Why will you even spend on a lady moreorless a stranger to you. My fiancee always called me transactional. Babe help me run for groceries.... I be like what do I get in return, kisses or hugs.

E better make I know than do am finish and start dey look like fool.


Next time dey try know if una dey same page.

Chop and go girl

Sheistoopretty:
Broke Redpiller Fumes At Lady After Spending So Much Peanuts On Her & She Says NO (video)

Peanut that your father couldn't afford.

Elon musk daughter

You want someone to say Yes to you forever cause you've spent. Nah the girl Bleep up sha, she should have asked you for your motive before you start spending money peanut according to yo! MR MONEY You be Gates? How much yo spend that yo calling money?

This kind of girl will prefer to open her legs for a broke guy that will be deceiving her and later dump her and she will start crying... that the guy promised her this and that but did not fulfil his promises,.but the rich one that is spending on you ..you are doing shakara

Good very good for the man

Spending money to win a woman's heart will only end in tears. Spending doesn't really make you a "husband material " as some of these girls say. They just see you as a mug while you try to impress them

wunmi590:


The lady is not wrong, the man is only spending free money on the lady, if at the beginning the man didn't state why he was spending money....

This is 2023, as a man always make your intention clear to a woman before you start spending like Jeff Bezos.

Call the woman, negotiate what she's selling and what you are about to spend, and at the end of the day the two party will be happy and go their separate ways...

Timoleon:
was gonna type this. He wasted his money and time. Instead of chatting her up for months and spending foolishly he could have simply asked her ‘how much for a night of sex?’ And whatever details he wants put in. If she goes ahead to collect money from him, she’s contractually bound to fulfill said agreements but spending in the belief that ‘she should understand’ is often futile, women exploit this loophole all the time.

Correct

Some guys are just so foolish.

The only women I can freely give my money are my sisters and mum.....I can also give platonic female friends. But if I am sexually attracted to her I can't spend foolishly, I must off her panties first before I give her anything meaningful.

Very immature guy.

Bvlgari:
Man fumes at lady after spending so much for her only for her to say NO when the time came "to do the do"

Who is wrong among the both of them?

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnrWt8xpC1j/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hvhBO_SaCk

No Commess.

caesymore:


If they rape this one now they go begin rant... na like this some rape cases they carry happen, no justification for rape though
A bitch did exactly this to me, its heart wrecking, Y'all knows what a nigga has in mind before even hitting you up, why play dumb and allow a Nigga to spend then you go begin act drama, listen to the bitch she thought he wants to spend money

Reminds of that Tiwa useless song wey she say make them no touch am say she come make she have fun cool cool fun, abeg which fun cool when them never put gbola for puna

You don't use money to win a woman. IT DOES NOT EVER WORK...

So nairaland now supports emoji 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Fahvvy:
It is Stupidity of the heightest order to spend money on a woman who isn't family ...

Anything you do with a woman that isn't family must be centered around business alone! ...

But alas! ...
Most men will continue being stupid ...

Some even go as far as buying them phones of 700k...how u expect the next guy when go date am to level up? Them suppose they flog some men o allah.

SheBad:
You don't use money to win a woman. IT DOES NOT EVER WORK...

Shebad no be win Nigga won win nah just straph him won collect

Fahvvy:
It is Stupidity of the heightest order to spend money on a woman who isn't family ...

Anything you do with a woman that isn't family must be centered around business alone! ...

But alas! ...
Most men will continue being stupid ...

That makes all of us bro

LilMissFavvy:
So just because he spent money on her, he thinks he has the right to have her body, what nonsense*. If you want sex so badly, marry her properly. If you spend money on her, then you are spending it for the sake of love/relationship and not because you want sex.

Why you dey vex like this, no be like say she never knack before.

caesymore:


Shebad no be win Nigga won win nah just straph him won collect

Almost all the Nigerian girls are hungry
Some of you ladies are currently in a relationship not because you love him but because you are HUNGRY

Ju man

Timoleon:
was gonna type this. He wasted his money and time. Instead of chatting her up for months and spending foolishly he could have simply asked her ‘how much for a night of sex?’ And whatever details he wants put in. If she goes ahead to collect money from him, she’s contractually bound to fulfill said agreements but spending in the belief that ‘she should understand’ is often futile, women exploit this loophole all the time.

Isn't this prostitution in the USA which is illegal?

That's why I dey go straight to the point always"madam how much for 1mouth" vex if you wan vex

SheBad:
You don't use money to win a woman. IT DOES NOT EVER WORK...

That's not true. That is exactly what works for Nigerian girls.

Lordedifice1:
Almost all the Nigerian girls are hungry
Some of you ladies are currently in a relationship not because you love him but because you are HUNGRY

Exactly.

On paper it is. But do people still take money for sex in the USA? All the time.

mediclife1987:


Isn't this prostitution in the USA which is illegal?

Timoleon:
On paper it is. But do people still take money for sex in the USA? All the time.

Dangerous I must say. The best way the guy did it was the way he did it.

He couldn't have spat it out plainly and not land himself in trouble.

He knew that, the reason he chose to play safe hoping the lady would drop some cookie in return.

Though someone like me goes for the kill immediately. I don't spend much, and from there, I test the waters, her reaction would make me in making my decision...

Spending money and simply hoping is not playing it safe. Offering money for sex no doubt is risky. But outrightly asking an adult for sex (without offering money)isn’t illegal. More often than not, women know if they want to have sex or not. He’d have been spared the months of chatting and spending because she’d have either given him attitude that says I’m not gonna fvck you or I’m a mom a money monger. Either way he won’t spend money that would make him feel bad.


Hi, I like your vibes, frankly your are my spec I’d like to have sex with you. What do you say?

It’s not that complicated. If he went for the kill straight, he’d have less troubles.

mediclife1987:


Dangerous I must say. The best way the guy did it was the way he did it.

He couldn't have spat it out plainly and not land himself in trouble.

He knew that, the reason he chose to play safe hoping the lady would drop some cookie in return.

Though someone like me goes for the kill immediately. I don't spend much, and from there, I test the waters, her reaction would make me in making my decision...