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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Baronthecelebri: 8:15pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
virginprincess:shut up bitch 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Baronthecelebri: 8:19pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Richy4:the wife should have inform be him that his friend send money for ice-cream 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Baronthecelebri: 8:21pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Baronthecelebri: 8:24pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
shortIGBOman:mumu, why did she tell the husband that his friend sent money 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by bummyla(m): 8:42pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
My Brother, you did the right thing! If we start talking abut the things we see in marriage, the younger men after us, will not desire to marry. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Richy4(m): 8:45pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri:Yes she should have told him... But due to experience, subsequent events may have occurred that led to her not speaking out or forgot to speak out... I'm not trying to be the devil's advocate but sometimes frivolities like that might not matter.. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by jeromestarks: 8:53pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
You're still asking question? Instead of you to go and do DNA test ASAP. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by jeromestarks: 8:57pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Antimarraige:Op, listen to this guy or divorce that bitch you called wife or else, they will plot your death like physics graph. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by shortIGBOman: 8:59pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri: Who be this thing? 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Nwaotu10(m): 9:02pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
QUASH THEM! MAN HAS BEEN DIGGING YOUR BANNY BEHIND YOU, MATE 4 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Nwaotu10(m): 9:06pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Osama2478: 9:14pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
As for me, I don't engage in any private discussion with my friends' girlfriends let alone wives. For any man that engages in private discussions with his friend's wife without his knowledge and to the point of sending money to her especially when the man is not around if nothing is happening at the moment, it clearly showed that he has got a plan. That was my conviction. These are the kind of people that will keep pretending to care for the woman because her husband is not around till they get in between their legs. Funny enough, this was a guy that was owing me money and never talked about it again because I have traveled abroad. 48 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by capetownboyz(m): 9:19pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Osama2478:omo which can people do you guys keep as friends ,more still better wise up with that lady you call wife ..jeez I hate the fact when women exert so much control over men emotionally.. 10 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by crackhaus: 9:38pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Richy4:And when her husband asked her about the transaction, why wouldn't she just say "ohh I forgot to inform ya, it was for ice-cream" instead of acting all dodgy and secretive? 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Regex: 10:12pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
crackhaus: Yo man. Where have you been? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Richy4(m): 10:46pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
crackhaus:<<U are making me the devil's advocate and it's not nice <<When there are trust issues in a relationship, even if u like, explain how heaven was made with good evidence, someone who doesn't trust you will never trust you.. << I believe that Sandra gave an explanation on how the Icecream money came about but due to trust issues, John wasn't buying what she was selling to him...and Sandra knowing the kind of man she married cannot kill herself just because the John refused to believe her because of his difficulties in trusting... If there's no trust in a relationship, it's as good as dead... Some people naturally have trust issues and it's the worst set of people any sane individual can encounter because they will drive the person insane.. Sometimes though I ask myself, is online world different from offline world? Because I know lots of people who can help friends genuinely... If they get here online, do they act differently? It seems I am the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with giving loosed change to a friend's family whom Everyone knows traveled out.. it's weird 6 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by OriOko88(m): 12:43am On Aug 13, 2022 |
You've done well.. Your wife should have told u your friend sent her money. The moment a wife starts hiding vital information from her husband,them in Davido's voice..."something is fishy." Your friend looks like some one who could dig ur wife behind you,so its very good as u severe ties with him. He's also faulty. He ought to have told u he sent ur wife money and not u finding out. I think u shud dig more on this matter. I'm thinking there was a transactional sex btw the two while you're away,cos I don't see why ur wife would be hiding such vital info from u. Dig out more info pls. 4 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by victor9jaar: 2:05am On Aug 13, 2022 |
it could be nothing,but her hiding it makes it suspicious. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by benjida: 5:28am On Aug 13, 2022 |
