The thing is you can't find a 100% flawless woman (nobody is)!
If that is the only problem, I think it's nothing to be too worried about.
The good thing is she's always sober(sorry) after the whole thing. I think she will adjust in time.
I'm not saying u rush into marrying her, just keep watching if there's any other red flag then u decide what next.

Keep waiting. I’ll give you advice one day.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

She seems to be a nice person bro.
Coming from her background noise hose types of ladies don’t wahala. She seems to be the type of lady that love to make her spouse happy.
Understand her, love her and together you can reduce her shortcomings.

fvck:
Encourage her to be Obidient,get her pvc and watch her live a vulgar free life

hahahahah.

superCleanworks:


it is better to live alone in this world with no music, no cars, no luxury than to have everything and a woman with a venomous tongue in your life. You will cry for help and everbody will be telling you that NA SO WOMAN DEY BEHAVE.
You guys are still in the stress free zone of life (good family, parents & siblings still healthy and alive, less PRESSURE BILLS to pay, sex for hours, no school fees to pay, good health and beauty) and she is like this already. what happens when the weather changes?

Why do you think many men leave their beautiful wife & mansions to sit in a bar till midnight? they will buy you anything you want so you can keep them company, they will pay any amount of money to be away from their wife for 5 hours without her voice & horrible text messages? At a point you will find yourself doing stupid things just to make her not release bile from her mouth but it will never be good enough because by then the poison in her mouth has become full blown and spread to her heart. This problem is only in the minor stage for now that is why you see her return to normal after some hours and apologize. You can't help her, it is her default factory setting which she will always revert to so RUN while you have the chance. Listen to those SIT HER DOWN & TALK TO HER at your own risk.

Young fella, please date someone else with a LESS THORNY mouth (yes most women have bad mouth but some have control and a mild nature) and spot the difference but you will not take this advice, you will sit down and talk to her to change and one very bitter day when you will nearly kill her or hate your existence because of her mouth, you will remember this.

Very good and important advice. From personal experience. It is better to be trapped in an island alone than be with some of our Nigerian young ladies. Very pretentious beings! Who no de fear woman; I will fear that person! Woman wey gist with snake; sell Adam finish and till now, we have no idea of meat of the discussion. I fear women oooo!

Just tell her to work on that area that you don't like and if there is no changes, you just have to move on with your life.

purehustle101:
It depends on individual... Someone like me can't even take are you stupid from a lady, will walk you out. I value my self respect alot.

We are pals on this. I don’t hurl insults and I don’t take insults. Mutual respect comes first.

My first question is: I hope you are well to do family or you are Financially stable too? Because you said she is from a well to do family. And anytime she is angry, she do say things that is really awful.
Minimize how you take things from her, most especially monetary gift. Trust me, she will use it against you one day. And try to see if you can get her to work on her temperament. You self sharp gan three months plus relationship and you don dey think of settling down with her. I will advise that you get to know her well before taking that step tho.I wish you all the best

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

she’s faking it … in d world of women it’s called diplomatic deception

fvck:
Encourage her to be Obidient,get her pvc and watch her live a vulgar free life

She's not nice. She's pretending. People show a bit of their hidden bad sides when they are angry. The things they say while at it will hint you on who they truly are. The world is full with pretenders. No lose guard

TyroneP:
She might be too emotional each time she's hurt too. As long as she's not physically violent, observe her more for a while before you make your decision but if you think her reactions to issues affects you psychologically, love yourself first.

She's not nice. She's pretending. People show a a lot of their hidden bad sides when they are angry. The things they say while at it will hint you on who they truly are. The world is full with pretenders. Make the guy no lose guard

Express your dissatisfaction over her vulgarity, and always remind and correct her vulgarity when she's angry.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Buy her useful books. Ladies that read a lot do not have much time for vulgar words.

If she speaks native language alot when she is angry encourage her to be speaking English.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Look for another woman while you can. She ain't for you. In fact if you're a Yoruba man and she is using ó for you instead of é, stay far away from her. Love never exist, it is just an illusion. Your eye go clear later sha!

That happens when a she is overdose on cum intake

@Unequivocal


The above:
"What ever makes me happy makes her Satisfied
she's all nice but becomes aggressive when angry"
That's a red flag



She's just acting to be a good wife once you wife her, I pity you.
She never insult your mama before, na till after you marry her she go pour am out

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Everyone has his/her ugly side.
She has something to say about you that she may also not be comfortable with.
The this is, check if her downside is what you can NEVER tolerate in your life, pls let he go now.
If you can tolerate it, go ahead with her and keep teaching her to become a better person.
That is why a man is called a GROOM during wedding while a woman is called a BRIDE.
You have to groom this tender bride to what you want her to be.

Don't go ahead. You think you can cope. You can't.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

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I had one , same story as yours and I bailed
When she's angry eh , no volience but her words are horrible
I ran o
She met someone else and they got married almost immediately and after 2 years it collapsed
Oga run

fvck:
Encourage her to be Obidient,get her pvc and watch her live a vulgar free life

Na like this una campaign for sai baba in 2015 anyways I pray this would be different..

