jaxxy:



U can't fill or satisfy certain people with material things, why? They may not be able to be bought over with material things or they are insatiable. Pray u don't meet the latter cos she will be ur financial and emotional ruin.

sadly I think ur wife may be the latter or a mix of both.

2ndly u lack emotional intelligence. There is smtn ur wife appreciates its not just what u are currently doing. Or maybe u have let her have her way so much u didn't allow her develop her appreciation and value system now she takes everything for granted or as normal.


To fix her skewed value system u need to play intelligent tricks on her to development her value system.

If u give a pig a diamond it won't appreciate it. its not the pigs fault. it probably has other values u don't know or u don't know how to train a pig. lol

it also seems to me the Only u have to offer ur wife is Material things That would be a disservice to urself and a tragedy to ur love.

Burgerlomo:

STFU

Burgerlomo:

STFU

wiseone28:
Get a life..




My last reply.

wiseone28:
Get a life..




My last reply.

mariahAngel:


I sikwanu'm mee gini?

Seriously speaking, couples encounter different challenges in marriages o.
Even this one that op is complaining about is nothing compared to what some others are going through.
There are truly only few good marriages.

zolajpower:

Just follow your heart ...... For me I'm following something that has brought me peace ever since I found her . Have you seen a Nigerian lady that will visit u from another state and won't ask you for transport fare before coming to visit you ?

Burgerlomo:

Are you single?

wiseone28:
You no well..


Poor nigga.

Burgerlomo:


You kidding me right? Ain't rich but I'm comfortable. Let's meet if you live close to NY.

Slynation:
well, As for me, I'm not married, so I usually mind my business when marriage is involved, and can only contribute when the guy is single...

But I'm very sure the married men saw all the red flags but decided to tie the knot because of big breasts, big ass and possibly fine face...

virginchaser:


.. And you really did mind your business.

wiseone28:
NY my arse

Burgerlomo:

Yep, NY NY the city that never sleep
Watching the news in my small crib

wiseone28:
How old are you?


Is this what moved you?

wiseone28:
How old are you?


Is this what moved you?

wiseone28:
How old are you?


Is this what moved you?

Burgerlomo:

Let's meet

wiseone28:
As what?

Burgerlomo:


As friends or as Nairalanders

wiseone28:
No problem try another female.


Nice trying.

I respect your courtesy.

wiseone28:
No problem try another female.


Nice trying.

I respect your courtesy.

rollywise:
You actually saw these things while dating her. But I'm not in the habit of fault finding when the deed isv done.
My advice: withhold some of the things you do for her. Not providing basic amenities at home o. Just withhold those gifts or whatever you buy for her that she's ungrateful for. If she complains, tell her it's coz she didn't appreciate the previous. Gradually it will sink into her

lansile:
Well, here is another version o. I have 70k on me last two weeks. I gave her 20k for food. The rest is spend in taking care of our new apartment that needs some repairs and that includes HER OWN clothes cabinet which alone consumed 15k ooo. She then started demanding demanding I give her 10k, despite I stated how I spent every penny and I didn't buy anything personally for myself or did anything in my own room,she said I just wasted 70k without benefiting her. 20k for our food, 15 alone for her cabinet and all other things like curtains rods etc . I'm taya o, and what can they offer other than kpekus? Nothing!!! And when you decide to face your girlfriend outside and leave their stupid kpekus for them, another problem begins, you will see your wife beating her own child for any little mistake. Just call them devils kawai

Banhammy717:
You're not only her husband, you're also her tutor and guidance.
You'll continue to educate her on the reasons to be appreciative.
Don't be tired of her, she will change for better one day.

jeromestarks:

There is something called divorce. Better to separate than to be tormented in a stupid marriage.

Chinny024:

Nawaooo...Why advocating for a divorce?..That should only come in when there's issue like threat to life...Family can't handle slight misunderstandings anymore?