baralatie:

Which a lot of people magnify greatly

Because it has magnitude

baralatie:


If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if his passions are too strong and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married.



So if you smooch am lady you must to marry am

No version use the word marry but I'm happy you read it so if the lady I smooch decided to go on her own I can't stop her now...smooching continues lol

CodeTemplar:
Sexual satisfaction is an erroneous and evil idea. There is nothing like sexual satisfaction in reality. It is just a phrase to help package and launder premarital and extramarital affairs.
According to Gods plan, one man knows one woman sexually, how will you be dissatisfied with something you have never tasted another version of? You aren't suppose to taste more than one flavour. If you taste more than one flavour out of mistake, as a matured person, self-control is a key part of maturity.

I beg to differ. Read through the bible from the old to the New testaments and no where was a man asked to know one woman. Apostle Paul only gave his own opinion that a man should cling to one wife but the same apostle Paul mentioned that only a man who is going to head a congregation should have one wife.
Everything is life has a level of satisfaction and that applies to sex. Marrying as a virgin or not doesn't deprive you of sexual satisfaction. If you want a certain level of something or an extra and it is not forthcoming, you're left unsatisfied. Make Una no just dey cap abeg.

ayenale1:

No version use the word marry but I'm happy you read it so if the lady I smooch decided to go on her own I can't stop her now...smooching continues lol

ayenale1:

No version use the word marry but I'm happy you read it so if the lady I smooch decided to go on her own I can't stop her now...smooching continues lol

The consent of the woman for that verse of scripture, is virgin.Her only choice is to be a virgin.na if the man say he wan smooch na him be say he must narry am.
If she no do again she must be a virgin to say so
If she is longer a virgin the man who was hers will be under the law to marry her

caesymore:


Because it has magnitude

magnitude not greater than food, clothes and shelter

Abeg, no commess.

Queendera:
gbam.

Funny how the book given to us by those who killed mercilessly, and steal godlessly has become the standard with which we judge ourselves

This is the new dimension. The only thing we have successfully copied from them is religion. Technology and science, almost nothing. We got it wrongly. We must begin to question and start thinking progressively

Interesting15:


So I came across a post by a false teacher with a false online church, sponsored from the kingdom of hell to spread doctrines of demons and lead many astray.

The false teacher, twisting Holy Scriptures to suit his demonic agenda, said "the moment you are engaged, my advise is; sample the goods, taste the milk before you buy the cow. There is no scripture that says it is sinful for an engaged couple to have intercourse."

This is a lie! Please, ignore this false teacher and all his lies.

God created everything, and sex is not an exception. As the Manufacturer, only He can give guidelines on how these things can be engaged. And the Will of God is that all forms of sexual pleasures should be shared only between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.

Marriage is from God. It is a sacred institution that is above sexual pleasures. When it comes to marriage, the Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4

"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." I Corinthians 6:18‭-‬20

The Lord already warned that in the last days, false teachers shall arise to lead people astray.

"Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons." I Timothy 4:1 NKJV

Give yourself to the Lord and don't allow anyone lead you into hell. If you are yet to establish a good relationship with the Lord, please do so right now by embracing Jesus as Lord and Saviour.

. I want to use this opportunity to ask why Nairaland has not allowed me to comment on the political plartform? Am I Tinubu or Obi or Atiku? What have done wrong? I look at this unjustafiable action as an infringement on my fundamental human right and demand an apology from Nairaland for this infraction.

Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage

And how many of the listed things can u satisfy the man with

baralatie:

The consent of the woman for that verse of scripture, is virgin.Her only choice is to be a virgin.na if the man say he wan smooch na him be say he must narry am.
If she no do again she must be a virgin to say so
If she is longer a virgin the man who was hers will be under the law to marry her

How many ladies go come your house for marriage, body dey count o

Queendera:
the most important aspect

Maturities is the Most Important Aspect of Marriage follow by Sexual Amorous Relationships!

blesdman:

This is the new dimension. The only thing we have successfully copied from them is religion. Technology and science, almost nothing. We got it wrongly. We must begin to question and start thinking progressively

We are not Successful in copying anything we have abused everything with our own emotional bias and Unproductive Miens!

We love the easy way Out even where it's Obvious the Hardway is the Only Way !

popcykaylah:
What do you have to bring to the table ? Dont be a liability

Your culture gives her license to be a liability and that all she needs bring to the table is her body and a mind ready to submit to her husband. So, what dumb question you dey here to ask here like say you don't know and accept the same culture?

popcykaylah:

Nigerian women ? Bring money to the table?
Abeg no let me fall comot for chair

Your culture gives her license to be a liability and that all she needs bring to the table is her body and a mind ready to submit to her husband. So, what dumb question you dey here to ask here like say you don't know and accept the same culture?

popcykaylah:

The only thing most women have to offer is their pussssieeee

Your culture gives her license to be a liability and that all she needs bring to the table is her body and a mind ready to submit to her husband. So, what dumb question you dey here to ask here like say you don't know and accept the same culture?

natddon1:
I think the issue here is immorality, both sexual and behavioral. If both persons haven't prior experience with sexual intercourse there wouldn't be any issue of incompatibility or non-satisfaction. Adam only had Eve and she only had Adam so either partner would not have known more than he/she was getting. A lot of us these days have had several sexual partners before marriage hence the reason we know who "sabi do pass" and it is affecting the society badly. Imagine young boys taking sex enhancing drugs and badly damaging the psyche of young girls. They end up in marriage with more reasonable persons and the problem of sexual satisfaction within marriage comes up. Let virgins marry virgins is what I propose.