As a young unmarried man, I am saving this post and using it as a reference point for whenever I decide to get married. This advice is not just for the OP, but to every young man deciding to get married. Your decision to adhere to this advice would either make or mar your marriage. Thanks super clean for this write up. I'm curious, are you writing from an angle of experience


it is better to live alone in this world with no music, no cars, no luxury than to have everything and a woman with a venomous tongue in your life. You will cry for help and everbody will be telling you that NA SO WOMAN DEY BEHAVE.
You guys are still in the stress free zone of life (good family, parents & siblings still healthy and alive, less PRESSURE BILLS to pay, sex for hours, no school fees to pay, good health and beauty) and she is like this already. what happens when the weather changes?

Why do you think many men leave their beautiful wife & mansions to sit in a bar till midnight? they will buy you anything you want so you can keep them company, they will pay any amount of money to be away from their wife for 5 hours without her voice & horrible text messages? At a point you will find yourself doing stupid things just to make her not release bile from her mouth but it will never be good enough because by then the poison in her mouth has become full blown and spread to her heart. This problem is only in the minor stage for now that is why you see her return to normal after some hours and apologize. You can't help her, it is her default factory setting which she will always revert to so RUN while you have the chance. Listen to those SIT HER DOWN & TALK TO HER at your own risk.

Young fella, please date someone else with a LESS THORNY mouth (yes most women have bad mouth but some have control and a mild nature) and spot the difference but you will not take this advice, you will sit down and talk to her to change and one very bitter day when you will nearly kill her or hate your existence because of her mouth, you will remember this. [/quote]

fvck:
Encourage her to be Obidient,get her pvc and watch her live a vulgar free life

Funny you

@Unequivocal.Women use different avenues and ways to express themselves:some stop talking to you,some stop doing household chores,some open up by expressing their feelings/anger with words either vulgar,or calmly).The former are mostly violent and wicked by nature and they often than not frustrate their partners.but the latter,which your gal falls into is the best in a woman,because she,s an extrovert,she opens up and tell you your shortcomings outrightly. Women of this nature are always nice,because they hate someone that's untrustworthy.This is the best kind of woman to be with,marry her,you will enjoy her.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Something ain't right. Put your eyes down, stop being distracted by her beauty or money. Critically analyze her character. Some ladies are better a s girlfriends than wives. Is she really sexually satisfied. Observe her sexual reactions carefully. If you need more info tag me.

The real her is what u get when she's angry. Run!

You have already seen d omen , so d choice is your...it's ur life

Please don't proceed with the marriage, a nagging woman is the most difficult to stay with.

the fact that she doesn't disturb you with requests for cash and stuffs is not enough, once you marry her, there won't be any other to provide for her than you. Peace in the home is more valuable to a married man than anything else

Look for soneone else!

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

No one is perfect...Settle with her, there's too many foolish girls out there already..

Tickles001:


First, you're not seeing things from any wrong perspective. You're seeing reg flags in real time, and you're trying to convince yourself it's not so.

See. Words reveal a lot of things, regardless if she's angry or not.

Again, I think she's faking the whole agreeable thing so she doesn't scare you away from entering the trap. If she can fake her character, who knows what more she could be hiding from you.

I'd say you slow things down and allow her cool off into her real self.

Best advice so far

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

me and my guys had a conversation surrounding this today. 2 of them are married men.

Listen, everyone has a down side cos no body is perfect. One thing you can do is encourage her to change are attitude and don't do what would trigger her. Find a meeting ground and everything will be fine.

purehustle101:
It depends on individual... Someone like me can't even take are you stupid from a lady, will walk you out. I value my self respect alot.

You no fit marry ooo...
Forget all these good girl thing ... Woman go enter you ... I dey tell you... If you no strong you go just kill person daughter...

superCleanworks:


it is better to live alone in this world with no music, no cars, no luxury than to have everything and a woman with a venomous tongue in your life. You will cry for help and everbody will be telling you that NA SO WOMAN DEY BEHAVE.
You guys are still in the stress free zone of life (good family, parents & siblings still healthy and alive, less PRESSURE BILLS to pay, sex for hours, no school fees to pay, good health and beauty) and she is like this already. what happens when the weather changes?

Why do you think many men leave their beautiful wife & mansions to sit in a bar till midnight? they will buy you anything you want so you can keep them company, they will pay any amount of money to be away from their wife for 5 hours without her voice & horrible text messages? At a point you will find yourself doing stupid things just to make her not release bile from her mouth but it will never be good enough because by then the poison in her mouth has become full blown and spread to her heart. This problem is only in the minor stage for now that is why you see her return to normal after some hours and apologize. You can't help her, it is her default factory setting which she will always revert to so RUN while you have the chance. Listen to those SIT HER DOWN & TALK TO HER at your own risk.

Young fella, please date someone else with a LESS THORNY mouth (yes most women have bad mouth but some have control and a mild nature) and spot the difference but you will not take this advice, you will sit down and talk to her to change and one very bitter day when you will nearly kill her or hate your existence because of her mouth, you will remember this.

You no lie sha