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What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 12:46am On Jan 04, 2023
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Nobody: 12:49am On Jan 04, 2023
Pojomojo:
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

That marriage wont last

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 12:50am On Jan 04, 2023
Rayban25:


That marriage wont last
Why?
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Nobody: 12:54am On Jan 04, 2023
Pojomojo:
Why?

Because women are hypergamous by nature. Even if a woman is rich, she will still want a man richer than her and women dont typically marry down. They believe it's your job as a man to take all the responsibility and foot most of the bill.

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by EastAlchemist: 1:14am On Jan 04, 2023
Anything is possible as long as ego doesn’t get in the way

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 2:16am On Jan 04, 2023
EastAlchemist:
Anything is possible as long as ego doesn’t get in the way
Are you sure?
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Kobojunkie: 2:30am On Jan 04, 2023
Pojomojo:
■Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?
■As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK
1. Ofcourse! There is no reason why a man should not want to be an equal partner in relationship with his wife or woman. undecided
2. If you both bring 50-50, it should means you are both equal partners in the relationship. undecided

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Kobojunkie: 2:32am On Jan 04, 2023
Rayban25:
That marriage wont last
Bullsheet! There are many couples in equal partnership marriages right there in Nigeria whose marriage have outlasted your master-slave arrangements. undecided

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Kobojunkie: 2:33am On Jan 04, 2023
Pojomojo:
Are you sure?
The ego is the black man's biggest obstacle. undecided

Other races have learned to tame the ego and witnessed their society and economies rise beyond it as a result but the black man is still not able to overcome his ego... he remains a slave to it. undecided

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by EastAlchemist: 4:29am On Jan 04, 2023
Pojomojo:
Are you sure?
Yes
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by EastAlchemist: 4:40am On Jan 04, 2023
Kobojunkie:
The ego is the black man's biggest obstacle. undecided

Other races have learned to tame the ego and witnessed their society and economies thrive as a result but the black man is still not able to overcome his ego... he remains a slave to it. undecided
They don’t bring it to their affairs of the government because one man’ can’t be bigger than the government and they swear an oath to that
But you see that thing call ego
Like other past civilizations
It will end ours
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by DonroxyII: 3:00am On Jan 05, 2023
Pojomojo:
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK
Testosterone and Bigger Brain qualifies A Man to be the Lead Peradventure He is Using it anyway !

I'm the Chairman of the Home while she is the CEO of the Home while Our Kids are the Employees and we are all Stakeholders!

The Home must not Fail everyone should do their Job and Bring Glory Home !

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 1:46am On Jan 06, 2023
wink
DonroxyII:
Testosterone and Bigger Brain qualifies A Man to be the Lead Peradventure He is Using it anyway !

I'm the Chairman of the Home while she is the CEO of the Home while Our Kids are the Employees and we are all Stakeholders!

The Home must not Fail everyone should do their Job and Bring Glory Home !
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by DonroxyII: 12:11pm On Jan 06, 2023
Pojomojo:
wink
There is nothing like 50-50, A Man should take Up his Home and Responsibilities 100% but of Course You would always be Helped By Your Significant Friend(s) if She/they are Truly Your Woman/Women if not You would Labour till Last Blood while dem go use You picks dem Nails grin

African-Man Talking Here, I'm not European!

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by HellVictorinho6(m): 12:12pm On Jan 06, 2023
Kobojunkie:
The ego is the black man's biggest obstacle. undecided

Other races have learned to tame the ego and witnessed their society and economies rise beyond it as a result but the black man is still not able to overcome his ego... he remains a slave to it. undecided


Useless generalization

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by HellVictorinho6(m): 12:13pm On Jan 06, 2023
EastAlchemist:

They don’t bring it to their affairs of the government because one man’ can’t be bigger than the government and they swear an oath to that
But you see that thing call ego
Like other past civilizations
It will end ours

Useless generalization
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Silentgroper(m): 1:42pm On Jan 06, 2023
I just want a companion and partner. Nothing else...
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by frozen70(f): 11:01am On Jan 08, 2023
Pojomojo:
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK

Once you expect much from your wife, be ready to tolerate nonsense from her

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Aigbedion141: 11:38am On Jan 08, 2023
Hmm... Interesting.
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by DonroxyII: 7:13pm On Jan 11, 2023
Pojomojo:
Is it good for a man to request for a 50-50 in relationship?

