Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by sslcrypt: 5:36am On Aug 03, 2022 |
Then before getting married I hated guys that tried impressing me when it was obvious they had nothing. Just be yourself and say it like it is not every lady will reject you because you think you don't have money. there was a guy then trying to woo my younger sister, nice car but no house and he used more lies to cover more lies. we as a family have a policy of not dating yahoo boys. Most niaja guys forget ladies have brothers we learn from that hard work and persistent pays a lot. So cut your coat according to your size. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by pansophist(m): 3:32pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Jeon: Short
board shoulders
undefined jawlines
skinny legs
flat ass
bleached
Short neck
Short torso
lack collarbones
too masculine [ bulky built ]
weird facial features [ especially short nose that lack nose bridge ]
Others
Show off Me first syndrome I'm better than others syndrome
I hope you dont live in naija lol 1. Nigeria is not among the tallest countries, and the average height of Nigeria for men is 1.67, in other words, short 2. About undefined jawline, this is usually not a west African thing, but more of a thing common with people that have dolichocephalic skulls (eg the nordics, Baltics, etc). people with defined jawlines are the minority in Naija. 3. So women de like men yansh too, I no know o 4. Short torso, see number 1 lol I sha hope you find a man that tick all those box. I am happy for you in advance 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 6:55pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
pansophist:
I hope you dont live in naija lol
1. Nigeria is not among the tallest countries, and the average height of Nigeria for men is 1.67, in other words, short
2. About undefined jawline, this is usually not a west African thing, but more of a thing common with people that have dolichocephalic skulls (eg the nordics, Baltics, etc). people with defined jawlines are the minority in Naija.
3. So women de like men yansh too, I no know o
4. Short torso, see number 1 lol
I sha hope you find a man that tick all those box. I am happy for you in advance 1. You think this because you are short . There are tall Nigerian men. As tall as 6.2, 6.3, 6.5 self . So dont scare jeon with your narrative biko
2. It can be worked on, there are specific exercises for different part of the body. I bet the average nigerian man wont know this because fitness is alien to most
3. Person's daughter got to hold something when action is on nah..
4. Nah lie 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Thugnificent(m): 12:42pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by chccho(m): 3:57pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
LadyD22:
1) "you're the only girl I like , all these other hoes are fat , ugly , useless and bleached , but you're different, so I want you"
2) when he disrespects other women in my presence to make me feel safe that he won't cheat , I'm scared of those ones , one day he'll disrespect me too , a responsible man respects everyone first and foremost, I would never be proud of a man acting like a bitch to any woman just to make a point , leave that to me , if I see a crazy one , I'll do the dirty work
3) men who find it hard to receive compliments , I'm telling you you're fine and you're telling me that I should look at your haircut , such low self esteem , cannot be my spec
4) I just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 years , I'm not up for rebound sir , do I look be like Taylor swift, move forward
5) what do you bring to the table? You were finished before you started
6)0 talking stage , you entered my dm 5 minutes ago and you're asking me to be your wife , you need screening
7) how can you tell me that you've been in talking stage with me since 1 - 6 months , me I'm already in a relationship with another person , I thought we friend zoned each other
audacity and effontery to request we go Dutch , split the bills 50/50 in the name of supporting feminism , liar oshi , you won't remember feminism when you're asking me in the future if I've made dinner , that's if you even have a future with me , God forbid bad thing
9) you can spend your entire timeline in the gym , you're carrying 6 pack upandan , I like responsible looking men with Belle , those ones that eat swallow and credit my akant unprovoked , I don't need six pack , thanks don't mention
10) house you no get , car you don't have , investment e no dey , but you're using the latest Samsung flipphone , you have all of Apple's latest devices , your wardrobe Gucci , givenchy , your barber is the same person barbing Drake's hair unnecessarily expensive, I'm not about to start training a grown man on how to manage his money , take your money and go
11)you're always shouting how you're a man and how you take care of your Women , how you're very romantic , how you're an alpha male , that's a strategy I know you're the opposite of all those things , the real ones no too dey make noise , they just show up and do it , get lost
12) you've ever asked "can you cook?" To a woman , no I can't, I'm not about to be an unpaid chef for anyone , even me sef I starve because I no wan enter kitchen, move on
13) you're on every woman's post , commenting , liking , at your age you're using Snapchat not even LinkedIn tufiakwa
14) you're below 6 feet, you can't handle a stallion sweetie buh bye
15) you're chasing women and you don't have resources to keep your kidney in your chest , instead of you to face the issue at hand , you're looking for someone to join you and drown , instead of you to look for conferences , workshops , seminars and mentors , you're looking for a hotel , you're using your last cash to pay for Uber , and your small salary is spent on chicken and chips plus Cold Stone for Netflix and chill and you'll be blaming village people , I don't have respect for men that use their last money for relationships or men that are in relationships when they're not stable , Their defense is " so because I'm broke I should not love , you do you have money?" when you love you should make better choices not worse , because you want to make the person you love feel safe Those ones prefer short term pleasure over long term peace , such a dangerous game Is this a bot or a real human being So u had time to write all this 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by chccho(m): 4:25pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
Unlimited4G:
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A man is "too nice" when;
1..... He agrees with everything I say/request for without objecting.
