I don't think the women LIKE abusive relationships. I believe it's become the norm to a lot of women

and they're too weak or their self-esteem is far too low for them to walk away. Very sad situation. My

own Aunt was in one of these relationships and she eventually killed the man, in self defense so no jail

time applied.

It's all about control.They're submissive to your authority.

Fellas control your woman or she will attempt to control you.

Heey. I see you.

Sup Mrs Chima, you haven't been causing any wahala lately have you?

No.    Somebody unimportant created a thread in my honor on NL section.

there are two reasons why girls dont leave abusive relationships.
1. the guy must b very rich
2. Or he is perfect in bed.
Got a frnd,her boyfrnd beats her black n blue but still she cant quit d relationship cos he spoils her with money.

I noticed that it is not just restricted to heterosexual relationships. I've come across quite a number of girls in abusive lesbian relationships that find it hard to let go. From my own experience, I think psychologically, those ladies like the control their partner has over them and I don't think they can enjoy that relationship otherwise, at least two or so girls have confessed as such to me. Well, to me, that's just sick and I think the person needs some counselling.

emotional feelings is one thing that can take hold of oneself and if not carefully handle, it can jeopardize one's whole being. the girls may not really wish to continue the relationship if found it abusive, but she might be too emotional attached to the bad guy to an extend were she can,t control or help herself and trying to stay away from the guy might cause more pains than living with it, though she know is wrong! also, this is not common with girls only, even some good guys get emotional attached to the wrong girls as well. they need the grace of god to overcome this!