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Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by ebonyvibe(f): 11:47am On Aug 25, 2011 |
I have a friend who has being keeping a lover outside; she has now decided to call it a day and he has threathened to tell her husband if she doesnt pay hime £5000. Should she: 1)pay him and hope he doesnt come back? 2)to tell husband? 3)ignore him no proof anyway? or will he keep coming back? |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by teebaba78: 11:49am On Aug 25, 2011 |
pay and the marriage is over because the guy will demand for 10k after that |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Sparkle777(f): 11:51am On Aug 25, 2011 |
tell her hubby first. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by nassiwa: 12:33pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
She should tell her husband before the boy friend tells him. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by dave2(m): 12:42pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
I guess this is another story from Tom and Jerry episodes |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by pendo89(f): 1:03pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
mmh blackmail. why the heck did she have this other relationship. whatever the case.you dont solve evil with evil so go ahead spill it out cz I can guarantee you that this dude will keep playing this game till the marriage eventually collapses. Its good to face the consequences of our stupid actions once in while. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by ebonyvibe(f): 2:38pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
What a wasted life |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Sijo01(f): 2:47pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
pendo89: Seconded! |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by MrsChima(f): 3:11pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
This is a classic case of scorned lover who can't stand to see the husband reaping the benefit of his labor. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by MrCork17: 3:40pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
ebonyvibe: ebonyvibe<<<been caught cheating with Mr Cork |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Excelboi(m): 3:47pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
^^ Fish Head |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by ronkebp(f): 3:49pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
Tell her to tell that guy to go ahead and tell her hubby, it is as simple as that, he should tell her hubby. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by MrCork17: 4:27pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
ebonyvibe. sweeery can we discuss this over dinner? |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Kx: 4:34pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
The key word here is threaten. Threaten him to go ahead that u have already told your husband and obtained his mercy. d blackmail threat will end instanta. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
as everyone said, there is only ONE thing to do here. . . . . . . . . she should tell her husband and pay for the consequences of her actions. if she is stoopid enough to pay, she will STILL have to pay for the consequences of her actions. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by coogar: 9:41pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
ebonyvibe: --never ever pay a blackmailer unless you intend to kill him afterwards. . . . .they always come back. --she must never ever tell her husband. the trust he has in his wife disappears instantly and the marriage will eventually die a natural death. --since there's no proof, no audio/video evidence, she should ignore completely. change her numbers and keep her fingers crossed. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by whyMMM: 9:49pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Mikael4(m): 9:53pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
Oh well! |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Nobody: 10:08pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
coogar: what MARRIAGE will die if she confess?! you mean that marriage that has been dead a LONG TIME AGO?! the minute she cheated, that marriage was over and simply hanging on an ILLUSION. as for changing her number and disappearing, thats only good if gigolo didn't know her name, address, place of work and they have no friends in common. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by coogar: 10:12pm On Aug 25, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: marriage is still alive and kicking as long as the husband is not aware of the affair. no man can truly forgive infidelity in marriage. any woman who feels her husband will understand is extremely idiotic. the man will even the scores either now or 10 years later. plenty of time to think it through. besides, the man can even send her packing after her confession.
gigolo can feck off where the sun don't shine. . . . .name? address? place of work? is there any proof they were screwing each other? it's her word against his. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by HISchild: 1:20am On Aug 26, 2011 |
2, tell the husband, watching and praying that all will be well, and that he will forgive. "Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much." - James 5:16 "Gather not my soul with sinners, nor my life with bloody men: In whose hands is mischief, and their right hand is full of bribes. But as for me, I will walk in mine integrity: redeem me, and be merciful unto me." - Psalm 26:9-11 |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Mynd44: 3:34am On Aug 26, 2011 |
Call MMM I heard he is EGEDE!!!! He will make the guy disappear |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by ebonyvibe(f): 2:35pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
i second Coogar 100% |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Misbee(f): 2:45pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
why did u do it?please dis question.i need 2 knw before i give my full comment.dnt lie |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Blazing88(f): 2:50pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
see what penis has caused now! If she had stuck to ur husbands own, she wldnt b going thru all diz stress. Well if she tells her husband thats the end of d marriage. Even if he doesnt divorce her held always rub it in her face. Men dont forget such. Ild advise she goes into 40days fasting and prayers. God has to forgiver her 1st. Then he mite touch d heart of d blackmailer. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by livedit(f): 3:14pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
I completely agree with MRBrownJay on this one. She has made her bed, now she must lay in it. This guy isn't going to go away just that easily. He'd be like a strayed cat, once you keep feeding him, he will keep coming back for more and more. She need to confess to her husband her complete ultimate betrayal and try to savage her marriage and tell that fool to kick rocks. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
coogar: lol really?! the wife is fukcing around like a rat and you are claiming the marriage is alive and kicking? as i said earlier, only THE ILLUSION of marriage is alive and kicking because the minute this gal opened her leg to the gigolo, she VOID the vows she made and therefore renders that marriage done with. if YOU think being happily married can be achieve in such manners then you have a lot to learn. if a husband/wife dont ACT married then what they have isnt worth shiit. no man can truly forgive infidelity in marriage. any woman who feels her husband will understand is extremely idiotic. the man will even the scores either now or 10 years later. plenty of time to think it through. besides, the man can even send her packing after her confession. and whats wrong with that?! wouldnt you dump your partner if they did the same to you?! at least WE all know what you want your spouse to do when/if they cheat on you. . . . . . . . . no wonder many will NEVER find happiness in their r/ships. gigolo can feck off where the sun don't shine. . . . .name? address? place of work? the minute this will get to the ears of hubby then suspicion will set in, a simple check of her phone records will reveal that she DID call/sms him many times. if the guy asks for money then we can be certain that he got something incriminating against this gal. |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by coogar: 8:51pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: very much alive and kicking. . . . .what you dunno wouldn't kill you. you could be living with hiv for the past 10 yrs, you are not aware of it and you might never die of it.