You took the right decision Sir. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by chigoziri2403(m): 5:56am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Osama2478:Long distance marriages requires lot of trust and communication If your wife and your friend did all that without letting you know is a red flag Even if you don't provide for them and your friend does, out of respect, she ought to let you know Hiding it means a red flag 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by chigoziri2403(m): 5:59am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Richy4:If as a married man,your wealthy friends always fraternize with your wife without your notice, what will be your reaction? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Richy4(m): 6:09am On Aug 13, 2022 |
chigoziri2403:Funny enough I have only 2 genuine friends whom I don't even see as friends but brothers...we know our boundaries... We got each other's backs... If I travel out and they call my wife to know how they are doing, I will not raise an eyebrow.... Again whom u married plays an important role too... If as a married man I can't trust my spouse, what are we doing in that relationship? Then we are as good as Flatmates.. Again u don't have business keeping friends who doesn't know boundaries.. before you call someone a friend, u should have weighed them on a balance... Choose your friends... Your friends shouldn't choose you because there are "why(s)" 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by sweetman2022: 6:23am On Aug 13, 2022 |
I always inform any girl I want to go into relationship with about trust. I make sure I tell them how vital it is for me to trust her, because the day I can't trust her again brings an end to the relationship. You did not set this with your wife, that's why her words hold no bond to you, and that your friend should be discarded immediately. I tell people who cares to listen that you don't need so many friends, just one or two that are reliable is better than hundreds of foolish guys in your circle. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Osama2478: 6:24am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Richy4: It appears that you still don't understand my narration here. I am not saying that a friend should not call my wife or give them gifts. What's the business of my friend having the special number of my wife? What's the point in my friend having a private conversation as well as getting access to my family's classified information and still acting in pretence with me? What could make him transfer money to my wife and was hidden until I found out? Like I said before, if it has not started, there is a plan underway. 30 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by sweetman2022: 6:30am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Osama2478:Stop trying to justify your actions with anyone, you have said enough already. The reasons you have provided so far is well justified for any decision you decide to take. Some friends are meant to be kept at arms length because that is where they belong. A friend that cannot be straight forward with you when it comes to your personal life shouldn't be close to you at all. 21 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by ITbomb(m): 6:33am On Aug 13, 2022 |
You have spoilt the game. You should not have confronted them yet without getting a tangible evidence. But then, something is definitely going on 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Richy4(m): 7:04am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Osama2478:<< I understand perfectly what you wrote previously man...I would have stayed away if I didn't get it... <<The reason why u brought up the issue is for us to look at it and air our opinion right? .. and it will be really funny and foolhardy if we all follow a certain pattern or a parallel line without looking at possible scenarios or "what if(s)" << Now, why did you call that individual a friend?..on the scale of 1% - 100%, what percentage would u rate him before you traveled?.. Is it all male individuals u introduce to your spouse as friends? ***NOW LET'S LOOK AT THIS SCENARIO*** <<You were married... Probably talks to your wife all the times from courtship to marriage.. <<Suddenly, u traveled..she misses you.. <<She had no one to talk to physically except u on the phone or videos which u and I knows it's different... <<She ran into your friend and they starts talking... some women being whom they are jokingly accused him of not calling since you left,..he promised to call on her once in a while to see how she was doing.. << He fulfilled the promises and called..Nigerian network being what it is, she was not reachable.. << He tried the following day and told her he has been calling but her number was not going through... She now decided to give out her personal or private number just incase.. << Due to the fact she has no one to talk to for a long time, she talked and forgot herself and overshared sensitive information.. Do you think this can be a possible scenario? Do you think something like this can never happen? Just be sincere.. remember u have no evidence that your wife was cheating.. if not, u would have presented it... maybe u should have made a proper investigation before leaving the shores of Nigeria.. it would have helped your sanity because what u are accusing her of doesn't hold water in my opinion.. 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by chigoziri2403(m): 8:06am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Richy4:The question is a yes or no one 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Richy4(m): 8:09am On Aug 13, 2022 |
chigoziri2403:Check your question properly and see if it was a yes or no question.. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Toktee(m): 8:15am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Qtrpst4:Why you come the dignify GAY with a mention.? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Toktee(m): 8:18am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Richy4:You sound like the cheating friend here. I will not be surprised if you are the man in question. 15 Likes |
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