LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

Blessedmercy8:
How old is she?
What's your relationship with her about? For Benefits or something serious that holds a future for both of you?

If it's for benefits, then you can't blame her and I wonder why you're surprised and feeling disappointed as you out to know what kind of relationship you guys are into.

I guess she understands the bases of the relationship more than you that is why she still asked for such knowing you're grieving. Now, You want to tell me you won't ask to sleep with her as you're grieving and expect her to give you? That's exactly how she sees it too. So, stop complaining because that's how such relationship works. Money for hand, back for ground.

Next time, when going into a relationship, try to know what you're going into by spelling out your relationship goals and expectations to each other so every one knows where he or she stands and what to expect at any given time.

Tycyborg:


Madam, what you are saying is very wrong... Even ashawo won't bill you during your grieving time... There is something they call sensitivity and moral and self respect... That girl lacks all and more...
Iets imagine it's even money for hand back for ground. Such girl will never bill you because you guys will either be like friend or like (someone I knew from somewhere) kind of thing which will make her as a person not to call the person and ask for money... Even hookup girls will only call that I heard about your father sorry o... Not telling the guy give me so so money for so so things ... Unless the guy called for sex while grieving... Even some hookup girl will do it free for that moment and they will know how to collect their money back later either direct or indirect when the person got heal.
So what you are saying doesn't count at all

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

edunaragold:
only a woman will as this stupid question, even a 15 yrs old will simpatice with any one if a relationship dies ,she no like him joor.

Zonefree:

What do you intend to achieve with a demon's phone number?

Zonefree:
She's not just into you.


When a girl loves you, your feelings and emotions are her utmost concern.

The earlier you discard and do away with that demon, the better for your sanity.




All the same, accept my condolences on the death of your father. God rest his soul.

Zonefree:
She's not just into you.


When a girl loves you, your feelings and emotions are her utmost concern.

The earlier you discard and do away with that demon, the better for your sanity.




All the same, accept my condolences on the death of your father. God rest his soul.

LaSenior:


True true I don mess up sha but this is the last strike that broke the Carmel back

Am done and that it

delpee:


You don't have a fiancee yet. You give due consideration to character before getting to that stage.

Condolences to you on your sad loss. RIP to your dad.

Ak75:
What is the meaning of this? So she should not celebrate Christmass because your father is dead, abi nah she kill the old man?

gypsey:
So because your dad died christmas should be put on hold? Your Dad is dead! life goes on for the living, does this mean you will never spend money ever again co's your father died?.

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

feranmi143:
Yo fish, you think she care about you, the next time you contact her you are a simp, I MEAN A FOOLISH one, so sorry about your dad

aisha1314:



What she's done by asking you for money for Christmas after you've just lost your dad is not right at all. It shows selfishness and callousness on her part and that's not a good sign. You should consider this to be a major red flag.
I think you need to have a serious conversation with her about this and tell her that you don't approve of her behavior. If she sees the wrong in what she's done and she apologies sincerely then you can let it go. But if she just acts like she did nothing wrong the you should think about ending the relationship.
I can't imagine asking someone for money immediately after they've just lost a family member.

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

3verblazing:
nop a 15 yr old is too young to understand the true depth of grief.

A more matured woman, even if she's not into him, will have that self awareness and understanding that the situation doest no warrant that kind of frivolous demand. If shes a minor, it is understandable. You need to clear that out first before drawing your conclusions on the woman. So oga that's not a stupid question.

gypsey:
Well... everyone is not a fool like you, his father is dead and gone life goes on for him and his girlfriend afterall she didn't kill his father, if he gives her money his father would still be dead no difference

Its very easy to identify Children who were raised without a Father in their Life!,
its not easy being the product of a 'One night Stand', the Mother cant identify to her Child, who his father is, so he does not know what others fell, when they lose their Father.

I really feel sorry for Children like you, no wonder you are just talking Lubbish all over the place.
Just make sure that when you die, your Children wont say, "Good riddance to bad rubbish, the fool is dead and we wont miss him for a minute .

LaSenior:
she has been doing things worse and I ignored buy this one hits below the belt this is a girl I met just 1year ooo I have spent close to 800k even her siblings usually feel jealous the way I treat her I have not for once wronged her or refused her demands but this her insensitive action she will pay for it and I know she doesn't even care because everything she does is right to her

I have moved because God Bear me witness I have taken a lot shits from her so if she chooses to go because I didn't give her Christmas money then fine after Christmas she should remain where she is.

I have never seen a girl so heartless though I usually see the red flags and I ignore it but if I dare ignore this one then I am a big fool

EdoBoy90:
Some Nigerian ladies are useless and stupid. Some don't have sense, sorry to say.

One was telling me that I am the least he had dated. This is someone who didn't Learn work or go to school. She doesn't even know her problem let alone to solve it. She is so useless. I can't even spend the rest of my 3 months with. The last time I checked she was working in a Restaurant with a salary that is not enough for me to feed in 3 days.