I am tired of this life and ready to end it because it seems nothing is working out. I and my family are presently suffering accommodation problem and the landlord has threatened to eject on Christmas day. How can everyone be celebrating on Christmas day and only me and my family be experiencing shame?
Please somebody help

Shey you don ready for suicide yes or no? See I’m done convincing people over suicide, lot of people are going through problems bigger than yours and yet there’re still pushing, Abeg guy if na accommodation problem wan make you commit suicide do it in peace don’t disturb us...

Eyinju112:
Shey you don ready for suicide yes or no? See I’m done convincing people over suicide, lot of people are going through problems bigger than yours and yet there’re still pushing, Abeg guy if na accommodation problem wan make you commit suicide do it in peace don’t disturb us...

Don't be insensitive abeg... if u cant find the right words better say nothing at all

Eyinju112:
Shey you don ready for suicide yes or no? See I’m done convincing people over suicide, lot of people are going through problems bigger than yours and yet there’re still pushing, Abeg guy if na accommodation problem wan make you commit suicide do it in peace don’t disturb us...

Thank God out are not in my shoes to see how frustrating, depressing and painful life is

Davizee:
I am tired of this life and ready to end it because it seems nothing is working out. I and my family are presently suffering accommodation problem and the landlord has threatened to eject on Christmas day. How can everyone be celebrating on Christmas day and only me and my family be experiencing shame?
Please somebody help

Look up to God.. killing yourself will not change anything. Where are you residing?

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Look up to God.. killing yourself will not change anything. Where are you residing?[/quote
Around ijegun, Lagos.

Davizee:
I am tired of this life and ready to end it because it seems nothing is working out. I and my family are presently suffering accommodation problem and the landlord has threatened to eject on Christmas day. How can everyone be celebrating on Christmas day and only me and my family be experiencing shame?
Please somebody help

Killing yourself won't solve anything, be optimistic and hopeful about tomorrow

God1000:


Killing yourself won't solve anything, be optimistic hopeful about tomorrow

What if we eventually get ejected on Christmas day,what will I do? Where will I start from?

That is why we tell men to make money first and have businesses with backups incase the main one crashes before pouring their sperms inside a woman to raise kids, but no, their pastors push them to get married fast even though there is nothing and God will provide in the process.

These men keep waiting for God to provide till old age and subject these innocent kids to suffering. God only provides for those who are persistent and smart-working, not prayerful only.

The only type to poor men I pity nowadays are those who were once "legitimately" rich, but lost all because of a disaster beyond their control.

Chai. Frustration everywhere in Nigeria

Davizee:

What if we eventually get ejected on Christmas day,what will I do? Where will I start from?

I don't think Your landlord can do such thing, unless he has already informed the authorities.

iLegendd:
That is why we tell men to make money first and have businesses with backups incase the main one crashes before pouring their sperms inside a woman to raise kids, but no, their pastors push them to get married fast even though there is nothing and God will provide in the process.

These men keep waiting for God to provide till old age and subject these innocent kids to suffering. God only provides for those who are persistent and smart-working, not prayerful only.

The only type to poor men I pity nowadays are those who were once "legitimately" rich, but lost all because of a disaster beyond their control.

So you are indirectly saying my father shouldn't have given birth to me if he can't take care of me

Bros...ur problem dey learn work for were other people own dey..
suicide is never an option,if nt....i for dn do am since..

Davizee:

So you are indirectly saying my father shouldn't have given birth to me if he can't take care of me

Exactly!

But if you like how you're suffering, I'm fine with it.

God1000:
I don't think Your landlord can do such thing, unless he has already informed the authorities.

It has been 2 yrs now since we last paid for rent.
Again we were once ejected way back at 2016
I know the trauma I suffered then as a young boy. I told God that he should not let this affliction arise again but look at me,the same thing is about to repeat itself.
I can't even walk on the street confidently because almost every body in that street knows wats happening and what they do is sit and gossip us. After we were ejected in 2016 we had to live in a church for 2 years in which the pastor gave us continuous trouble.sometimes I ask my elder brother how he was strong enough to withstand that shame

iLegendd:
Exactly!

But if you like how you're suffering, I'm fine with it.

Nobody likes to suffer and again that statement was rude

Illegal1:
Bros...ur problem dey learn work for were other people own dey..

suicide is never an option,if nt....i for dn do am since..

