Some men, not all. . . . y i go dey intimidated? What have they achieved that can't be achieved. . .

^ @ oluwa gba wa o

bknight:

^ @ oluwa gba wa o

kerie eleson

op
intimidate with what

Punny

Intimidated? Hell No! If anything, my manipulative instincts kick in, and I start to fantasize about pulling a Kevin Federline on all these so called independent/ self-sufficient women. 

But on a serious note, an overwhelming majority of these independent women are guaranteed to fail in the dating world, because they delude themselves into thinking their independent persona is good enough grounds to be considered a worthy partner in the meat market.

I hate to break it to you OP, but being independent and self-sufficient is a given. It's a no-brainer. Bragging about being self-sufficient is as silly and redundant as mentioning that you're Nigerian on a date at tantalizers in Lagos ( or wherever people visit nowdays. ). There are many self-sufficient psychopathic/Naugthy-person  men and women and vice versa.

Again, I will reiterate. Being self-sufficient is nothing but a common sense attribute every human should strive for. It is not enough of a reason to be considered a worthy potential partner.

^^^
Guy what you said is true but no need to jump off your chair now

^^Exactly

ashiri1:

^^what a badt mentality the POSTER has!!!^^

Why is it so hard for you do differentiate between a question & statement?

Nigerian men and their ill minds alongside defensive behaviour. . .stop getting all fired up behave maturely it really is not hard.

Intresting

Pweety4me:

^^Exactly

Why is it so hard for you do differentiate between a question & statement?

Nigerian men and their ill minds alongside defensive behaviour. . .stop getting all fired up behave maturely it really is not hard.

with the kind of behavior your have been exhibiting on nl alone guys will avoid you like plague.

ashiri1:

^^what a badt mentality the POSTER has!!!^^

Most of your type has retired to their parentz homes. THEY CAN HARDLY GET ANY GUY TO BE SERIOUS WITH THEM.

Enjoi your life inyah fadas house while PHUCKING ANY HOW(Oluwa gba wa o)

true

He needs sense transplant

some men are so intimidated by successful women,
and there are a lot of them on this NL.

well to answer your question you have to notice the root problem which is the woman, you see the problem is not the man but the woman who will abuse this newly discovered leverage she has gained by being successful, whereas the successful man will not think much of it as it is his natural role and encoded into his DNA to protect and sustain the women.

^ Exactly. sucessfull women try and overcompensate, of course it depends on the individual, but the majority do.

Majority of the men are intimidated by successful and independent women.

Someone posted a thread about Genny Nnaji deciding that she will take her time getting married and she wants to enjoying the dating scene.

I read every comment posted by the men and they expressed distaste in the fact she deemed independent and will grow old alone with her unwed child.

Being honest about reality bridge gaps between sources of the unknown.

This pweety4u always dub ppl post to create her thread for more attention sha!

Has this topic repeated itself at least a dozen times on nairaland. Anyways, I have no issues with a woman being independent and doing it big on their own. I would feel comfortable dating such a lady coz I feel more emphasis would be focused on getting to know each other rather than discussing money related matters each fortnight. That being said, there's a particular irritating trait among a lot of independent ladies that puts men off and that's BRAGGING! The poster displayed a bit of this. They always want to put it in your face each minute about how they pay their own bills,furthering their career and don't "really" need a man. This trait cheapens them and reminds me of a pig with a golden ring on it's snout! The guys already know you are doing okay. Is there any need for the excessive advertisement? I'm pretty sure these ladies would be pissed off if they were on a date with a guy who talked about how much his big mercedes cost and his 20 bedroom mansion every 10 minutes! Imagine how irritated you would be on a date with such a guy. That's EXACTLY how men feel when your success appears the only topic you're good in talking about. It kills the morale to pursue the relationship and has NOTHING to do with the so called "intimidation".

^^ Thank you and later when men avoid them they will come to nairaland and post rubbish