greatest thing the red pill has taught me about the female gender is to be on guard against their manipulative nature....

Met a girl recently. First she lied about her age (she said shes 26 but she looks 28 - 30). Then she said she has only had one boyfriend. Then she is always posting pictures of babies to her social media...

When I met her she said: 1. A woman must be working to support her husband. 2. The man is free to have girlfriends even when married to her that its fine 3. Marriage is better than boyfriend and girlfriend....

A part of me tells me she is only saying these ideal things because she wants to get married asap. And that she will change/ renege on the money aspect once she locks down a guy....

Fast forward 6 months, one day she tells me that she has a question for me that I should answer honestly: "What plans do I have about her?". I then told her im not looking to rush into anything that if other guys are coming her that she should be free...she then stops sending me messages.

Lessons
1. This is a desparate and calculated woman who said the below three things just because she knows thats what a guy wants to hear...
*. A woman must be working to support her husband. *. The man is free to have girlfriends even when married to her that its fine *. Marriage is better than boyfriend and girlfriend....

2. All she cares about is that she wants to get married; she does not care about the decision of the husband.... you do not want to allow the to-be husband to make up his mind Her approach is "are you interested or are you not interested"

3. Why lie - a 26 year old cannot hv had only one boyfriend in todays world - she lied about age and number of partners - should I really go into marriage with a liar who lies to suit herself??

4. She wants to get married because of what the marriage can do for her not because of what she can offer me....

Comments welcome please.... No insults or time wasting comments please.

Delight2014:
Most girls these days are so desperate to the extent that they will do anything just to get married.
There are a lot to learn in marriage which most of them didn't know, all they want is to enter into a man's house

DBestDoc:


Keep deceiving yourself while claiming redpill

You said she looks 30 already yeah?
So in your head, you expected a 30 yr old lady to keep wasting her time with you when you clearly told her you have no long term intentions for her? Did you really expect that she would keep communicating with you while entertaining new love interests? So that tomorrow, you’ll either call her a cheat or an evening news paper.

The girl is a sincere person and not ready to mess around. Reason she told you from beginning that she wants marriage and not the foolishness people do in the name of dating.

You better wake up and look for a younger girl that’s not ready for marriage yet since that’s where you’re at now. The said lady did nothing to you to deserve the venom you’re spewing. She needed clarity of purpose after 6 whole months of dating, you gave it and she made her choice.

Only if you boys know how you sound each time you mention Redpill ee, Clowns!

BigBashiru:


What's "h".... hoe??

BigBashiru:


The mistake women make is they want to do things on their terms.... I did not say I'm not interested I just said I want to be careful what I'm getting into.... I want to take my time cos I can't afford a bad marriage. I don't want to rush in and rush out...

If the girl was smart what she should hv done is date a pool of 5-10 guys and the first to express interest in marriage wins...

It's not my fault time is not on her side.... if time is not her side that doesn't mean I shouldn't take my own time you get it

There's nothing I hate more like thinking only to suit one's self.... she wants to get married fine and she wants to dictate terms including when I make up my mind.... it doesn't work that way given that marriage is a liability to men anyway

DBestDoc:


No sir
From your original post, you told her you’re not looking to having anything serious now and IF OTHER GUYS COME, SHE’S FREE TO GO.

A decent girl will have to close one chapter before opening another one to avoid a case of “ we were dating and I suddenly saw her wedding IV online”.

Some people are not wired to be deceitful.
So yeah, she did nothing and agreed it’s not your fault that she feels ready for marriage but don’t condemn her for doing the right thing.

DBestDoc:


Keep deceiving yourself while claiming redpill

You said she looks 30 already yeah?
So in your head, you expected a 30 yr old lady to keep wasting her time with you when you clearly told her you have no long term intentions for her? Did you really expect that she would keep communicating with you while entertaining new love interests? So that tomorrow, you’ll either call her a cheat or an evening news paper.

The girl is a sincere person and not ready to mess around. Reason she told you from beginning that she wants marriage and not the foolishness people do in the name of dating.

You better wake up and look for a younger girl that’s not ready for marriage yet since that’s where you’re at now. The said lady did nothing to you to deserve the venom you’re spewing. She needed clarity of purpose after 6 whole months of dating, you gave it and she made her choice.

Only if you boys know how you sound each time you mention Redpill ee, Clowns!

blinking001:

If she's half as decent as you portray her to be, how come she's almost 30 and unmarried?

BigBashiru:


Lol age is just a number... its not even about that.
The question is why should I align with her time frame?

I dont have a problem marrying a 30 year old woman.... but wanting me to align to her own timeframe is what I dont want which is more of a redflag.

I dont mock babes for age - its not cool - guys should stop doing that.