At Least you have a roof to lay your head

Davizee:
At Least you have a roof to lay your head

bros abeg no make me laff....
if i tell u were i dey sleep,u go begin pity me....

Illegal1:


bros abeg no make me laff....

if i tell u were i dey sleep,u go begin pity me....

Were you ever made a subject of mockery in your community?

Davizee:

Nobody likes to suffer and again that statement was rude

The way I planned to say it is even worse. Consider my submission as "polite." If only you know the level of disdain I have for men who bring kids into this world to suffer.

That comment is not actually for you, but general to stupid men around the world who didn't achieve anything or own businesses before marriage or before bringing kids into this world.

The first son/daughter always suffer the burden.

Davizee:
Were you ever made a subject of mockery in your community?

bros abeg,make me leave talk for market woman...
the truth be say,E No easy for anybody for dis country as it stands...
suicide is never an option..
who give up na lose....

Safe journey my brother

Davizee:

It has been 2 yrs now since we last paid for rent.
Again we were once ejected way back at 2016
I know the trauma I suffered then as a young boy. I told God that he should not let this affliction arise again but look at me,the same thing is about to repeat itself.
I can't even walk on the street confidently because almost every body in that street knows wats happening and what they do is sit and gossip us. After we were ejected in 2016 we had to live in a church for 2 years in which the pastor gave us continuous trouble.sometimes I ask my elder brother how he was strong enough to withstand that shame

I'm sorry about your ordeal

God1000:
I'm sorry about your ordeal

Just so painful
I haven't even enjoyed life since it kick-offed for me

Prettygirl200:
Safe journey my brother

Thats the best you can say

iLegendd:
The way I planned to say it is even worse. Consider my submission as "polite." If only you know the level of disdain I have for men who bring kids into this world to suffer.

That comment is not actually for you, but general to stupid men around the world who didn't achieve anything or own businesses before marriage or before bringing kids into this world.

The first son/daughter always suffer the burden.

You are very correct
Sometimes I regret being born into that family but there is nothing I can do

Davizee:

Thats the best you can say

What do you want me to say? There's no advice I will want to give u now that those that commented above me hasn't given you. So if u still wish to commit suicide, safe journey!!

Prettygirl200:
What do you want me to say? There's no advice I will want to give u now that those that commented above me hasn't given you. So if u still wish to commit suicide, safe journey!!

Ok, thanks

Davizee:

Ok, thanks

Ur welcome

Nairalanders are members of the stingy people association and are OBIDIENT in making political decisions.
Don't die and live your children in penury.

Davizee:
I am tired of this life and ready to end it because it seems nothing is working out. I and my family are presently suffering accommodation problem and the landlord has threatened to eject on Christmas day. How can everyone be celebrating on Christmas day and only me and my family be experiencing shame?
Please somebody help

Davizee:
I am tired of this life and ready to end it because it seems nothing is working out. I and my family are presently suffering accommodation problem and the landlord has threatened to eject on Christmas day. How can everyone be celebrating on Christmas day and only me and my family be experiencing shame?
Please somebody help

The day you will see some peoples lives, that day you will thank God that money is your problem.

Davizee:

You are very correct
Sometimes I regret being born into that family but there is nothing I can do

Some of these men actually make an effort to train their kids in school with the little they struggled to get.

They do this because they feel a certificate equals respect and wealth. Yes, certificate brings respect, but not wealth.

This wealth they don't have is the reason they spent their last cash training these kids hoping they'll graduate, get a job, and start paying them back in 100 folds. Ancient mentality.

Poor fathers are actually the greediest. They train their kids in school not because they're their father, it because they want a bragging right and a payback from the child at the end of life.

Rich men don't train their children in school out of greed or payback, but out of obligation. They already have their own money they may not even finish it.

The best gifts a father will give his son are

1. The mindset never to be controlled by people, especially a woman (teach him to never be a sissy and master how to say no)
2. Teach him to handle heartbreak, sorrow, and disappointment in life.
3. Business ideas and loan to start one of them or skill and platform to start early.
4. Finally, health, fitness, and spirituality.

These men don't do such — they focus on their greed and bragging right which is: school, graduate, get a job, marry, I want to see my grandchildren before I die, and start spending on me because I sent you to school and made you who you are today. If not for me, you're nothing.