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Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by smootheb(f): 11:34pm On Jul 26, 2011 |
REALITY101: I see someone has a sense of humor, google it |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Jenifa1: 11:39pm On Jul 26, 2011 |
smootheb: lol please don't make me choke on my drink. if you have to create a thread on nairaland to ask strangers for "the truth" about your partner , then sorry to inform you, you seem like a desperate woman. why don't you go find yourself someone more trustworthy? or wait for the right time? God I hope my life doesn't become like this. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nekai(f): 11:41pm On Jul 26, 2011 |
Why do we women tend give our hearts away before a guy gains our trust? If you would go halfway around the world to see if he is trustworthy, then it is obvious that you are willing to invest too much. You should be focused on getting to know him as a person. He could be a great person that is serious about being in a relationship but what if he is not right for you? When you focus on where the relationship is headed before you are comfortable with who he is then it seems like you just want any guy that will settle down, and not him specifically. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by MrsChima(f): 12:13am On Jul 27, 2011 |
smootheb: Suga, you should have listened to Koyoke when he first warned you. He is a NL veteran and he knows the audience well. He is right. You will not get the answers you are looking for ON THIS SITE. Visit the country FIRST and see what it about then draw your own conclusions base on your OWN FINDINGS. Life is the best tutor. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Jenifa1: 12:22am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: check these out: "Experience is the best teacher, but the tuition is high." "Learn from other people's mistakes, you don't have time to make all of them yourself" |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by MrsChima(f): 12:23am On Jul 27, 2011 |
I like that. I agree. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by smootheb(f): 12:36am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Nekai: I haven't given my heart away yet, I'm very protective of my heart so he won't get it fully until I know for sure he deserves it. I will not go to Nigeria with him at this point, no way. Not until I understand more about his family situation. I'm still getting to know him, just don't want to waste my time. shelylilly: Thanks for your opinion hun. Some heartfelt advice there. I needed to hear that. Jenifa_: I agree whole-heartedly, but getting too old to waste my time on having "experiences" so I have the attitude that I have no problem walking away from a situation that isn't working but I do like to exhaust all opportunities to make it work. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nobody: 1:40am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Sorry. . I'm from the USA and we don't have google here. . |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by smootheb(f): 2:05am On Jul 27, 2011 |
REALITY101: If at first you don't succeed, try, try again! I'm sure you will be victorious in the end my dear. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nobody: 2:08am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Which part of the US are you maybe I need to come over there to use google |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nobody: 2:12am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Poster, I hope in a few years, you dont come back here bashing the women of your naija boy's ethnicity. Yoruba men tend to do that ish to us. They romance non-yoruba women, bounce after a few weeks, then those women come here typing ish about Yoruba women. So as a Nigerian and Yoruba woman, I'll be str8forward with you; DONT WASTE YOUR TIME. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nobody: 2:14am On Jul 27, 2011 |
And your point is - - - -? |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by smootheb(f): 2:42am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Ileke-IdI: I will never blame a woman for a man's selfish ways, no matter what if he is supposed to be committed to me and he steps out, HIS FAULT, period. If my dude's story is true that is some trifling ish the woman did but men need to learn not to put themselves in situations where women with sly intentions can take advantage of them. But for a man to cheat and say oh darling she just seduced me I couldn't resist, eff outta here. You mean your penis just happened to fall inside of her? Really? LOL. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Mynd44: 3:12am On Jul 27, 2011 |
I like the OP she is hmm, Stimulative. Girl do whatever you want btu I will still advise you to see his failt and do a little Sherlock Holmes. Try asking to meet his child( Nigerian men don't mess with those) meet his sisters who are likely to be the family gossips and if by then you cannot find the truth you seek, then your are beyond help. Gosh can't believe I am staying up to reply on this |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Mynd44: 3:55am On Jul 27, 2011 |
And who said a traditional marriage is not binding? Did you not do social studies in primary school? And if you did how many types did your teacher tell you we have in Nigeria? |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by MrsChima(f): 8:27am On Jul 27, 2011 |
I guess to whomever that said it, if there aren't a legal contract of marriage then the marriage is not valid which is BULLSHIT because there are MILLIONS of people who are traditionally married around the world even in America but only recognized in SEVERAL states that supports Common Law marriages. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nobody: 10:41am On Jul 27, 2011 |
Please safe yourself all the stress ask him to show you the green card you do not trust him. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by smootheb(f): 10:42pm On Jul 27, 2011 |
andromida: You are right, I will find the right way to do this. |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Nobody: 12:11am On Jul 28, 2011 |
I hate it when grandma's can't make decision on their own. . |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by smootheb(f): 12:38am On Jul 28, 2011 |
REALITY101: {{IGNORE}} |
Re: Aa Gal - Knowing The Truth About A Naija Guy by Mynd44: 5:31am On Jul 28, 2011 |
Hmmm |
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