marlow1962:

If am not good for someone to have only me, then she can leave. You only make me a monster when the love is not there and you're showing it all cus of what you can get.

That's why you need to be on your guard and never sleep on it my bruva. It is not easy to make money as a man, it is not easy to build your fortune as a man. A man already has too many problems in life. One way to start is to never trust any woman, no matter how angelic and innocent she appears. Those ones are even more dangerous

greenermodels:

Honestly, getting married scares the shit out of me,I guess I would always drum it into my wife's ears from dating times that I must conduct DNA tests on my kids, maybe that would put some fear into her. Modern marriages are mostly scams.

And the most appalling part of it is that, not everyone will have the money to conduct the DNA test. There are other methods you can use, I'll talk about some in my future threads.

FRANCISTOWN:


And the most appalling part of it is that, not everyone will have the money to conduct the DNA test. There are other methods you can use, I'll talk about some in my future threads.

affordable DIY test kits can be ordered online plus the costs of DNA tests would continue to fall( at least provided the free fall of the naira against foreign currencies doesn't worsen with time) please talk about the other methods, I believe genotype and blood group is included.

FRANCISTOWN:

That's why you need to be on your guard and never sleep on it my bruva. It is not easy to make money as a man, it is not easy to build your fortune as a man. A man already has too many problems in life. One way to start is to never trust any woman, no matter how angelic and innocent she appears. Those ones are even more dangerous

Nah, trust nobody

FRANCISTOWN:
I strongly believe the modern women do not deserve marriage, all of them, but for those who are already married. Let's check this together
Caution : Some may find the content of this post disturbing and uncomfortable, however I got one line for you; GET THE F**K OU'HERE. The internet is available unto everyone and there are countless information, sometimes when I surf, I come across pornographic contents but I simply avoid them and just scroll on since I'm not interested. If the contents of this thread does not sit well with you, just quietly avoid it just as you would avoid comments on porn sites. That is called maturing.

That being said , some people have tagged me a woman hater. Well, I'm just spiting some hard truth and I think men are wonderful creatures, whether women are or not, I can't be bothered. By the way, neither am I jobless nor heart broken.
Let's begin with this nonsense that people say around : "Treat your woman like a queen and she'll treat you like a king" . What kinna nonsense is this? Treat your woman like a queen, AS A WHAT? as her servant or slave?. Did you see the reverse order in that statement? Must you not first be a king before you make someone your queen? In relational database, when selecting a relationship; it is the reference key first, before the foreign key. The head first before the body, and we well know that the man is the head.

A woman who wants to be treated like a queen should first treat her man like a King. Any woman who doesn't treat you like a king doesn't deserve to be a queen. Treat your man like a KING and he will treat you like a queen.

No logic here. You are saying a man must be first treated as a king by his woman before he can treat her as a queen. Well the woman can also flip this illogical crap on its head and say the reverse. A better way to put it is that both men and women have to mutually agree on what it means to be a queen or a king and both parties should independently strive to meet the standards of royality. If a man is a king before he meets his woman who has been a queen before she met her man they can both treat each other in accordance with the states that they are bringing into the relationship. A slave that marries a queen will keep behaving like a slave and will compel his queen to treat him like a slave because that is who he is. A king who marries a slut will never be treated like a king because sluts are used to giving their bodies to ignoble men who throng taverns and brothels. If you want to be treated like a king, be a king. If you want to be treated like a queen, be a queen. You determine how you will be treated.

FRANCISTOWN:
1. Kings are authoritative. How?

Have you also noticed that many people who enjoyed marriage those days didn't marry for love? Love is not a requirement for marriage. Love is a feeling and feelings are temporal.

