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Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 6:21pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
formerUKSF:it is well bro,, l will rather lose her than go into a marriage without any form of financial stability,,let me ask u people what exactly is wrong with a woman marrying in her 30s? |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by thrillionaire(m): 6:25pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Since you asked for advice and say you truly love this girl, I'd say grant her wish and marry her. I feel she wants that sense of security and to begin her family asap. Maybe she wants to be done with childbearing by 33 who knows.? But do what's within your capacity for now - a simple court wedding, modest traditional wedding, or even a simple church wedding between you and the pastor and both families. The covid19 era showed us modest weddings are possible. Let her know what you can do and then y'all should plan the future together. She'll have to work and bring in income to support the home and all. Las Las you will even come to celebrate the fact you took the bold step when you see your kids and the blessings marriage comes with. 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 6:35pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Dshocker:why now now now,, this is how u people push this girls into problems ,what assurance do u have if she leave me now she will get a husband immediately? why this so much hurry,, is marriage not about getting it right? is it now about beating a certain age mark,, she told me her self, of all the guys she have met l am the one that have shown her real commitment and love,,she told me how most people disturbing her are married men, should she now let me go simply because l dont have money now and she must do as others are doing before she is 30? you know what is irritating me is that some of you are making assumptions l am holding her back,maybe when she comes this night l will tell her to go since l am the hindrance,, 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:Release that girl from the bondage you kept her in. Let her go and marry he who is ready. 27 is already late; she may never marry again if she passes that age. Many young girls are graduating from secondary school every year and the county is hard. They are looking for men so the competition is High. 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 6:51pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Countersam:this is a good advice,, 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 6:57pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
tibatobi:what do u mean waste her time,, if by chance we were not meant to be together don't you think my own time is wasted? do you know how many girls l turn down because l am committed to her? my own business will grow my brother,, so stop the permutations,, she was single from her 20- 26 before l met her was l the one that wasted her time,, ? why didn't marriage come if it was that easy? now me that decides to commit my soul and everything is the one wasting her time? why are u people like this? so all the girls in their late twenties and thirties who are not yet married all have men wasting their time right? 4 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 7:03pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Olagoods1:see bro in all honesty l dont fancy that kind of life, l just want to meet a single woman l understand and she understands me too and we build a life together,, l feel it is the university l attended that wasted most of my time,if l have join the business world,, on time all this would not have been an issue,, l want to keep her because she is good, most guys on a lady's dm are their just fvck them,, l want us to build this thing together, If God sees out effort and commitment he will help us,, 2 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Acidbath: 7:04pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: You are right. But you shouldn't be dating if you ain't ready for marriage. |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 7:08pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
nijaomegacode:will u marry her? you that you are serious? because husband is scares? so can l connect both of you for marriage or u just want to be stupid? 2 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:No. Please send me her contact. I will love to marry her. 2 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by gerizzim: 7:34pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: Youngman , calm down. You drop a.post asking for advice but your reply to what some.pple are saying is too aggressive and confrontational. even if one or two persons opinion sounds harsh or unpopular to you, stil calm down. Despite some response sounds blunt bt if you look deeper, there is some truth in wat they are telling you. You sound too authoritative Nd strong headed. Hope say your leadership style if you nd dis woman begin live for huz no go dey too authocratic. You appear too narrow minded . We all as human are unique and understand things in from our various experiences nd see things differently. Relax Nd learn person when come out for mkt square to ask for help no dey run mouth. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 7:45pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
gerizzim:l am sorry about that,, but l dont see any truth in people making it look as if l am wasting her time,, people do this all the time they build themselves and at the end marry,, l was sincere with her and didn't lie to her,, people accusing me of what l dont know about are the once annoying me,, l accept some of my outburst were too harsh,, l will try to hold my self,, Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by LieDetector(m): 7:50pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:you're being selfish with your reasoning. You only want to have her around because you think if you lose her it'd be difficult to replace her. Be a man. Leave her and focus on your business. Fate has a way of balancing things the way they're meant to be. |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 8:09pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
LieDetector:guy been a man is sticking around and working things out instead of running away as long as she didn't tell me she want to go as God will have it u will see our wedding card on Nairaland |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by abokikhalifa: 8:15pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: She can still be patient and you will still end up wasting her time by not getting married to her. Just let her be. If you are really serious with her you will find a way. But guy, instead of wasting her time and still falling her hands at the end, why dont you just let her go? The lady that i was dating in 2018 told me that she can't continue with me that she wants to get married, up till date she's still single. Be like she don dey run codded olosho for lagos island as we speak. So just let them be. 2 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by zed7: 8:16pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:You're a small boy because your reasoning is below par. You don't understand women. If you had any sense, you'll let her go in peace instead of bringing your foolishness to the public. Allow the girl go and marry, you are unripe for marriage. Focus on making something out of your life. You want a girl to live with you in poverty and then when she turns old, you'll abandon her. You nor wise. The girl wise pass you. 2 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Slynation(m): 8:21pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Number 1 rule...Never be afraid to lose anybody 4 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by victooman: 8:22pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
