tommy589:


How much are private school teachers earning except the top league ones. Op said his uncle wish is for them to become teachers in the school. And you think his uncle harbours no ill feelings

Lol, I didn't see that in his main post.

GboyegaD:
Guess I was lucky as a kid then.

Yes, you were.

Your uncle should have given him more befitting job. Common, that's too demeaning. Employ his brother as a gate man? No for me.

ExAngel007:
Can't your uncle find any job for him other than that?

it is not the duty of the uncle to find a job for him.

I would not feel comfortable in your father or uncle's shoes.

It is like a woman employing her sister as a maid or cleaner.

If I were your uncle, I would make your dad the Chief Security Officer in charge of the gate men, security men and general security.

Since he has taken it, the kids have to ignore the mockery of their peers. Unfortunately, both the kids and the peers are not mature.

You said he wants the older kids to be teachers. Well, If they had more decent jobs, he would not offer.

Funny at Family School: the uncle has probably watched too much African Magic

Romanoff:
Does your father have any other work experience?

grafixdon:
Your uncle should have given him more befitting job. Common, that's too demeaning. Employ his brother as a gate man? No for me.

Another thing we don't know is the dynamics of the relationship between the dad and the uncle.

bukatyne:
I would not feel comfortable in your father or uncle's shoes.

It is like a woman employing her sister as a maid or cleaner.

If I were your uncle, I would make your dad the Chief Security Officer in charge of the gate men, security men and general security.

Since he has taken it, the kids have to ignore the mockery of their peers. Unfortunately, both the kids and the peers are not mature.

You said he wants the older kids to be teachers. Well, If they had more decent jobs, he would not offer.

Funny at Family School: the uncle has probably watched too much African Magic

We were in Secondary School when he said this, he didn't even want to me to go to the university but rather a teacher training college.

And to add, me and my brother have no desire in wanting to teach in the school he is the one rather forcing us.

Definitely from the north

wiseone28:
Definitely from the north

Stewpid being

Dullone

Candidlady:


Stewpid being
Dullone

Can you gettefuk off my mention gaybriel?

abdulhakim3:


We were in Secondary School when he said this, he didn't even want to me to go to the university but rather a teacher training college.

And to add, me and my brother have no desire in wanting to teach in the school he is the one rather forcing us.

Look stop trying to paint your uncle bad, he is not responsible for getting your father a job, nor does he owe him money; he even provided your father employment.

Your father can resign if he doesn't want it.

Your uncle cannot force you to do anything you don't want to do.

If you don't like your uncle, you, your brother and your father can simply stay away.

EOD.

abdulhakim3:
My Uncle employed my father to be a gateman of his private School due to the fact that my father was employed. Me and my brother are students of the school and sometimes were mocked by friends and school. Do you think my Uncle was right in doing this?

How can you afford the fees?

abdulhakim3:
My Uncle employed my father to be a gateman of his private School due to the fact that my father was employed. Me and my brother are students of the school and sometimes were mocked by friends and school. Do you think my Uncle was right in doing this?

The more you grow the more you understand that money isn’t easy to make. Your dad needs money, if he doesn’t need that job you wouldn’t be the one to tell him to quit. You did not tell us who pays your school fees. Read more, get smart so you can do well in life better than those mocking you.

abdulhakim3:
My Uncle employed my father to be a gateman of his private School due to the fact that my father was employed. Me and my brother are students of the school and sometimes were mocked by friends and school. Do you think my Uncle was right in doing this?

Yet you as a secondary school boy in which his father is a gateman in private school, still have money to buy android phone.

Though I know u culled ur story from TV series, oga landlord

Kobojunkie:
1. He claims he is psychologically impacted by what he sees happening so it is good he take his concerns to his old man, the one who is best able to help me better process the situation.

2. My guess is OP is simply young and trying to better understand what is happening in his world. Not that he is being ungrateful or any of that sort of thing. He did mention other kids talk about his dad being a gateman at the school so I think his worries are legit and need to be addressed..

actually the boy is still quite naive about the happenings around,for him to take his mates to heart for mocking his dad shows he has a lot of growing up to do.

omale88:
actually the boy is still quite naive about the happenings around, for him to take his mates to heart for mocking his dad shows he has a lot of growing up to do.

And that is what fathers are there to help with --- advise us on how to handle such issues.