2.... Can't say his mind just to avoid getting me upset.
3.....Tries so hard to impress me with money and material things.
4.....Keeps making calculative moves b/c he fears that I would walk away if he expresses himself freely.
5.....Can't make a bold decision without asking for my opinion.. If he expects my opinion to be positive but it turns out to be negative, then he'll change his mind simply because I said the color isn't that nice.
6.... Too scared to exercise authority/take charge of a situation.
To me; these behaviour means "Submissiveness". And it's really annoying to see a man being submissive instead of dominating & taking charge. I like a man who dominates (not in a toxic, abusive/narcissistic way). It shows he's confident, emotionally matured, strong, etc. Which in turn gives me a sense of security and makes me respect & submit to him. Here I am |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by chidekings(m): 9:33am On Oct 01, 2023 |
Persephone1: Mine is :
Mouth odour
Invisible bulge, I hate dots
Excessive display of material things.
Lack of respect and finesse.
Talking too much
I will add more later.
sent you a dm,its business |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by IamFINESSE: 11:05am On Oct 01, 2023 |
LadyD22:
1) "you're the only girl I like , all these other hoes are fat , ugly , useless and bleached , but you're different, so I want you"
2) when he disrespects other women in my presence to make me feel safe that he won't cheat , I'm scared of those ones , one day he'll disrespect me too , a responsible man respects everyone first and foremost, I would never be proud of a man acting like a bitch to any woman just to make a point , leave that to me , if I see a crazy one , I'll do the dirty work
3) men who find it hard to receive compliments , I'm telling you you're fine and you're telling me that I should look at your haircut , such low self esteem , cannot be my spec
4) I just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 years , I'm not up for rebound sir , do I look be like Taylor swift, move forward
5) what do you bring to the table? You were finished before you started
6)0 talking stage , you entered my dm 5 minutes ago and you're asking me to be your wife , you need screening
7) how can you tell me that you've been in talking stage with me since 1 - 6 months , me I'm already in a relationship with another person , I thought we friend zoned each other
audacity and effontery to request we go Dutch , split the bills 50/50 in the name of supporting feminism , liar oshi , you won't remember feminism when you're asking me in the future if I've made dinner , that's if you even have a future with me , God forbid bad thing
9) you can spend your entire timeline in the gym , you're carrying 6 pack upandan , I like responsible looking men with Belle , those ones that eat swallow and credit my akant unprovoked , I don't need six pack , thanks don't mention
10) house you no get , car you don't have , investment e no dey , but you're using the latest Samsung flipphone , you have all of Apple's latest devices , your wardrobe Gucci , givenchy , your barber is the same person barbing Drake's hair unnecessarily expensive, I'm not about to start training a grown man on how to manage his money , take your money and go
11)you're always shouting how you're a man and how you take care of your Women , how you're very romantic , how you're an alpha male , that's a strategy I know you're the opposite of all those things , the real ones no too dey make noise , they just show up and do it , get lost
12) you've ever asked "can you cook?" To a woman , no I can't, I'm not about to be an unpaid chef for anyone , even me sef I starve because I no wan enter kitchen, move on
13) you're on every woman's post , commenting , liking , at your age you're using Snapchat not even LinkedIn tufiakwa
14) you're below 6 feet, you can't handle a stallion sweetie buh bye
15) you're chasing women and you don't have resources to keep your kidney in your chest , instead of you to face the issue at hand , you're looking for someone to join you and drown , instead of you to look for conferences , workshops , seminars and mentors , you're looking for a hotel , you're using your last cash to pay for Uber , and your small salary is spent on chicken and chips plus Cold Stone for Netflix and chill and you'll be blaming village people , I don't have respect for men that use their last money for relationships or men that are in relationships when they're not stable , Their defense is " so because I'm broke I should not love , you do you have money?" when you love you should make better choices not worse , because you want to make the person you love feel safe Those ones prefer short term pleasure over long term peace , such a dangerous game I know some people might not agree with you on this but to be honest, I love you for stating this obvious truth, you are just being raw and real, please can I be your friend? |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Nobody: 11:45am On Oct 01, 2023 |
chidekings:
sent you a dm,its business Hello
Happy Sunday.
