the find it hard to leave, i know a number of ladies der bf beat dem up , d cry run and return for another beating, i also know of anoda her bf cheats on her alot she crys but will neva agree to leave d guy, she will even fight to get her man back,
y girls , y cant u leave abusive relationship?

Why do men like to beat women?

^^^ like u had one b4? good reason i guess but d answer is still y?

Goldieluks:

Abusive relationship is like a trap,and most girls find it difficult to
quit for reasons best known to them,maybe if they quit,the guy might come stalking them,
and maybe try to hurt them.Or maybe if they quit,they do not have the hope of finding
another guy.It is quite painful to imagine what some of we girls/ladies are experiencing in relationships/marriages.

Also, I think in some cases, it is their "normal." If they were raised in abusive situations, then tolerating more of it in a relationship when theyre older would seem normal.

i can't imagine dat coming frm u, so u're one of those men

Mr, Cork:

Women need to be kept in line once in a while. They never obey!! (no oofeince)

And this coming from a guy whose wife beats him regularly

The women , know how to tolerate things, her not leaving is due to the fact that, she believes the guy would change with time.

i see, i  think he need more of the beating

ronkebp:

The women , know how to tolerate things, her not leaving is due to the fact that, she believes the guy would change with time.

what kind of believe is dat? Im certain he will can only get worse

dipxy004:

what kind of believe is dat? Im certain he will can only get worse

Yelz!!!! with time, the men get worst, and the women are left with no option, is either they stay and still condole the beatings' or leave.

They might be benefiting other things which we dont know. i ve been wondering about same thing. they will never date cool guys like us

^^^^^ gifts and money, and otehr financial benefits.

Never been in one before and don't think I'll like it,I often wonder †ђξ same cos I know a girl in one,she says she loves him so she can't leave.

A girl once told me she likes her bf to beat her occasionally, so I guess to some, it’s a form of sadomasochism (more of masochism), commonly referred to as S&M (ask Rihanna). Bottom-line, there are many sick and crazy people out there.

To others, in line with what talina said (applicable to both male and female) it’s a habit developed and treated as a norm because of bad parenting.

A verse from Big Stan featuring DMX – Walk with me:

I’ve watched men beat on my mother my whole life
So when I hit my baby mother I thought it was alright   (NO!!!)
Maybe if I woke up and them niggaz was gone
I woulda knew that all the hittin’ was wrong, (Exit Wounds Soundtrack, 2001)

I wish a mofo would.

smdh

op
men re scarce

men r not really scares but men dat r 2do r scarce

^^
I mean correct men

The question should have been "why do girls like bad guys?" bad guys are the ones abusing relationship, and girls like their lifestyle.

^^^^ Its not always the case. Like I said before, sometimes it is a "normal" thing for someone who was raised in an abusive situation.

sexkillz:

^^^Well, i agree! But the topic GENERALIZED, so i gave a GENERAL answer too!

black women love bad boys
the more you smack your girlfriend the more she respects you

Mynd_44:


And this coming from a guy whose wife beats him regularly

And yet they'll come here screaming 'wife beater', 'woman beater' as if it's the most despicable thing in the world. Yet they secretly/subconsciously 'enjoy' being abused, and would prefer 'bad' or 'abusive' guys to the gentle and cool ones? Where exactly do they stand? How does one ferret out the truth in-between what women 'say' they want and what they TRULY want? Something is seriously wrong with the world.

I've seen a situation wher this guy beats his babe black and blue every once in a while, that day will be the day the girl will(after the beating of course) go to the arket and cook a wonderfully delicious meal for the guy with her own money oo . Its really sick, you treat a girl with respect your a MUGU, you treat her like a piece of trash then your the man. I once had a girl who told my friend that I was a very wicked guy, why? Because I don't lay a finger on her when she goes wrong, dat I give her the silence treatment and to her that's worst than beating (considering my martial arts history I felt I was protecting her)