Some are 30 and unmarried due to life circumstances.

blinking001:

I quoted that 'F' moniker not you. For the records age isn't just a number, a womans past can impact your present and future both positively and negatively. You should have a problem marrying a 30 year old woman. What does a 30 year old woman has to offer you that a good/sensible 21-25 year old woman can't?

blinking001:

I quoted that 'F' moniker not you. For the records age isn't just a number, a womans past can impact your present and future both positively and negatively. You should have a problem marrying a 30 year old woman. What does a 30 year old woman has to offer you that a good/sensible 21-25 year old woman can't?

Ardar:
Till today, am still trying understand how redpill only apply to women and not life in general.

Its like Nigerian males have colonized and turned it into a gender hating and bashing movement especially all these small small boys.

BigBashiru:


The redpill was never about life in general.... and it was not meant to be a woman hating movement....

The redpill keeps women accountable and makes men aware of their manipulations... other examples of female manipulation:

1. Using babies to trap men to be their providers.
2. Using beauty to manipulate 20 men into giving them money at the same time.

BigBashiru:


Females that are 21 - 25 years old are not ready to settle down.... this is the harsh truth. This is for a number of reasons:

1. Still a lot of options as guys flock and approach her everyday.
2. Still thinking she has a lot of time.
3. Her parents "wanting her to finish school"
4. Her parents thinking she is still too young etc.
5. Still thinking she can get a better man.

21-25 year olds are girlfriends not wives....

Ardar:


Tell me you know nothing about the redpill without telling me you know nothing about the redpill.

DEFINITION OF REDPILL AND BLUE PILL (SOURCE: WIKIPEDIA)
The terms "red pill" and "blue pill" refer to a choice between the willingness to learn a potentially unsettling or life-changing truth by taking the red pill or remaining in contented ignorance with the blue pill. The terms refer to a scene in the 1999 film The Matrix.

I don't remember keanu reeves choosing the redpill because of a woman in the movie. Lol

crystalmoon:
after all age is just a number and jail is just a room

blinking001:

What type of women do you guys meet for crying out loud? Stop dating or considering street/poor girls as prospective wifey materials because they aren't. Like i earlier stated 'sensible' women between the ages of 21 to 25 not just anyhow street biitch whose families are probably still struggling.
Nowadays, they are more women graduating from the universities at 19.
Most sensible girls from rich/ middle class homes are graduates already before they turn 21 years of age. You should work your ass out to be that high value man she would want to settle down with at 21.

Marrying a 30 year old woman is like settling for a naija use car when you can afford a better tear rubber car. It's a major disservice to ones soul.

You disrespect your physical and spiritual self the moment you decide to settle down with a 30 year old woman because she has nothing to offer you.

A womans worth is in her youthfulness, her body, her ability to be feminine, her ability to be easily agreeable, submissiveness and loyal. not in her career, Phds and societal placement. Know the difference.

A 30 year old woman in the sexual market place is worthless.

blinking001:

My brother no mind dem. I don tire with all this their analogies. When it boils down to women, age matters alot. That is how some of them will foolishly get married to a 35 old woman and be praying for fruit of the womb. Lol

blinking001:

What type of women do you guys meet for crying out loud? Stop dating or considering street/poor girls as prospective wifey materials because they aren't. Like i earlier stated 'sensible' women between the ages of 21 to 25 not just anyhow street biitch whose families are probably still struggling.
Nowadays, they are more women graduating from the universities at 19.
Most sensible girls from rich/ middle class homes are graduates already before they turn 21 years of age. You should work your ass out to be that high value man she would want to settle down with at 21.

Marrying a 30 year old woman is like settling for a naija use car when you can afford a better tear rubber car. It's a major disservice to ones soul.

You disrespect your physical and spiritual self the moment you decide to settle down with a 30 year old woman because she has nothing to offer you.

A womans worth is in her youthfulness, her body, her ability to be feminine, her ability to be easily agreeable, submissiveness and loyal. not in her career, Phds and societal placement. Know the difference.

A 30 year old woman in the sexual market place is worthless.

BigBashiru:


You have a good point here oh.... very good point. I also think it speaks to the woman's real character for her to want me to work to her timeline.... as opposed to letting things flow naturally....I.e. for her to have asked me after just 6 months of telephone long distance talking what plans I hv....

BigBashiru:


Let me ask you a question. Pls respond honestly... Would you marry a woman that lied about her age?? And why??

blinking001:

I can't marry a woman that lied to me about her age becuase who knows what other secrets she's hiding behind closed doors? It's highly disrespectful for a woman to lie to her man. It's an unforgivable sin.

BigBashiru:


Not only that but it also breaches trust....

blinking001:

Trust? You trust women? You trust a being whose emotions dictate their every actions?