Oh noted |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by kkins25(m): 1:18pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Jeon: Short
board shoulders
undefined jawlines
skinny legs
flat ass
bleached
Short neck
Short torso
lack collarbones
too masculine [ bulky built ]
weird facial features [ especially short nose that lack nose bridge ]
Others
Show off Me first syndrome I'm better than others syndrome
I am the complete opposite of all these.. Pansophist take note |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by kkins25(m): 1:20pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
No wonder i get alot of attention. i tick many boxes here na... Funny, i didn't see ladies mentioning money.. 😂 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by ItisWell22(f): 1:25pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
A man being without ambitions, and laziness… |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by LUAN(m): 4:22pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
ItisWell22: A man being without ambitions, and laziness… what is ambition? Everyone has ambition but some fail on the way. No one born without ambition |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by ItisWell22(f): 4:32pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
LUAN: what is ambition? Everyone has ambition but some fail on the way. No one born without ambition Life happens to everyone one of us, but the ability to get back up no matter how long or better still change or redirect our paths is what I call living. I’m not just expecting it if a man, but I’m living it. You can’t just sit back and say life happened, without giving another shot at it. |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Exceed15: 4:59pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Okay...
Physical...
1. Short
2. Muscular
3. Bleached
4. Bald
5. Potbelly
6. Big shapeless head
7. Weird facial features
And many more...
Other turn offs include
1. Poverty
2. Arrogance
3. Religious fanaticism
4. Misogyny
5. Tribal intolerance
6. Insensitivity
7. Lack of empathy
8. Pessimism
And many more...
I don't like men who don't read...
Who don't love pets, esp dogs...
Who are basic...boring...
Who don't enjoy adventures...
Who don't think out of the box...
Who don't love science and tech...
And many more...
How old are you? |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Exceed15: 5:00pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by HardBishop: 5:48pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Please don't derail this thread... You men have had your fun... Are you a man or a woman? |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by okoroemeka(m): 6:11pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Persephone1: Mine is :
Mouth odour
Invisible bulge, I hate dots
Excessive display of material things.
Lack of respect and finesse.
Talking too much
I will add more later.
you missed the main point,if you are broke ,women can smell it on you |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Westchester(m): 6:39pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
All I see is comments from feminists who don’t have a man in their lonely life, feminists who only comes on a faceless forum like Nairaland to pour out their frustrations Dear kings most of the ladies commenting here aren’t even beautiful or tick the boxes we want in women. Just read all the gibberish they wrote, laugh and move on 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by 1144AK(m): 12:53pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
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Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by Exceed15: 1:48pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Okay...
Physical...
1. Short
2. Muscular
3. Bleached
4. Bald
5. Potbelly
6. Big shapeless head
7. Weird facial features
And many more...
Other turn offs include
1. Poverty
2. Arrogance
3. Religious fanaticism
4. Misogyny
5. Tribal intolerance
6. Insensitivity
7. Lack of empathy
8. Pessimism
And many more...
I don't like men who don't read...
Who don't love pets, esp dogs...
Who are basic...boring...
Who don't enjoy adventures...
Who don't think out of the box...
Who don't love science and tech...
And many more...
Can u post ur pic.. e get why |
Re: Ladies What's Your Turn Off In A Guy? Guys Learn. by HellVictorinho6(m): 5:29pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
2 what end |