ugly Betty:

     I met an old time school friend through Facebook and we hooked up later when he came to my base, because we don't stay in the same state. The guy is posing as a big boy to me that he is now made, but funny enough he keeps on asking me for recharge cards, bringing up one excuses to ask me for money.

      The other day, he said i should send Etisalat card to him, that he couldn't get card where he is. Another day, he said he is within my state and that he forgot his cheque book that he wants to come over to my office and collect some money, i told him that am broke, that i don't have anything on me.

But the funniest thing is that he will call me with his etisalat line only to remind me that i have not sent him the card. So am asking, do Big boys ask ladies for recharge cards.

mikeywise:

SEEMS THE GUY HAS OPENED AN OFFICE ON U . HE ONLY SAW AN ADVANTAGE AND HE DECIDED TO USE IT.FROM DE WAY U SOUND, SEEMS U ALWAYS SEND HIM DE CARD

ugly Betty:

lol, i don't even need his intimacy, he is just a pest. May be he will want to collect money from me before the deed is done.

So there can be guys that are gold diggers too, i tot it is just ladies that are gold diggers. Lol

Depends on your definion.

Tosinville:

OP, i'm not trying to bring tribalism issues here but is he igbo don't lie? cos igbo guys are the only ones that front for ladies while they have even up to 5H in their wallets.

ugly Betty:

lol, i don't even need his intimacy, he is just a pest. May be he will want to collect money from me before the deed is done.

So there can be guys that are gold diggers too, i tot it is just ladies that are gold diggers. Lol

kokoye:

takes one to know one

MsDarkSkin:

[size=18pt]YEP! [/size]The age of taking care of the women [in America] is OVER!  

Guys are NOW waiting for their 'Princess Charminga's  

i am laughing but sadly it's true. it's only a matter of time before the rest of the world
becomes just as messed up. the roles are reversing! when i went off to college, i lived with my
best friend who is older than myself and we had our own spot off campus. anyway i met this guy
that was about 3 yrs my senior and seemed to be well set financially and had his *ish together but then one
night after we went clubbing, i was propositioned that if i let him move in with us so long as we keep paying the bills and taking care of everything he promised he would take care of the domestic work! BUAHARHAHARRR!!!

I had to ask him "negro are you serious?!"

then i laughed and he stood there with this expression like i was crazy. i just U TURNED and walked off.
after that every time he saw me he called me all sorts of names and all i did was crack up! what a LOOOOOSER!  
grown azz man asking an 18 year old to take care of his scrub dusty azz!  

these men have the NERVE to get mad like we owe them something!!    

Mrs, Chima:

Oh my goodness!  Its not just the men in America!  My coworker got mad at me when I asked her why she got a husband that is house cleaning instead of WORKING.  (He is African)  She told me that they made an arrangement before marriage that she will be the provider and he will be the house keeper. 

Chile!  A few of the colleagues and I talked about that man so bad that she threatened to tell the BOSS ON US!  We laughed. 

MsDarkSkin:

 

ok. see i wouldn't feel any way about it if the guy was laid off or if he was already making scraps and she was the primary bread winner (as jacked up as that may be). so if he decides that he will give her a break and take care of the babies, cook her dinner and clean up then cool.

but at least he isn't following women around begging for recharge cards or trying to live rent free with NO responsibility such as tending to children.

horny4u:

Very sad 

By the way who are the women churning out this badly balanced shameless beta males, or is it the society turning seemingly manly man in to feminine sissys,

Its on the increase and is a very sad turn of events, very unnatural but really a curse for the human race reproduction.

Is it because more women are becoming independent , successful  and in some cases less feminine.

Ask that slowpoke of a man to buy you a car, convince him he is capable afterall he is a man that shld awake his dead ego: next time he asks you , tell him jokingly that haba you are the man with all this your strong muscles na me go dey give you credit again, if he still has a drop of testorone in him , that should wake him up. ( I noticed its those thin-like womanly looking men with no self respect or esteem that do this, my friend is married to one, hiss)

tEsLim:

Hell no! Never asked a woman for a dime! And haven't asked my mother since I was 18years old - super way back. Shame go to catch me. I can ask my buddies instead; and I'll rather ask for favors that make sense. For example Kola make we do business now,  make we just form vultron collect this contract 50/50 when LPO commot . I have good relationship with few ladies whereby we can do business and stuffs to profit and benefit each other. but not recharge card or coins level oh. I hope i never get to that level of recharge card thing or anything below 6 digits need. My phone bill in Nigeria goes around 20k+ monthly that's enough already why would I ask for reshaj kard

aloy/emeka:

Talk is cheap. Can we ask Bola, Tinu, Titilayo,Ngozi ,Osamede, Ada, Ijeoma, Ehi, Iniobong, Fausat, Musilatu, Pussylatu, obolatu and other numerous women in your life?