Kings are leaders and their authority is to the benefit of their followers. When the righteous have authority the people rejoice but when the wicked rule the people mourn (Proverbs 29:2). Yes, men are supposed to be people of authority but unfortunately many men use their authority for evil. These men use their authority to perpetrate evil acts like infidelity, oppression, extortion and violence against their spouses and children. This is what propelled feministic movements that were eventually hijacked by the ideological left to disrupt the fundamental kernel of society, the family. If all men were righteous kings no woman would be a feminist because no woman wants to suffer but when men become wicked tyrants they force their wives and children to defend themselves thus resulting in feminism.

Love is not a feeling. Love is sacrifice, commitment and the will to lead. What you call love is sheet lust, infatuation or desire which is nothing close to what love is.

FRANCISTOWN:
b. Be unwavering in your decisions. Like a king, a king rarely waver in his decision. That is the reason it is always very important to have a thorough thinking before you reach a conclusion. A woman does not respect a man who cannot stand by his decision.

This is where many people get it wrong, they think by allowing their woman to influence their decision , they are being reasonable, stop it!!! .

A woman can only give her opinion and once you've made a decision, let it be do or die(Though there should be cases for compromise, but that should be after you have exhausted all the possible availabilities).A king is bound by his words, even Herod could not save John The Baptist's head. He could not revoke his promises. That's the reason it's always best to think thru before you speak. NEVER ALLOW A WOMAN TELL YOU WHAT YOU DO

In the multitude of counselors there is safety Proverbs 11:14. Your wife or your spouse is the closest and most important confidant to you as a man. If you are a king, you will marry a queen and one of her purposes is to give you wise counsel. As a king you are not under compulsion to heed her advice but she is one of the counselors at your beck and call. There is a reason the queen is the deadliest piece in a chess game and it is most powerful protector of the king. This is because she knows that her fate is tied to the king. She knows that whatever befalls the king will her as well so she protects the king like she would protect her own life. The problem with most men is that they see themselves as kings but end up marrying sluts. They end up marrying women who feed their lust for sensual pleasure instead of marrying a queen who brings wisdom, purity and loyalty to the table.

Stop marrying olosho and using her to generalize for all women. Not all men married olosho. Those that married women for their purity, loyalty and wisdom are the true kings who identified queens and married them.

FRANCISTOWN:
c. Do not indulge your woman into your family affairs. When a woman knows too much about your family, you are already giving her the opportunity for "SEE FINISH". Keep the information about your primary family with a level of decency. She doesn't necessarily need to know how much you send to your parents and siblings, that's how contempt sets in, because she thinks her family deserves the same as well.

Don't be a lose mouthed bro. Whenever she tells you about her family, be ready to listen, and be careful not to pass unnecessary comments. From there you will pick a pattern. A wise man once said among all your family members, only your wife is not your relative

I hope you know that your wife can also apply this rule to you. Also do you consider it appropriate to share secrets of your nuclear family with your mother, aunts and sisters? Remember they are women too and sharing your nuclear family secrets with them can also lead to see finish. So if you are not going to "indulge" your wife in your extended family affairs you should also not "indulge" your mother, aunts and sisters in your nuclear family affairs. Be consistent in your logic.

FRANCISTOWN:
d. Do not Beg, but be subtle with apology.

A king doesn't beg, I personally hate begging. The moment you beg a woman, you already sold your authority.

There is a clear difference between begging and apologizing. Begging shows desperation but apology shows repentance. You've heard that women are not logical beings, but it's a big lie, they pretend not to be logical, which is one of their deceptive ways. When you apologise to a woman, Do not say "I'm sorry , I know I don't have an excuse but I'm sorry" Damn it, you just set yourself up.

A woman wants to know why you did what you did. When you don't give an excuse, she can't really forgive you, she'll keep thinking why you had to do what you did, and the more she thinks about it. The more she gets angry . One of the most terrible things you can do to your woman is to see you on top of another woman. "Don't say, I'm sorry I don't know what came over me" . Even if she forgave you, she'll keep thinking why you did that, shey may be like "how is that girl better than me? is she finer, sexier or more appealing", and the more she thinks about that, the more she gets angry and she may look for ways to get even with you.

