HaneefahRN:
Which court gave you custody of the children?

Prospertochu:
My ex and mother of my triplets and I are separated. The children were with me.

Last week she called me to inform me that she is in the village and she wants to come over to see the children. I told her no problem my mother is at home with the kids she can come over anytime and she came on Monday while I was a t work. She brought foodstuffs and toys for the kids.

She texted me to asked if she can take them to her mother's place I said yes. She left with the 3 children. I expected her to bring them back today she said she is going back to Lagos tomorrow and this evening I came home I met my boys, not my girl. My mother said it was her brother who dropped them and I saw a big luggage with plenty of clothes she bought for them. I asked my mum what did the brother said about my girl he said my ex told her to inform me that she will bring her back tomorrow morning. I called, her number is switched off so I went at her mother's place, she said she left with the girl to Lagos yesterday.

I am very upset that she took the girl to Lagos without my consent and I want my girl back.

What should I do to have my child back with me?

Prospertochu:


Her number is switched off, I don't know if you can still remember my old thread when she was starving my mother you have given me very good advice which I am grateful

Prospertochu:





She has abandoned them for me and we didn't have a discussion about the children custody, she is her mother she can take care of her but I am not happy with her because she didn't informed me that she was taking her she lied to her mother that I have given her the permission to take the girl to Lagos . I think she is working in Lagos but I am not very sure

Prospertochu:
My ex and mother of my triplets and I are separated. The children were with me.

Last week she called me to inform me that she is in the village and she wants to come over to see the children. I told her no problem my mother is at home with the kids she can come over anytime and she came on Monday while I was a t work. She brought foodstuffs and toys for the kids.

She texted me to asked if she can take them to her mother's place I said yes. She left with the 3 children. I expected her to bring them back today she said she is going back to Lagos tomorrow and this evening I came home I met my boys, not my girl. My mother said it was her brother who dropped them and I saw a big luggage with plenty of clothes she bought for them. I asked my mum what did the brother said about my girl he said my ex told her to inform me that she will bring her back tomorrow morning. I called, her number is switched off so I went at her mother's place, she said she left with the girl to Lagos yesterday.

I am very upset that she took the girl to Lagos without my consent and I want my girl back.

What should I do to have my child back with me?

Prospertochu:
My ex and mother of my triplets and I are separated. The children were with me.

Last week she called me to inform me that she is in the village and she wants to come over to see the children. I told her no problem my mother is at home with the kids she can come over anytime and she came on Monday while I was a t work. She brought foodstuffs and toys for the kids.

She texted me to asked if she can take them to her mother's place I said yes. She left with the 3 children. I expected her to bring them back today she said she is going back to Lagos tomorrow and this evening I came home I met my boys, not my girl. My mother said it was her brother who dropped them and I saw a big luggage with plenty of clothes she bought for them. I asked my mum what did the brother said about my girl he said my ex told her to inform me that she will bring her back tomorrow morning. I called, her number is switched off so I went at her mother's place, she said she left with the girl to Lagos yesterday.

I am very upset that she took the girl to Lagos without my consent and I want my girl back.

What should I do to have my child back with me?

Prospertochu:
My ex and mother of my triplets and I are separated. The children were with me.

Last week she called me to inform me that she is in the village and she wants to come over to see the children. I told her no problem my mother is at home with the kids she can come over anytime and she came on Monday while I was a t work. She brought foodstuffs and toys for the kids.

She texted me to asked if she can take them to her mother's place I said yes. She left with the 3 children. I expected her to bring them back today she said she is going back to Lagos tomorrow and this evening I came home I met my boys, not my girl. My mother said it was her brother who dropped them and I saw a big luggage with plenty of clothes she bought for them. I asked my mum what did the brother said about my girl he said my ex told her to inform me that she will bring her back tomorrow morning. I called, her number is switched off so I went at her mother's place, she said she left with the girl to Lagos yesterday.

I am very upset that she took the girl to Lagos without my consent and I want my girl back.

What should I do to have my child back with me?

mardis:
Leave the girl child with her now. You have the two boys already in your custody allow her take care of the girl. It seems she is capable of doing that. Before you'll go and marry another woman that'll come and turn her to housegirl. And besides she will be more safer under the watchful eyes of her mother. Aren't you afraid of all this child molestors and abusers?

Helpout12345:


My advise is this.

1. Tell your mother-in-law and her family that they should tell her to bring your daughter back and do things the right way. Let them know you must know your daughter whereabouts and know how her welfare will be taken care of before you can allow her take the girl. Your message will surely get to your wife through them.

2. Give her few days to get back to you. If she gets back to you, discuss your concerns with her. Collect the address in Lagos where she stays with your daughter, visit them to see things for yourself.