And those with ashawo libidos kukuma marry ashawos wey full place and dey ready to marry.

crazybee069:
I'm sorry.. but sexual compatibility is very very important... Yes the institution of marriage was created by God but still if your partner can't satisfy you sexually, the frustration can be very depressing... So as we pursue the things of God, we should not forget to apply common sense when due... Shalom

Unless you have plan to marry an ashawo with lots of practice under her belt, there is no guarantee for you that when the real world hits your relationship, what you thought was sexual compatibility will be enough to see you through. And please learn to leave God out of it since you don't really care for what He has to say anyways.

Ambassadors:
Me i need a gurl that can satisfy me sexually. I stay in P.H

Get and marry an ashawo girl with years of practice under her belt and is ready to settle down. Simple!

titusmichael27:
I see this as opportunity to share my experiences with those who want to learn. This life is very simple if you chose to listen to what God advised you not to do. The danger in fornication is not just something you can quench in a simple way. when once you've quickened that part of Brain, the memory remains your enemy even when you wish to put a stop to it. The reality is that, it's never a sexual satisfaction, but past memories of sex with drugs and doing it with someone who has gone far beyond normal sex habits. Right about now I wish I never tasted it. The peer pressure is another source of all these things. Now I have to learn how to control the animal in me. God knows that the day you taste of it, you will never remain the same , that's why he said you shall not do it until you're legally married.

Leave God and His mention out of your delusions since it isn't the case that any of you really care to do as He commands. What you describe here in fact has nothing to do with God but with the psychological abeg.

Pietrak1:
■The bible did not condemn sex before marriage between the engaged. Marriage is honorable with the bed undefiled means... No extra marital affair "in the marriage". When you sleep with someone outside of the union (the bed), you have committed adultery or fornication. Stop preaching what is not. Sex before marriage is not a sin.

1. Scripturally sex is meant only for the married, not those courting or contemplating. No be by force to carry God mention for the head. God does not force you so do not deceive yourself thinking you deceive God.

Queendera:
this is totally wrong. Hunger does not come because you eat different types of food. Hunger comes because it is natural. Sexual satisfaction is a thing because there's something called sexual urge which is natural. You as a human have sexual urge not because you've slept around but because you are human and a biological living being. Our sexual urge and needs divers. Stop downplaying critical issues with trivial and nonsensical arguments

Indeed they are critical, so what I don't understand is why people who obviously have no need for God feel they must definitely carry God for head go do wetin God talk say"Thou shall not"?

Leave God alone and embrace sexual compatibility in relationship abeg!

Surely, anybody who carry God for their head should accept by that that sexual compatibility in marriage becomes of no importance by that choice to carry God for head.

lasheun:
Please stop reading just
King James bible okay. Do passion bible and devotional bible to get better understanding.
"Bed undefiled" means; whatsoever style or position of sex you engaged in as partners, the bed can not be defile by that but only in adultery and fornication you'll defile your marriage because it's honorable being married.

So Jesus Christ wey instead talk say anyone who lusts after a woman in his heart has committed the sin of adultery was literally a fool to you?

baralatie:
If as a man you have been sexually active before marriage and you must be engaged every week with sex acts. it is ridiculous to think that getting a virgin means she is sexually compatible
Heck you are not And vice versa

Exactly!

baralatie:
magnitude not greater than food, clothes and shelter

its in same and better category than the three you mentioned

caesymore:


its in same and better category than the three you mentioned

Is sex like beans, rice,water.
Is sex like cloth put put around your body
Is sex a house where you sleep in and hide against weather

baralatie:

Is sex like beans, rice,water.
Is sex like cloth put put around your body
Is sex a house where you sleep in and hide against weather

It gave existence to the one in need of all you mentioned

caesymore:


It gave existence to the one in need of all you mentioned

It gave existence by a hat means?

Kobojunkie:
Indeed they are critical, so what I don't understand is why people who obviously have no need for God feel they must definitely carry God for head go do wetin God talk say"Thou shall not"?

Leave God alone and embrace sexual compatibility in relationship abeg!

Surely, anybody who carry God for their head should accept by that that sexual compatibility in marriage becomes of no importance by that choice to carry God for head.

you are wrong. But continue

DonroxyII:
Maturities is the Most Important Aspect of Marriage follow by Sexual Amorous Relationships!

a matured hungry man will throw dignity away and beg for help.

A matured angry man will break with the right conditions in place.

Sex break people. Let's stop sugar coating things.

Many mature men here start considering cheating or are advised to get a side chic because they are not satisfied.

Sex is important. It has nothing to do with maturity.

baralatie:

It gave existence by a hat means?

caesymore:

Spelling error
It(sex) gave existence by what means?

baralatie:

Spelling error
It(sex) gave existence by what means?

Sex is for procreation, without sex no human will exist and no human being in existence there will be no worry over shelter etc.