what idiotic vows. . . .do you know what the husband is doing? there's no void as long as both parties keep their dirty affairs under wraps. . . . how do you know what you get paid every month is what you truly deserve. the tax man works out whatever math and they tell you your monthly pay is $5,432.56. what makes you think it shouldn't be more than that? you don't know and you will never care until someone exposes the fraud.
happy marriage? you are asking for a lot, son. men keep secrets, women keep more. the day husband and wife truly confess their atrocities in marriage in totality, you will realize there's no "happy" marriage as you put it. someway somehow, there's a judas in every marriage. the degree of judasism only varies from person to person.
the more reason i will not tell my partner if i cheated on her. cannot let 5 mins of casual s[i]e[/i]x ruin a relationship i have fostered for years or decades. it's easier to keep the secret than ruin the marriage or go through the process of nonsense divorce. i am an expert at risk management.
you are so naive! you really think this woman hasn't done her homework to eliminate any trace evidence, every digital footprint, every email, every text message, etc from her phone? if you catch a woman cheating - it's either she wanted to be caught so she can officially leave you or you work for the fbi. debarring those 2 options, you don't catch women cheating. it rarely happens. they are better at it than men! |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Russialane(m): 8:55pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
she deserves whatever is coming to her |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Mynd44: 12:20am On Aug 27, 2011 |
The woman is effed both ways |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Nobody: 4:23pm On Aug 27, 2011 |
coogar: i guess we have a different views of what a LIVE AND KICKING MARRIAGE is. in my world a live and kicking marriage is one where BOTH are happy, BOTH are respectful of their spouse, BOTH act right. you could be living with hiv for the past 10 yrs, you are not aware of it and you might never die of it. are you claiming that 10yrs is the benchmark for "never die from it"? again, you are talking about an ILLUSION as most people with AIDS eventually die from it (or any illness related to it). . . . . . . . .just because a few have managed to live for more than 20yrs with the disease is irrelevant.(especially when you know that it's the result of EXPENSIVE ARV cocktails) what idiotic vows. . . .do you know what the husband is doing? i guess in your world, its all about APPEARANCES, to hell with marriage vows and the aim is to stay married at all cost, right?! as for what the husband is doing, again, it's IRRELEVANT here as cheating surely wont solve the problem at hand. how do you know what you get paid every month is what you truly deserve. the tax man works out whatever math and they tell you your monthly pay is $5,432.56. what makes you think it shouldn't be more than that? you don't know and you will never care until someone exposes the fraud. woah, another beautiful example of an ILLUSION of all being alive and kicking. they have a contract together and they are suppose to respect it, here is something for YOU to think about since you think all is well: Mr A married Mrs B but he later discovered that he likes men and is actually g[b]a[/b]y, he now happily sleep around with men while pretending that all is well. do you also think that this marriage is ALIVE AND KICKING?! better yet, MR A's wife is lacing his every day meal with rat poison, since he is still alive, and doesnt know what his wife is doing, then this marriage is considered by you as ALIVE AND KICKING?! happy marriage? you are asking for a lot, son. i am only asking for what is RIGHT. we all know that to stay happily married aint easy but if one of the spouse decides that they have enough then they should ACT RIGHT rather that playing the fields. and if they truly need some gigolos then let her husband KNOW and DECIDE if he wants to be with such person. the important question here is: why should people stay married if they have no intention to RESPECT the marriage, RESPECT themselves and RESPECT their spouse?! the more reason i will not tell my partner if i cheated on her.yet you are happy to disrespect that r/ship by sleeping around?! what an irony!!! to each their own, as i said earlier, some people live ALL THEIR LIVES as an illusion. everything about them/their life is fake and its all about keeping up with the "Adebowales". sad life indeed. it's easier to keep the secret than ruin the marriage or go through the process of nonsense divorce. i am an expert at risk management. i hope you feel the same way if/when your partner catches HIV/AIDS through her infidelity and decides to continue having unprotected se.x with you, jsince all is "ALIVE AND KICKING". you are DEFINITELY no expert in risk management because, if you were, then you wouldnt have cheated to begin with, BWAAAAAAAAH! you are so naive! if this lady had done her "homework" properly then A) we would have never heard of this blackmail issues and B) she would never consider paying the guy. the guy asked for 1million Naira so he surely has something incriminating on her, the minute she pays then she will be hooked, just like most people scammed through 419, and will pay through her damn nose till she get busted. this lady may be a lot of think but smart SHE IS NOT! |
Re: Boyfriend Threathens To Tell Husband by Nobody: 5:08pm On Aug 27, 2011 |
foolish woman didnt she remember she was married when she was offering her kinny to another man?? |
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