Iniobong34:
But the man and the maid na werey o
y him no use cd
or better stil use the pullout techniq
or give her postinor2
i just pray the wife understand him

I pray the wife does not understand him. In as much as I am pro-male for the right reasons, we mustn’t always take the other gender for granted especially when it comes to trust.

Even if na Kongi, why he no use his sense make he use protection?.

Iniobong34:
But the man and the maid na werey o
y him no use cd
or better stil use the pullout techniq
or give her postinor2
i just pray the wife understand him

Pullout no easy oh, sometimes d joy and d way d actions dey go man go just relax

Maverick777:
He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.
I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery. The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot! I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...Any mature suggestion is welcome.

The best you could do was to ask him to tell another lie to try to cover up for his wandering prick?

Some men sef. You will sleep with a lady without protection (I doubt he did HIV screening on her), then cum inside her and not think it wise to buy an oral contraceptive like postinor to prevent pregnancy.

Let your friend do what suits him.

The weakness of men!

He should send her far away. That's the only way out of the tunnel.

He can take responsibility from afar.

Stephen0mozzy:
Werey OP said "Only once"

Hin no know say once is enough..

This third leg has piloted your dear pilot friend into trouble

Some men can't control their libido. Why would his wife leave a maid of 22 yrs and not expect something.
Some pple dey take risk fa

Just hide all the knives when your wife is back
Nawa o

Why do people think they can get away with anything.

Nothing to say......

pocohantas:


Which kind dog? Because the dogs my loved ones have owned are all faithful, loyal and caring. Make una leave dog alone.

This particular dog still be virgin. If na “some” men, wahala.

As in the Pilot is a bastard, who sleeps with their maid, OP tell your friend he is a bastard.

I just hope he doesn’t crash the next plane he’d be piloting, because I’m sure a lot would be going on in his head these coming days.

Iniobong34:
But the man and the maid na werey o
y him no use cd
or better stil use the pullout techniq
or give her postinor2
i just pray the wife understand him

oga he is asking for advice on what to do the deed is already done if u cant bring solution forget the blame game abeg

Some of una na pigs, to sleep with your maid who is suppose to serve you food. Na wa for una oh, no respect for your wife and I’m sure they did it in their masters bedroom.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Birds of a feather. See the kind of friend you keep. A friend who sleeps with his maid. I can't imagine the greater atrocities you will commit in your time.

What advice do you want from us? I guess you are looking for solidarity from us to give your friend a go-ahead to do what exactly? If I knew his wife, I'll personally break the news to her and have her divorce him. Husband from hell.

Best bet, let him marry her as a second wife because if na me, I no go agree to be babymama or else I go scatter your home. I can never be sidelined. In his next life, he will learn to have restraint and keep his infested diick in his pants.

Baby calm down ooooohhhh

Maverick777:
Top of the day Fam!

A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid (who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!

HOW IT UNFOLDED
Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.

The husband is a pilot and always never at home (the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate (just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.

I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months (not like she's a novice).
Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).

So technically, his wife might even return before him.

He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.

I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.

The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!

I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...

Any mature suggestion is welcome.

Congratulations Marv! You made it to the side of daddies.

MEGA4BILLION:
Well your friend should register her for anti-natal, at this level the maid will need a lot of fruits, folic acid and ferrous sulphate, so he needs to provide them before travelling. Best wishes to your friend.


Who won't want to marry a pilot if young ladies can be fighting over Aguba

Hahahahahahaah u are very funny

Maverick777:
Top of the day Fam!

A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid (who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!

HOW IT UNFOLDED
Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.

The husband is a pilot and always never at home (the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate (just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.

I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months (not like she's a novice).
Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).

So technically, his wife might even return before him.

He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.

I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.

The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!

I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...

Any mature suggestion is welcome.

I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery. Ori yi ti buru

That lady is a pest. She deserves to be treated as one. That is betrayal from her side. Outing fire to burn down the bakery of a person that fed you with bread attracts capital punishment. If that woman was a Mafia she would be the one checkmating them with surprises and not the other way round.

No to abortion please.

Is the convinced that the pregnancy is for him? If yes, he should just confess to his wife and face the consequences of his indiscretion with the house girl.

If he fails to do so, the truth will somhow be revealed.

The housemaid can even begin to blackmail him.

Either way, the man is in deep shot.

MEGA4BILLION:
Well your friend should register her for anti-natal, at this level the maid will need a lot of fruits, folic acid and ferrous sulphate, so he needs to provide them before travelling. Best wishes to your friend.


Who won't want to marry a pilot if young ladies can be fighting over Aguba

.... wahala no dey finish...

The maid will be thanking her stars that she is carrying the baby of a whole pilot in her womb..

Op, whatever decision your friend takes, abortion should be out of it.

Maverick777:

what has the number of babies got to do with anything?

Money (to cater for them)? We spend it as a hobby.
what else?

So you see? you made no sense.

If you were not experiencing brain relocation syndrome which has made the current location of your brain to be in your groin region, you would have realised that more kids will mean more complications.

You and your fake stories should fvck off jare.

I don’t remember having a second wife been outlawed. He made himself a polygamous husband. His wife should bring one of her unmarried sisters so he’d get a third wife.

Few minutes enjoyment can cost you everything you labored so hard for years...

That's the mystery of sex outside of marriage.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Birds of a feather. See the kind of friend you keep. A friend who sleeps with his maid. I can't imagine the greater atrocities you will commit in your time.

What advice do you want from us? I guess you are looking for solidarity from us to give your friend a go-ahead to do what exactly? If I knew his wife, I'll personally break the news to her and have her divorce him. Husband from hell.

Best bet, let him marry her as a second wife because if na me, I no go agree to be babymama or else I go scatter your home. I can never be sidelined. In his next life, he will learn to have restraint and keep his infested diick in his pants.

As u fine reach na so u wicked, see her eyes!

HardBishop:
Some men can't control their libido. Why would his wife leave a maid of 22 yrs and not expect something.
Some pple dey take risk fa

So are you suggesting wives should not trust their husbands? Should we enter the marriage with fear and distrust?

It might even belong to the driver or gate man

Maverick777:

May God help us Men, not to allow our libido becloud our sense of judgement and reasoning!

I'm sure he has other babies in different area codes since he's a pilot and never arround.

How can a grown ass man impregnate maid abi na jazz??

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Rilwayne001:
I just hope he doesn’t crash the next plane he’d be piloting, because I’m sure a lot would be going on in his head these coming days.

Seriously, love how you access the situation differently from the comments up there.

Maverick777:
Top of the day Fam!

A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid (who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!

HOW IT UNFOLDED
Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.

The husband is a pilot and always never at home (the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate (just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.

I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months (not like she's a novice).
Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).

So technically, his wife might even return before him.

He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.

I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.

The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!

I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...

Any mature suggestion is welcome.

why women they do masters..serves her right..I know of a lady that had a serious marriage suitor at 26 but she insisted on masters..now she dey do PhD.. she will be 39 by dec not married yet only child of the parents.stupid people

UyaiIncomparabl:
Birds of a feather. See the kind of friend you keep. A friend who sleeps with his maid. I can't imagine the greater atrocities you will commit in your time.

What advice do you want from us? I guess you are looking for solidarity from us to give your friend a go-ahead to do what exactly? If I knew his wife, I'll personally break the news to her and have her divorce him. Husband from hell.

Best bet, let him marry her as a second wife because if na me, I no go agree to be babymama or else I go scatter your home. I can never be sidelined. In his next life, he will learn to have restraint and keep his infested diick in his pants.

It can be you because you are too beautiful and clean to be a maid.