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Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by whyMMM: 7:26am On Aug 27, 2011 |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by CHoccolaTE: 8:05am On Aug 27, 2011 |
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Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by sizzlers(m): 8:14am On Aug 27, 2011 |
moremi2008:we hav plenty of dem looking 4 smal boyz to spoil, i ve been a victim once but i kawared |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by CHoccolaTE: 8:15am On Aug 27, 2011 |
And I think it is unfortunate that the list does not exclude foolish women that cannot hold a meaningful conversation on any worthwhile topic but it excludes those that don't know bedroom acrobatics. Your number 1: Over skillz, the one about the party loving, out-going extrovert, those girls get men easily, make no mistake about it. I have one of them as a close friend. Men who want women that can get them publicity, especially political aspirants; those men seek such girls. And number 10. Can't take shi.t from a man. What type of 's,hit' do you mean? And I think that if a girl corrects you instead of just keeping m.ute and 'taking s.hit', then she is trying to improve you which is a good thing. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Osama10(m): 8:16am On Aug 27, 2011 |
Boys are wicked oh. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Mynd44: 8:18am On Aug 27, 2011 |
omg!!! |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Enrythesis(m): 8:23am On Aug 27, 2011 |
Pls we need d men version of dis. Ladies jerk up give it me now |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by claremont(m): 8:25am On Aug 27, 2011 |
[CHocolaTE]:All they know how to talk about is meaningless chit-chats with faceless characters! |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by laidback(m): 8:28am On Aug 27, 2011 |
[CHocolaTE]: Don't mind the OP jo. It's a funny list no doubt, but i can never support guys running down gals who are confident and disciplined enough to hold out till marriage. There's nothing wrong with that. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Mynd44: 8:40am On Aug 27, 2011 |
claremont: And they can't spell correctly anymore cos all they use is shorthand |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by tuneh(f): 8:46am On Aug 27, 2011 |
From your list, I wouldn't want your type anyway! |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by no1madman(m): 8:49am On Aug 27, 2011 |
[/quote][quote author=seedord247 link=topic=745408.msg9017878#msg9017878 date=1314412984]It's worth d trouble. . .but after d wedding,i go give her 10 billions powerful strokes within an hour. . . |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by sexsinners(m): 8:54am On Aug 27, 2011 |
no1madman: haha nice thats y i like virgins |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Nobody: 8:54am On Aug 27, 2011 |
claremont: The so-called 'Blackberry Babes'; swarming all over the place like an invasion of locusts. Their very presence fills me with disgust. @ Topic. Excellent. But I think a lively, good natured, well-mannered 'no sex till marriage' virgin can escape the shelf - as long as she possesses the mentioned qualities. Every other category in your top 10 list is unimpeachable. Also add the 'over-accomplished' man-rivalling kind of woman. She thinks her high-sounding accomplishments/educational qualifications enhances her marriage value - even though she lacks humility and other core wifely qualities. Most comfortable, upwardly mobile men care little about a woman's accomplishments; all they really want is a good wife and a great mother for their kids. Now roger that. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Mynd44: 9:01am On Aug 27, 2011 |
^^^ actually some guys are the problem. They sometimes can't stand a sucessful woman |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by AjanleKoko: 9:23am On Aug 27, 2011 |
Mynd_44: Maybe, but still, girls got lots of attitude these days. Apart from 5 & 6, the rest of the OP's categorizations are mostly true. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by sexsinners(m): 9:33am On Aug 27, 2011 |
AjanleKoko:maybe they have attitude ,because most of you silly boys try to get into their pants for free. sinner |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by chmod777: 9:38am On Aug 27, 2011 |
my naija piple, i really wonder why we de treat and take women like rags up till this age. Respect na mutual thin. We keep finding all odds against women. It is clear from phsycology say " when u are busy identifying someone else's fault, u 4get u have one and get worse, but when u are busy identifying and correcting yours , u ignore theirs and get better. Indeed we get African virtues but we need to grow and drop the stupid ones and move on and enhance the good ones. It may sound strange to many that even oyibo get similar stupid values for women say last 200 to 500 years, but they have outgrown it and (tho too bad) given women superiority. All humans, male and female have good and stinking sides. B4 u talk of any woman with judgmental mindset, remember u have ur mama, ur sister and might have a daughter. Do not stereotype "MEN or WOMEN" cos individuals are very different. Myself na man I be and a twin but I get much character difference with my brother. I get the privilege of having been to at least 10 countries, mixed with up to 100 nationals. I came to realize cultures are values but should be dynamic to reflect present civility. My piple treat men abi na women with respect. I no go fail to point out that the[b] women ajebo factor[/b] we de see 4 naija na because of low mentality, poverty and low complex, I no dee naija but for EU we I dee, even a manager of a company say at 24yrs fit role up her sleeves to clean her toilets, cook for herself, work on her gardens, use harmer to fix her things. to me Ajebo =Glorified Laziness. Grow up my lovely naija |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by BLECINS(f): 9:57am On Aug 27, 2011 |