zed7:you are the bigger fool for thinking starting marriage with wealth automatically means it will remain like that ,, you call a person that makes 6- 7k on daily basis a poor person? are u daft? maybe you are in one mushroom job earning 50k and u dare say trash to me,, l don't have money for marriage now is another way of saying l am not settling for mediocrity,, l want something big and large for my self and family,, it doesn't mean l am as poor as an e warrior hungry Nairalander like you. 4 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by dnawah(m): 8:56pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
bad boy but na hire purchase be that o! Extratyre01: 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Kirkman: 9:09pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
I laugh in chinese with the way that girl and her mum is going, that girl will soon leave you. I see an unexpected fight happening very soon. And she will stop calling, texting and even visiting you. I see her entering ghost mode and posting her wedding pics on Facebook 6 months later. I see op regretting not marrying this lady when he had the chance to do so. Bros ladies always have a plan B back up plan of a guy and she will switch loyalty soon. |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Clinghton: 9:17pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Don't pressure her to stay with you, this is a test of true love on her part. Focus on your business and you won't regret it. 4 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by tibatobi: 9:28pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:commot hand for her matter if u are not ready to marry her now.... So that u can go face business... And get marry when u make money...Redpill Advice 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Okoroawusa: 9:34pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Marriage is overrated 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Peskid147: 9:37pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:oga take your time to build your life and busines,if she can not wait let her go. People like her mum will bill you when you come for introductio. 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by LieDetector(m): 10:05pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman:OK. Wish you the best |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Louisfrank(m): 11:11pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: I will always keep saying it rushing into marriage thinking two heads are better than one will only make you include your children heads into suffering, well I don't don't really know your dream tho, but if you don't dream to get married and after 6 months still remain in a rented apartment, better hustle hard b4 getting married, I know of a young man tho, who got married, while he was a teacher n d lady he married as well a teacher in a private skool, I can bet both of them salary if coupled up is not up to 70k monthly, the last time I visited him, mheen I just told myself I don't want this life for myself, not that he is suffering but 4yrs into d marriage still in a rented apartment, not looking healthy tho......, well at this point you have to know what you want and make a decision based on that. 4 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Zeekaycn(m): 11:11pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: If all mothers are like that gal mother most Gals won't remain single. This relationship call dating na scam. If you are not ready for marriage stay away from dating. You are dating a gal sleeping with her having private times together her mother start complaining you de murmur. Bros go and explain yourself to your gal friend mother before she lay curse on you. 80% of single guys always have this same excuse "I want to establish before I marry" but you go f**k all the colours of pusy 5years you never balance. A wife is cheaper to maintain than a gal friend go and ask. Thank God both of you are graduates you could work together and achieve anything. Two heads are better than one. Fact that you even have a vision make it simpler marry her and bring her to your vision. All these people blaming the gal mother don't know anything, all she asked her daughter is bring the person you are dating let me meet him cus she already knows her daughter is seeing someone. If you love her as you have said go and meet her mother and explain things to her. So she won't feel ashamed having a daughter without a man. Women likes it when men are toasting their daughters it's a show that their daughters are valuable. Let's stop all this dating thing. if you are to date let it not exist one year. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Zeekaycn(m): 11:30pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: See what I'm saying. You are even bragging about the major causes of stagnation. 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by DBestDoc(f): 12:10am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Odds 1 Like |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by bummyla(m): 12:19am On Jul 20, 2022 |
There is blessing in marriage! And if she's the right one for you, why are you afraid! If she loves you like you claim she will fight her people off from exploiting you during the marriage rites, if that is your fear. Most of my friends that married ladies that loves them, had the lowest marriage expenses, na the on wey no love you, go follow her people dey task you. As a married man you will not loose your independence when you marry, na when you marry the wrong woman, you go loose everything |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Snowflames: 1:06am On Jul 20, 2022 |
victooman: I love your spirit and your resolve about this. I will still advise that you stand your ground and don't be pressurized or emotionally blackmailed into going into something you KNOW that you aren't ready for yet. That's how they are always emotional about even the basics of living, when a man is trying to be logical and objective about current realities. Do not just fall for it. If she'll wait, fine. If she feels she can't or that it's too risky for her, still fine let her move, no hard feeling. She's not doing you any favour, they want her to bring home a trophy. Go into marriage on your own terms. All the best man 3 Likes |
Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Slimdan360: 1:52am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Dont miss the opportunity to wife a good woman, many who choose to make money before settling down have a different story to tell. This is my percent |
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