3. If she refuses to get back to you, approach welfare system in your state and fight it legally.

She has no rights to take your daughter to a place you don't know or cannot see or visit your daughter as required. Just as she knows where to visit her sons with your mother, you also have equal rights to know where your daughter is, her living condition and all that.

frozen70:


Thanks dear for appreciating my first advice

Just be calm, She won't hurt her daughter, but I think she wants to be with one of her children

But if she was smart enough, she would have allowed you keep those children and be visiting them till you guys can sort things out

She may have switched off her number to just keep dealing with you

Be calm and relax till you get her on phone

This kind of matter have to be resolved amicably

If you take the matter any where, they may end up giving her the sole custody of the children then you will be visiting her to see the children

You see women,
You can't know what is in that one's mind until she hatches it

Take it calm and I pray she doesn't come back to take the rest children

Ulunne777:


Exactly.She did it the wrong way but its for the best.
That baby girl should be under her moms watch to avoid stories.

Invest4growth:
My girls my boys Entitlement mentality. Who told you that you singly own the children. Men should stop this irresponsible and irrational thinking. The woman could have looked for a sperm donor instead of you. So you are just fortunate to be the father of the triplet and you have the wherewithal to take care of them. Will you kindly and gladly sit with your ex and agree on co-parenting. So you expect her to come into the marriage empty and also exit empty. Feat God I beg. My girls My boys indeed!

Dshocker:


By right, all the children are supposed to be with their mother.

You are making it sound like you own 100% right on the children alone.

Prospertochu:
My ex and mother of my triplets and I are separated. The children were with me.

Last week she called me to inform me that she is in the village and she wants to come over to see the children. I told her no problem my mother is at home with the kids she can come over anytime and she came on Monday while I was a t work. She brought foodstuffs and toys for the kids.

She texted me to asked if she can take them to her mother's place I said yes. She left with the 3 children. I expected her to bring them back today she said she is going back to Lagos tomorrow and this evening I came home I met my boys, not my girl. My mother said it was her brother who dropped them and I saw a big luggage with plenty of clothes she bought for them. I asked my mum what did the brother said about my girl he said my ex told her to inform me that she will bring her back tomorrow morning. I called, her number is switched off so I went at her mother's place, she said she left with the girl to Lagos yesterday.

I am very upset that she took the girl to Lagos without my consent and I want my girl back.

What should I do to have my child back with me?

Princessdainty:
Person carry triplets for 9months with all the complications of multiple birthing and you say she kidnapped her child?.
Don't you have family members?
(so we should just wait for her to appear on blog after having sold the kid to some italian or romanian child porn gang?)

(is there any part of the constitution that makes pregnancy and child bearing an exemption or immunity from kidnapping charge? Did any court grant her custody of the kid?
Do you strap these kids to your back to go to work?
(does she currently do so?)
Are a full time dad.. (bt hypocrite no ask if she is a full time mom) ..entitlement of "my kids". (He doesn't need an entitlement as they're already his kids)

Prospertochu:


Thank you ma I am trying to stay calm but I am concern about my daughter safety , her mother had been to Lagos for 3 months I don't think she even has her own apartment or a job that she will be able to provide for the girl. Also I don't know who she is living with and the risk of her being sexually abused is high. I just hope she is safe and nothing will happen to her

Prospertochu:


She should have asked for my permission she shouldn't have taken her away from me without my consent , plus she is only been to Lagos since August she doesn't have any relatives there i don't know where or who she is staying with and if she is working who will be taking care of my child. She is only 3 years old she is at risk of being molest in Lagos than in the village

Fountainofyouth:
It's very unfortunate that innocent kids have to face the consequences of failed parenting, just imagine how they are tossing these little toddlers about, smh.

cedricksly:
the topic is misleading.... Oga leave the girl Child for her to nurture.... You have no business taking care of a girl Child when the mother is obviously alive, you didn't state in your long Sermon she(your ex) was irresponsible etc.. So you go to work and leave your girl Child at home with nobody and you are here saying you need your girl Child blah blah blah.. Ogs face front, you aren't the only one who has those children.

Prospertochu:


Thank you ma I am trying to stay calm but I am concern about my daughter safety , her mother had been to Lagos for 3 months I don't think she even has her own apartment or a job that she will be able to provide for the girl. Also I don't know who she is living with and the risk of her being sexually abused is high. I just hope she is safe and nothing will happen to her

Jennifer89:
I wonder how a mother will be able to sleep at night without her children

UjuJoan2:


Who have you custody of those kids in the first place. Sentiments aside, how come you ended up sold custodian of such young children?

If I were your ex I’ll do this the right way, through the courts.

mardis:
Leave the girl child with her now. You have the two boys already in your custody allow her take care of the girl. It seems she is capable of doing that. Before you'll go and marry another woman that'll come and turn her to housegirl. And besides she will be more safer under the watchful eyes of her mother. Aren't you afraid of all this child molestors and abusers?