Kobojunkie:
And that is what fathers are there to help with --- advise us on how to handle such issues.

if you are asking my opinion regarding this its simple, he has to accept that his father is a responsible man for taking the job,puting his life at risk for the kids mocking his dad is so much sacrifice they cant afford, secondly he should ignore them because he knows the worth of his father's occupation.

"[i]Study hard and get good grades that will land you better opportunities in future."

Is that the sure way to success?

God is King.

ExAngel007:
Can't your uncle find any job for him other than that?

Have you asked him of his father's qualification?

Though your uncle tried, but there are other options I believe he could have been placed. Most times family relationship is scam. Some friends are even better than siblings. I don't buy the idea that the gateman job is the only job that suit he's level of education. I believe your uncle has connections? I fear who no fear Nigerian/African relations. One can't know the depth of someone heart. To me its not really nice. You guys should hustle hard to take good care of your dad by learning some good skills like programming etc.

Goodplace:

"[i]Study hard and get good grades that will land you better opportunities in future."
Is that the sure way to success?
God is King.

If success in the world is what you seek, leave God alone..

Fiscus105:



Yet you as a secondary school boy in which his father is a gateman in private school, still have money to buy android phone.

Though I know u culled ur story from TV series, oga landlord

Lol am no more in Secondary school. Just completed university and doing my national service.

abdulhakim3:
My Uncle employed my father to be a gateman of his private School due to the fact that my father was employed. Me and my brother are students of the school and sometimes were mocked by friends and school. Do you think my Uncle was right in doing this?

Yesterday 29/11, you and your brother were in the school (secondary), today 30/11, you are doing your NYSC.
ANYWAY SINCE VAST MAJORITY OF NAIJA YOUTHS ARE JOBLESS, I THINK PEOPLE ARE MAKING THEMSELVES BUSY, BY WRITING FICTIONS.

......I pity any idiot who will take rubishes writing on faceless public forum to act in real life.

Nigerfine3:

The more you grow the more you understand that money isn’t easy to make. Your dad needs money, if he doesn’t need that job you wouldn’t be the one to tell him to quit. You did not tell us who pays your school fees. Read more, get smart so you can do well in life better than those mocking you.

I did not pay any fees from primary to jhs because the school is for my uncle. But from Secondary school all through to the university my mom was the one who paid our fees.

Fiscus105:



Yesterday 29/11, you and your brother were in the school (secondary), today 30/11, you are doing your NYSC.
ANYWAY SINCE VAST MAJORITY OF NAIJA YOUTHS ARE JOBLESS, I THINK PEOPLE ARE MAKING THEMSELVES BUSY, BY WRITING FICTIONS.

......I pity any idiot who will takhe rubishes writing on faceless public forum to act in real life.

Bro this is not fiction. I was referring to when my uncle uttered those words.

bukatyne:
I would not feel comfortable in your father or uncle's shoes.

It is like a woman employing her sister as a maid or cleaner.

If I were your uncle, I would make your dad the Chief Security Officer in charge of the gate men, security men and general security.

Lol. Buka is in utopia.

How many security men does an average private school have? Abi you think say na Atlantic Hall?

pocohantas:


Lol. Buka is in utopia.

How many security men does an average private school have? Abi you think say na Atlantic Hall?

Atlantic Hall na serious ajebutter school from way back in the 90s, when they were operating from Shonibare Estate in Maryland before their relocation to Epe.

Truth be told, Ur uncle did not try at all. however, let this be a push factor to make u struggle hard to make money...

U see y some ppl join:
yahoo
Money occultic group
Drug trafficking
And other illegal ways just to make money.


It is because of things like this.

But tell Ur self that when I also make money, which u MUST make, u will not treat Ur own brother or sister this way too..

Las Las, Ur uncle na craze man

Mindlog:


Atlantic Hall na serious ajebutter school from way back in the 90s, when they were operating from Shonibare Estate in Maryland before their relocation to Epe.

I used to hear of it as a child and wondered if the kids came to school in PJs. While in SS2 or so, one our teachers got a job in Atlantic Hall, the few days leading to his resignation, his step changed.

pocohantas:


I used to hear it as a child and wondered if the kids came to school in PJs. While in SS2 or so, one our teachers got job in Atlantic Hall, the few days leading to his resignation, his step changed.

My early education was in Maryland and about 10 mins walk away from Atlantic Hall and a good number of Atlantic Hall students had their younger ones in my primary school, so closing time was usually a display... being snobbish was their calling.....level pass level!

That should be ur motivation, not attention seeking. I'm sure ur dad isn't as bothered as u, we should learn to always appreciate no matter how small we are offered.