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I Need Your Advice Pls by Anobella: 1:48pm On Sep 13, 2022
There is this lady I came across at my place if work one thing led to the other we started dating. Right now I am in a relationship with her and she loves me so much.. she is an hustler ..

I was having a conversation with a friend then I told him my girlfriend is from Benue we Yorubas usually generalize ppl from the East as Igbos ..

My friend was like u wan marry igbo girl I pitty I asked why and he made me understand how complex and demanding their culture is..

I have heard several stories of Igbos poising themselves all because if riches . Brothers running after brothers property leaving the wives to suffer.. they did the same thing to her late dad .

I know a lady who told me that if she cheats the husband will die she is from Anambra. I was like wetin consin ur husband..
M not planning to cheat I also hate it
How they make u pay the mum's bride price before getting married to the daughter and all that ..

She is a virgin and this is one of the main reasons I haven't gone intimate with her despite the fact that she wants me to..

My mum said she has no problem with her but she is only scared if their culture to..




Now m confused and I don't know what to do ..

I hate anything that gives me problem do u guys think I should continue the relationship or stop ..

Pls mature comments no insults please
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by Anobella: 1:59pm On Sep 13, 2022
Anobella:
There is this lady I came across at my place if work one thing led to the other we started dating. Right now I am in a relationship with her and she loves me so much.. she is an hustler ..

I was having a conversation with a friend then I told him my girlfriend is from Benue we Yorubas usually generalize ppl from the south as Igbos ..

My friend was like u wan marry igbo girl I pitty I asked why and he made me understand how complex and demanding their culture is..

I have heard several stories of Igbos poising themselves all because if riches . Brothers running after brothers property leaving the wives to suffer.. they did the same thing to her late dad .

I know a lady who told me that if she cheats the husband will die she is from Anambra. I was like wetin consin ur husband..
M not planning to cheat I also hate it
How they make u pay the mum's bride price before getting married to the daughter and all that ..

She is a virgin and this is one of the main reasons I haven't gone intimate with her despite the fact that she wants me to..

My mum said she has no problem with her but she is only scared if their culture to..




Now m confused and I don't know what to do ..

I hate anything that gives me problem do u guys think I should continue the relationship or stop ..

Pls mature comments no insults please

I was in computer village then I heard two guys discussing one Yoruba and one Igbo honestly the Igbo guy said instead of him to get married to an igbo girl he would rather marry a Yoruba girl


Why is their culture like that .
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by Jamesbiodun(m): 2:22pm On Sep 13, 2022
Everyone with his or her own problem
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by lekani4real(m): 2:26pm On Sep 13, 2022
Get educated bro, Benue is not Igbo. Igbo are wonderful people so stop the unbiased generalization. If you want to marry, just marry make we hear word abeg.

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Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by Christiansimon: 2:34pm On Sep 13, 2022
you need mature answers and your mind is not mature to tell u or let u know what u want. you suppose collect.

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Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by dangermouse(m): 2:36pm On Sep 13, 2022
lekani4real:
Get educated bro, Benue is not Igbo. Igbo are wonderful people so stop the unbiased generalization. If you want to marry, just marry make we hear word abeg.

U dey mind the guy?
Obviously seeking for attention.

Marriage is not tribal. Its about being compatible...
Marrying a yoruba, igbo, benue or Hausa does not guarantee you a hitch free marriage.

Its obvious the op is still an attention seeking kid.

Date your woman, dot your i's and T's. If it tallies then go ahead and wife her and stop disturbing us with your silly analogies.
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by peedeeasobie(m): 2:42pm On Sep 13, 2022
Anobella:
There is this lady I came across at my place if work one thing led to the other we started dating. Right now I am in a relationship with her and she loves me so much.. she is an hustler ..

I was having a conversation with a friend then I told him my girlfriend is from Benue we Yorubas usually generalize ppl from the south as Igbos ..

My friend was like u wan marry igbo girl I pitty I asked why and he made me understand how complex and demanding their culture is..

I have heard several stories of Igbos poising themselves all because if riches . Brothers running after brothers property leaving the wives to suffer.. they did the same thing to her late dad .

I know a lady who told me that if she cheats the husband will die she is from Anambra. I was like wetin consin ur husband..
M not planning to cheat I also hate it
How they make u pay the mum's bride price before getting married to the daughter and all that ..

She is a virgin and this is one of the main reasons I haven't gone intimate with her despite the fact that she wants me to..

My mum said she has no problem with her but she is only scared if their culture to..




Now m confused and I don't know what to do ..

I hate anything that gives me problem do u guys think I should continue the relationship or stop ..

Pls mature comments no insults please





How do you expect mature comments when you posted this trash?

Are you sure you and your friend went to school at all?

You had the guts to post the tribally tainted vituperation online?
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by Chris2863(m): 3:03pm On Sep 13, 2022
This op is an educated illiterate grin cheesy. Your girl is from Benue but you are here discussing about the igbos. Where is your senses??

I’m not sure you are seeking for an advice or clarification. I really doubt you even have a Benue girl. Nonetheless, Benue is a different tribe from the igbo tribe. The two tribes don’t have any connections and if you must know, if you eventually marry her and she dies, you must return her corpse to her people. Their culture forbids burrying their daughters outside their fathers’ land. Ask your so called girlfriend or look for another Benue person and ask once your girlfriend starts beating around the bush.

Lastly, any day you are opportuned to date an Igbo girl talk more of marrying her, make sure you do that without looking back so as to enjoy your marriage. I be Igbo guy and God knows I’m definitely marrying an Igbo girl when the time comes.

Your friend told you, you heard, this, that cheesy grin. Quite funny
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by Qatar2022: 3:34pm On Sep 13, 2022
Anobella:


I was in computer village then I heard two guys discussing one Yoruba and one Igbo honestly the Igbo guy said instead of him to get married to an igbo girl he would rather marry a Yoruba girl


Why is their culture like that .
He is those useless guy their parents never take home
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by Jflex07(m): 3:46pm On Sep 13, 2022
Are you sure you are okay? What kind of tribal bigotry is this even in Romance section? Btw, how does North Central / middle belt concern east or igbos? I think you should go back to the school you graduated from and seek for the return of your fees.
Re: I Need Your Advice Pls by TheZeezle(m): 3:46pm On Sep 13, 2022
Uno need advice, Na beating you need to get you back to factory reset.

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