Tgirl4real:

@ N101

lol 

Just do the girly thing letz see if it will work. _{but, u will be wasting your time if your husband is anything like mine} 

The girly thing? My sister, I had a former work colleague train me on the girly thing and it failed miserably (worked wonders for her - she's now got an iPhone 4! )

If you have any other girly tactics I could use, let me know _{(but I suspect our husbands might be related!)}

Lol @ N101

Don't worry ehn. Pray for a change of heart . You will get the Iphone4 . I am an Iphone lover, never liked Blackberry. When the Iphone4 came out, you guys should have seen me turn to a wonderfully made and perfect wife to my loving husband. The guy noticed the change and kept asking me what I was up to . Now that the rumour for iphone5 abi they call it Iphone4S is out, i need to re-polish my skills again and still hope for a RR sports .I can manage a Landrover freelander if there is no RR sports.

"@N101

I guess so too.

Jenny,

U still dey dream about this RR Sport . . .

Tgirl

Obama had a dream that he became president. I am dreaming of RR sports, my dream must come to physical manifestation , that's why I am the daughter of an unlimited creator.

Yes o

keep on dreaming

otokx:

keep on dreaming

Spoilsport!  Why you wanna throw sand in a sister's Garri? 

Please read this inspiring story about marriage:

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

Read the rest of this story here http://soinspiringstories..com/2011/10/marriage.html

Read dis story then. Anoda case study

I read some comments here again and it brightened my day esp dat of CC, Ronke n Jenny. Cant really remember d others. All the adultery/wife battery thread don tire me.

Thank God we still hav some marriages that are working.

@mide14.
I understand completely how you feel.l too am a married female and most times I feel the whole institution of marriage is overrated.
For those male writers who cry about the loss of freedom I personally think it is worse for women particularly in these parts.I personally feel that as a woman once you are married there are so many rules and restrictions which I personally loathe. Couples can no longer have close friends of the opposite sex,you can't be seen in certain places or be out at certain times.lits like you have to give up your individuality and conform and for me this sucks.
I personally agree with writers who advocate for time span contracts for marriages.this might be an unpopular view now but let's not kid ourselves but when you say I do for life there are no guarantees that you and your partner might outgrow each other .As one writer pointed out most persons married for 10 years and above are just tolerating each other and I say that is no way to live.

^^^ interesting point of view and also realistic

One of the best things in life! Marry someone worth it. Don't ignore the blatant red flags that you WILL see early on. Certainly before you get married. Every divorce I have ever seen ignored the red flags.



I'll marry a woman if she's just as attractive and has no romantic experience. I'll continue banging mediocre women God sends my way until then.

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