As a man do you want a woman to bring 50+ to the table but don't expect them to be the NECK
Whether She contribute or not .. She is the Neck !

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 5:38am On Feb 09, 2023
DonroxyII:
Whether She contribute or not .. She is the Neck !
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Crystalsweetnes(f): 6:16am On Feb 09, 2023
Let's be realistic, if a man should expect a 50-50 in his home, he should be ready to take bull shit from his wife. Really men won't even want to know how much her salary is.
If you want full respect from your woman, provide for almost all her needs if not allall if you don't want her to be a feminist.
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by DaddyCoool: 6:42am On Feb 09, 2023
Rayban25:


Because women are hypergamous by nature. Even if a woman is rich, she will still want a man richer than her and women dont typically marry down. They believe it's your job as a man to take all the responsibility and foot most of the bill.

I don't think women are hypergamous BY NATURE as everyone says. I think it is societal conditioning. I think a woman can be conditioned to be hyPOgamous
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Goodlady(f): 7:47am On Feb 09, 2023
Silentgroper:
I just want a companion and partner. Nothing else...
And what's the percentage going to be, don't be stingy like those saying 50-50 o?

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 12:58pm On Feb 09, 2023
grin
Goodlady:

And what's the percentage going to be, don't be stingy like those saying 50-50 o?
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by DonroxyII: 7:59pm On Feb 09, 2023
Pojomojo:
Your Left Nyansh .....

Once the Marriage is 50-50 expect to be Challenged 50-50 ...She is Your Load to be Carried and She is the Neck on Whom Your Big Badagry Coconut Head lies .... shocked

Nevertheless, You can't carry Her 100% Simply Do Excellence Mark of Scoring 60% and Above and You are good ... Let her Solve the Rest!

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 9:36pm On Feb 11, 2023
shocked
DonroxyII:
Your Left Nyansh .....

Once the Marriage is 50-50 expect to be Challenged 50-50 ...She is Your Load to be Carried and She is the Neck on Whom Your Big Badagry Coconut Head lies .... shocked

Nevertheless, You can't carry Her 100% Simply Do Excellence Mark of Scoring 60% and Above and You are good ... Let her Solve the Rest!
Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Queendera(f): 12:01pm On Feb 12, 2023
Kobojunkie:
The ego is the black man's biggest obstacle. undecided

Other races have learned to tame the ego and witnessed their society and economies rise beyond it as a result but the black man is still not able to overcome his ego... he remains a slave to it. undecided
oh shurrup pls.

Giving the woman leadership is in no way the sole reason why the west is more developed than Africa.

Sometimes, use your head, at least once in a while.

Men have always been better at leadership than women.

The west have seen more divorces lately than ever before because they tampered with that delicate balance in the family.

Indians that recently adopted the same practices are witnessing fewer marriages and more divorces.

But somehow, in the darkness of your a-hole, you feel your overlords are better and seeing more economic progress because of this.

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Re: What Qualify A Man To Be The Head/lead in a relationship ? by Pojomojo: 8:30pm On Feb 17, 2023
grin
Queendera:
oh shurrup pls.

Giving the woman leadership is in no way the sole reason why the west is more developed than Africa.

Sometimes, use your head, at least once in a while.

Men have always been better at leadership than women.

The west have seen more divorces lately than ever before because they tampered with that delicate balance in the family.

Indians that recently adopted the same practices are witnessing fewer marriages and more divorces.

But somehow, in the darkness of your a-hole, you feel your overlords are better and seeing more economic progress because of this.

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