In d olden days when it was a taboo to engage in sex before marriage,their marriage work out perfectly well. these days divorce rate is on d increase due to too much sampling b4 marriage. after sampling b4 marriage most men continue to sample several ladies after marriage. may God have mercy on you! @ sexsinners there are still virgins in nigeria |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Mynd44: 9:59am On Aug 27, 2011 |
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Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by fyomer: 10:01am On Aug 27, 2011 |
r231 (m)LDN« on: Yesterday at 05:49:18 PM »: r231 (m)LDN« on: Yesterday at 05:49:18 PM »: 60% of Nigerian men today are guilty of this,especially if they are also rich,they pretend to be in love.mostly matchmaked,family ties etc while 20% percent poor Nigerian men can only wish for such. r231 (m)LDN« on: Yesterday at 05:49:18 PM »: The number of single mothers today have increased do to these,the woman comes out with positive heart,but the man cunninly lie and pushes her away if pregnancy comes up(most men) r231 (m)LDN« on: Yesterday at 05:49:18 PM »: THATS FOR "SPOILT BRAT" WOULD EQUALLY DO THE SAME,and the men also mumu with them,"darling "am here,am there(cause so many things are involved) r231 (m)LDN« on: Yesterday at 05:49:18 PM »: most time SPOILT BRAT fall under this,and yet rich men know all about these,but still went ahead(sometimes for show, and to compet"with friends" they go as far as surpoting them with more money for these,while the poor men sit doing their wishful thinking(oh "money money"if only i have the money,"well let me go for my standard" r231 (m)LDN« on: Yesterday at 05:49:18 PM »: HEAR WHAT,tommorow you still come here to say"am looking a wife,she "must"be tall,light compextion,slim sexy,sit on back while i exercise,long hair,phd holder,bla bla,blah. -The following day, you come back here posting"pls she cant cook,shes lazy,she beats me "bla, bla |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Russialane(m): 10:11am On Aug 27, 2011 |
rubbish some men no dey hear word even if they no that the ladies they will eventually get married has so many flaws guys trust me they will go ahead and marry them in the name of love or bla bla bla like i will change her or GOD WILL CHANGE her rubbish u cant change someone, thats why we are humans, in the end they start to regret and the then the next place they turn to seeking for advice is nairaland NONSENSE you cant always eat your cake and have it. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Kalman(m): 10:21am On Aug 27, 2011 |
Poster Please access the trade-offs lets see? Nice post by the way |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Nobody: 10:23am On Aug 27, 2011 |
chmod777:Eyaaaa. . .Glad to read this. I really am. I have given up on expecting Nigerian men to outgrow their ego problems, it is something in their DNA. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Nobody: 10:24am On Aug 27, 2011 |
chmod777:Eyaaaa. . .Glad to read this. I really am. I have given up on expecting Nigerian men to outgrow their ego problems, it is something in their DNA. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Nobody: 11:00am On Aug 27, 2011 |
chmod777:Thanks 4 being truthful. we shld all undastand, that no one is perfect. |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Anvaller: 11:05am On Aug 27, 2011 |
chmod777: U are right. From your point, what bothers me most is the fact that even many Nigerian ladies in this same E.U are still disturbing with their mentality. They do not learn from the up-and-doing attitude of their white chick counterparts. The scope of a typical white lady is always deep in any given topic u are raising and even if she does not know much about a given topic, her little contribution will still reflect the fact that she knows what she want. But our ladies!!! you 1st of all have to find out what does she know then you open a topic to that direction otherwise she will see you as boring. Nigerian ladies typically limit themselves to what they are interested in which is often times entertainment, music, movies, fashion etc. They dont like discussing economics, local/international politics, business and sport. Referring to your point that Nigerian guys should respect their ladies, of course very good but it is nice to advise the ladies also to brace up and try to upgrade. A continuous ceding of certain capability or responsibility to men by the ladies will always make th men feel dominant and in that case their cant be respect. Its a contrary situation with the white ladies, they will dare what the guys would also dare so they dont feel inferior to guys in the first place. They will follow politics, economics, entertainment and so on. There is nothing the guys know that they dont also know so naturally, it is just not very easy to push them over. However, it is clear that other factors are also responsible for this. Religion will tell Nigerian ladies to be submissive to their men and honestly, this may be the reason why things will never change |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by denzel2009: 11:16am On Aug 27, 2011 |
The ones that have attitude problems and Multiple Personality Disorder nko? |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by Russialane(m): 11:29am On Aug 27, 2011 |
what about the tokunbo ones? |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by donguutti: 11:35am On Aug 27, 2011 |
denzel2009:like so many on NL, nice thread sha but overgeneralized, looking forward to seeing the male version of it from the feminists, and there is always opportunity for change |
Re: Bacherlor's Club - Single Ladies Men Don’t Like To Marry by amaechijay: 11:44am On Aug 27, 2011 |
Which one is "poo"/ Pls explain no. 10 in plain language pls |
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