ShaqFu:
the same church or the same school eh? Whatever happened to reporting such person? Don't the school have management and don't the church have elders where such matters can be taken to?

And if that fails, there's the authorities, so what are you yapping about.

People like you sound like the type who likes being begged because it makes you feel important. Imagine the flimsy excuses you're giving. ☹️

GloriousGbola:


i'm not sure how many boundaries would be crossed for you to get to a point where a friend or stranger is begging you for sex.

however as a nigerian, i am aware that naija chicks like bizarre games where they are either cajoled or brute forced . something about being able to say later i never wanted to do it, you forced me. [to preserve good girl image i guess]

it sounds ridiculous, but if you are with a naija chick in a setting for sex and you make a move and she says no and you back off - the next day you will be hearing she said are a mumu/slacker/not sharp.

there is a very weird set of dynamics to getting laid with the average or poor naija chick if you are coming from a western perspective. i have said before that the dating is literally a zero sum game in which both parties are trying to outwit or out use each other.

imo, this begging situation being referred to means there is already a compromising position of sorts. [the lady is in the guys place or even his bedroom] or maybe even already in a state of un-dress.

Hezzyluv:
It's only a SIMPle man that will beg for sex.

IyaebeTheGreat:
If you make people go against their wish whichever way after their initial refusal, it can be termed emotional manipulation and in this case Rape. This means a lady must willingly give her full consent and you don't have to beg for it.

thesicilian:
Just like begging for money is stealing

IyaebeTheGreat:
She's right , if a lady is not willing and you succeeded in begging her ( that's truly an emotional manipulation) to have your way with her, then it's rape because her initial refusal is what matters.

IyaebeTheGreat:
She's right , if a lady is not willing and you succeeded in begging her ( that's truly an emotional manipulation) to have your way with her, then it's rape because her initial refusal is what matters.

cococandy:
Now you’re contradicting yourself. If you don’t agree that it’s harassment why do you think reporting is appropriate? Hmm?

On the contrary I don’t like being begged repeatedly. It should be obvious from my post.

I do think sex is best with an enthusiastic consenting partner. But y’all think those kind of women are hoes. Lol

Evolutionlove:


It's not Late at all and the show Is just starting.

They have seen Men finish and extremely weaponized something which is supposed to be Free to an extent. I don't really blame them. I blame the Stupid Men fueling their Ego.

The only way I feel i'm loving this menace is I think it will help Curb Overpopulation. Many Nigerian men can't control themselves when it comes to Sex thus Impregnating these Ladies here and there.

Personally I hate Overpopulation.

IyaebeTheGreat:
She's right , if a lady is not willing and you succeeded in begging her ( that's truly an emotional manipulation) to have your way with her, then it's rape because her initial refusal is what matters.

IyaebeTheGreat:
The truth is you don't beg for sex if you are in charge as a real man. Make your woman want you. As panso once wrote, he said let her rush the dishes and chores just to come mount you and I agree with him, I learnt redpill too . Begging for sex is even a big turn off for most women, e no romantic at all.

ShaqFu:
I only said when the begging for sex becomes irritating (too much) that's when it's harassment. If a guy begs you for sex and you say no, and he leaves you alone, that isn't harassment.

I wonder where me, contracting myself comes into this?

ExAngel007:
A Nigerian lady is of the opinion that begging someone for sex is a form of rape.

It all started when a Twitter user shared a thread disapproving of the notion that begging for sex is rape. The Twitter user had written

IT DEFINITELY ISNT RAPE. Begging someone for sex to the point they agree might be exhausting and unhealthy but it isn't rape. Rape has a clearly defined meaning.

So long as consent was affirmatively given, it isn't rape.''

Begging for sex is rape - Nigerian lady argues Responding, @LAJOKESAB said begging for sex is definitely rape.

‘’It is definitely Rape. The emotional manipulation that comes with being begged for sex is so exhausting and rigorous that a lot of women give in eventually to be raped. If it was consensual, no one will have to beg.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/3/begging-for-sex-is-rape-nigerian-lady-argues-2.html

cococandy:

Obviously my first post indicated this.

I don’t understand why many people on this forum quote others just to argue a point the other person wasn’t making in the first place. Did I ever say that if the lady says no and the man leaves her alone that’s it’s harassment? Did I say that?

Sigh. I’m tired.

What’s the reason why y’all do this? I don’t get it.

cococandy:
Not rape but harassment yes. Depending on the level of begging. Some beg you to exhaustion. That’s harassment obviously. But not rape

ShaqFu:
you've started again.

If a guy is begging you for sex and you know damn well you ain't gonna give in to him, why not block him or avoid him totally.

I wonder how harassment comes into this.

ShaqFu:


This is the whole argument. My position have always been, why let it get to the level of harassment.

You then brought up church, school or whatever... I countered with why can't the individual report the person to the appropriate authority...

So you see, you're the one arguing for the sake of arguing. 👍

thesicilian:

Just like begging for money is stealing

Karleb:


Please give me money.

Did you see how I am about to steal from you?

You people are unbelievable.

thesicilian:

Just like begging for money is stealing