there is this beautiful girl I just started dating, however she told me about 4 days ago that she's feeling guilty because
she has a bf back in her home country and that she's engage.I dont encourage cheating and I dont want to be the one
that will make any babe leave her guy.The last time she told me this story about her guy, as an honest guy I felt very guilty
for the romance session we've had, the next day I tried to apologize because of my guilt but behold she said she was just joking.At
that point we continue our relationship until 4 days ago when she came very serious with the bf issue again.This time she said she want to be commited to her
fiancee and that she can no longer hold the guilt. Infact I am really confuse because I dont really understand what to believe anymore.Ok now, I have let her be
but I sense she still has this strong attraction for me and can't really seem to control herself when I'm around her. Anyway she asked me to borrow her my car
for the weekend. I want to give her the car , is it a good idea to borrow her my car for the entire weekend, will that make me cheap to her? please mature advice

190smh:

Shes selling that CAR OFF and flying back to her country to meet her man

especially if shes a Nigerian girl - that's what they'll do

I dont think so. Thanks for the advice anyway.By the way she's not Nigerian. I'm Nigerian

Don't give what you will mind getting back.

claremont:

@OP: Do NOT give her your car, let her walk or enter "molue"!

Dont you think it will look as if I value the car more than her? I will feel very bad if I turn down her request.

Pweety4me:

Don't give what you will mind getting back.

well, she can go with the car if she want !

@poster
sometimes you need to be firm and not stupid
this is one occasion
how well do you know this girl that you think its okay to lend her your car for a whole weekend
you say you are Nigerian,but she is not right
so don't become the classified mugu
my advice, if you needs a car desperately get her one of those hired cars,pay for it and let her go her jolly way
its better to be safe that sorry
applicable in this case

toyemz:

@poster
sometimes you need to be firm and not silly
this is one occasion
how well do you know this girl that you think its okay to lend her your car for a whole weekend
you say you are Nigerian,but she is not right
so don't become the classified mugu
my advice, if you needs a car desperately get her one of those hired cars,pay for it and let her go her jolly way
its better to be safe that sorry
applicable in this case

Glad that this is coming from a girl.I never look at it in these direction. Infact I will offer to rent her a car. Thanks so so much for the advice.At least its better to offer something than nothing at all. Thanks

Pweety4me:

Ok hope that is satfisying

yes. very satisfying. thanks

Poster you're foolish. U say she wants to be serious with her bf back home and that you can't trust her or believe what she says, but you're still willing to give her your car? Why don't you give her your bank account # as well.

Mumu

Giving hε̲̣r †ђξ car doesn't automatically make †ђξ both of you a thing ‎​Ω̴̩̩̩̥α, does it? If you're giving it τ̅☺ hε̲̣r, you're giving it as a friend.

There is nothing to giving her the car for the weekend, if you are not in need of it. If she goes away with it, just report it stolen and insurance and popo will deal with the rest.

^^^ True, so yes, lend her your car. No matter all the other stuff, do it because you want to.

OP, it seem confusing here. Dnt the other guy have a car sahe can borrow from him why your own? Hmm just be careful. Shikena

Good one, excelboi.

The girl is guilty bout dating u cos ha bf is back home. She wants to get engaged to him so wats ur bussiness now.
And u said u re a 9ja guy? Smh!

She has made it clear, indirectly though, dt she wld go back to ha former bF, so that wen she leaves u n u start cryin 'no fair' she'l say 'but i told u before nha'

Borrow ha d car or rent one for ha, for old times sake, but just free ur mind, dias nothin for u there again.

Mr.Chima won't let me borrow his truck for a week alone.

Mr.Chima drives a truck? No wonder, Cork is right.

First of all you do not know a thing about this girl. secondly this mighty be a trap i am thinking, please don t give out your car unless it wont hurt you when gone,

priest2u:

Dont you think it will look as if I value the car more than her? I will feel very bad if I turn down her request.

But honestly speaking, dont u value ur car more than her?

Everytime I find myself asking a question its proof that am not comfortable with the whole idea.There's that inner voice telling me,dont try that'.
I treasure that small voice. Do what you feel comfortable doing and as somebody said,better be safe than sorry.

A girl tells you she is enguaged with someone else and you are considering borrowing her your car? Guy are you sure you are a Nigerian? Cos you don't sound very sharp

You do not know this girl well. You are not even sure if she really has a man or not because she confesses it and then says it is a joke. How then can you trust her with your car for a whole weekend?

^^^
Help me ask am ooo

Thanks all for the advice. its seems it very ok not to give her the car.If she wants one let her rent one.

She is probably a mami water and taking your car under the sea,

Op
she clinches well abi, and it worth your car and you are in love , o ga o

op

if u want 2 tap dat punny very fast and easy just give her d car

op
whats d name of ur car

op! U r so dumb