Now this is not recommended but as a descendant of Wisdom, you can go like "Babe I'm sincerely sorry, I know I don't have an excuse but I was under the influence of alcohol and I kept seeing your face on her face". Even if she doesn't buy it, just give her any silly excuse that passes a subtle compliment . Whether you give excuses or not, she'll forgive if she'll forgive you, however the excuse will save you both from mental projections.

No logic at all. Why are you contradicting yourself repeatedly oga descandant of wisdom. You first said "do not say you are sorry" and at the end you are recommending that one says "babe, I'm sincerely sorry". Which is it? Dey one place na. And why would a king reduce himself to a fool by sleeping around with sluts? Kings are royalty and do not stain their royalty by frolicking with oloshos that are routinely used by ignoble, riff-raff and low life men. Kings do not put themselves in a situation to give excuses. Kings such as this are legend because they are seen as being god-like and revered by many but if you are going to do what every other man does then you are no different from a regular fool. "Crown" and "fool" shouldn't be in the same sentence.

Tunagee:


''A king doesn't beg, I personally hate begging. The moment you beg a woman, you already sold your authority''



Bros, you are full of wisdom. One silly mistake i made some years ago when my wife left. Really, the several begging did not bring her back until i also abandoned her for close to 11months b4 her brain come reset.

Wonderful post that made my day

You are a wonder !
So you mean you let that woman back into your house ?

greenermodels:
affordable DIY test kits can be ordered online plus the costs of DNA tests would continue to fall( at least provided the free fall of the naira against foreign currencies doesn't worsen with time) please talk about the other methods, I believe genotype and blood group is included.

Let's not even go about the DIY test kit and the blood group, those ones get plenty loopholes well. There is a method I always use, and it has never failed me. The reason it is highly effective is because no one knows the method, if anyone knew about the method, they'd soon find a way around it. The power of the method is in it's secrecy.

efficiencie:


No logic at all. Why are you contradicting yourself repeatedly oga descandant of wisdom. You first said "do not say you are sorry" and at the end you are recommending that one says "babe, I'm sincerely sorry". Which is it? Dey one place na. And why would a king reduce himself to a fool by sleeping around with sluts? Kings are royalty and do not stain their royalty by frolicking with oloshos that are routinely used by ignoble, riff-raff and low life men. Kings do not put themselves in a situation to give excuses. Kings such as this are legend because they are seen as being god-like and revered by many but if you are going to do what every other man does then you are no different from a regular fool. "Crown" and "fool" shouldn't be in the same sentence.

I don't waste my time on people like you so lemme reply to this post and every other of your post on this thread once and for all.

Anyone with half a brain would understand all I wrote up there.

If you liked fall from heaven to earth, this is the last response you'll get from me. Adios

ConfidentialDoc:


You are a wonder !
So you mean you let that woman back into your house ?

The man already took the wife back, let's not make him feel bad for that. The man should only understand that, the woman did not come back because she loves him

FRANCISTOWN:

Let's not even go about the DIY test kit and the blood group, those ones get plenty loopholes well. There is a method I always use, and it has never failed me. The reason it is highly effective is because no one knows the method, if anyone knew about the method, they'd soon find a way around it. The power of the method is in it's secrecy.

Baba,share the secret with us.

FRANCISTOWN:

The man already took the wife back, let's not make him feel bad for that. The man should only understand that, the woman did not come back because she loves him

Ha! You should have just kept silent.

This dude reminds me of CaveAdullam

Nice thread, but all I would say is that marriage is by choice.
And "Marriage" is not as universally defined as we believe.
Even in law, if you live with a woman for a long time, have a child together, and acquire properties together, and people see you as man and wife, the law treats you as married whether you like it or not.
She can sue you for property sharing, etc if you separate.
Just saying ...

This life no level at all, but you are not powerless.
A LOT depends on YOU.

