I'm really not myself right now. My babe And i have been together for abt a year now And i loved her But i think she loved my much more. So In a bid to fulfill all righteousness i Went to my pastor abt her And we Went to The mountain And prayed after Which if told me that she was not The one for me. That if we go ahead The union will be a sad one. I didn't want to take it at The 1st instance But he made me understand that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. I then kept it to myself for abt 3 days before i broke The news to her. She cried her heart And eyes out. I was helpless And that got my thinking. What do i do? Do i continue And damn The consequences or what? I can't bear The pain she could be going thru. She's such a good girl.

@op

This is what happens when you spiritualise everything.
The pastor is only there as a spiritual adviser but He is not God [/b]and therefore should [b]not determine your destiny.

Who told you that God still resides in the mountains?I know what you mean here but please lets respect God enough at times and do the right thing at the right time and in the right way.Read the scriptures well.

Listen please; God gave us a manual! but we refuse to read it, then we go pray and fast in order to get a quick answer.
We start seeing crazy visions and hearing crazy voices and say God spoke.Question is 'Is it in line with the manual called Bible?

If the bible says He will fulfill the desire of your heart, then ask youself what kind of woman do I desire? There's nothing spiritual here.
Look for a quality woman not one that can prophecy and speak in many tongues! it never makes a wife afterall.

God brought you your heart's desire but instead of embracing it,you went to seek more counsel and prayers. 

He gave us Brains and to use so that we dont keep pestering him with silly questions.

I will not tell you what to do cz you broke a good girls heart. If I were you[b] I would give her a chance and see how things go[/b]
Start hearing God for yourself.Then approach the pastor to wed you.He doesnt have to know about your love life.
good luck

Pastors do that all the time and I think it's very wrong!
GO AHEAD AND MARRY THAT GIRL. If you don't, next thing you'll see is the Pastor's best usher marrying your girl all in the name of "submitting to God's will".

If I were you, I'd marry that girl!

If the pastor is a REAL pastor,he would have prayed against the unseen ''problems''
well what can i say,you already gotte yourself into a deep shiit,
Pray about it and follow your heart.

@poster
the pastor didnt MAKE YOU break up with her, YOU broke up with her when you decided that what this "criminal in a robe" says is more important than what you think.

GO COMPLAIN TO HIM AND ASK HIM TO FIND YOU A GF!!!!!!

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
the pastor didnt MAKE YOU break up with her, YOU broke up with her when you decided that what this "criminal in a robe" says is more important than what you think.

GO COMPLAIN TO HIM AND ASK HIM TO FIND YOU A GF!!!!!!

I agree. LMAO at the bolded.