I've seen a woman who is VERY beautiful, very intelligent, very hardworking and very successful (she is a chemical engineer and a lawyer), and earns 90% of her family income, but she still cooks, took care of her children (back then when they were kids), and treats her husband like a king. Her husband LOVES her of course.
I've also seen a "not so good-looking" woman who is (still is) jobless, lazy, bad mother (her husband essentially raised the kids), and a party-freak (she even travels to go to parties in foreign countries on her husbands money), and is not respectful of her husband (she is taller than her husband, that's all); and yet her husband still LOVES her and never cheats on her.
We bystanders look at them, and shake our heads!
So my brother OP, this topic is DEEP as usual.
Thanks for sharing your views.

WOMEN DON SEE SHEGE FOR NIGERIAN MEN HANDS..

HABA. WOMEN THIS WOMEN THAT

WOMEN MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND

WOMEN GIVES NIGERIAN MEN'S LIVES MEANING

WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN

LALLÀLLLALLALALALALLLAL

IbrahimSkiba:
WOMEN DON SEE SHEGE FOR NIGERIAN MEN HANDS..

HABA. WOMEN THIS WOMEN THAT

WOMEN MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND

WOMEN GIVES NIGERIAN MEN'S LIVES MEANING

WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN

LALLÀLLLALLALALALALLLAL

Calm down babe. It ain't that all bad.
Don't generalize "Nigerian men".

FRANCISTOWN:


I don't waste my time on people like you so lemme reply to this post and every other of your post on this thread once and for all.

Anyone with half a brain would understand all I wrote up there.

If you liked fall from heaven to earth, this is the last response you'll get from me. Adios

With all your wisdom you couldn't address the criticism levelled against your post. You are less of a man. You are a boy. A small boy. A puny small boy. You need tutelage. Everything you said is packed with contradictions, illogical conclusions, faulty premises and convoluted morals. You need to grow up and read the nonsense you posted here again.

To those who wish to learn. Men be men. Men are leaders and leadership is characterised by sacrifice, wisdom, vision, grit, selflessness and sheer will. All the great kings of old evolved these traits and they failed when they fell short of these traits. If you want to be able to identify a queen, you must be a king first. Anyone who is waiting on the validation, submission or service of a woman to be a king is a slave who by happenstance found the robes of kings. Robes do not make a king character makes a king. Don't go and marry olosho and expect her to treat you like a king. Olosho knows her customers to be ignoble and worthless men and no matter how regal you are if you marry olosho she will see you, your friends etc through the lense of a regular customer and she is spread her legs like butter on bread for your friends, subjects etc. Infact you wey marry am fit be the only man wey nor dey nak am.

Lastly take note. Women are weapons. If you marry a virtuous, chaste, wise, enterprising and visionary woman, she will be your most powerful piece in the chess game of life but if as a king you marry big boobs and big yansh that has been inflated by many other deeks you are finished for she will be a weapon used against you.

The OP is trying to be smart but by so doing he displayed is utter stupidity and need to grow.

onumadu:


Calm down babe. It ain't that all bad.
Don't generalize "Nigerian men".

Okay my bad


Some Nigerian men

greenermodels:
Baba,share the secret with us.

Lol, it's a secret

ConfidentialDoc:


Ha! You should have just kept silent.

FORWARDEVERLY:
This dude reminds me of CaveAdullam

Who is CaveAdullam boss?

onumadu:

1. I've seen a woman who is VERY beautiful, very intelligent, very hardworking and very successful (she is a chemical engineer and a lawyer), and earns 90% of her family income, but she still cooks, took care of her children (back then when they were kids), and treats her husband like a king. Her husband LOVES her of course.

2. We bystanders look at them, and shake our heads!

Thanks for sharing your views.

1. When I was growing up, my dad had a mechanic, his name was "Akoda" and from this man I learnt that people put a Bedford pickup engine inside a Suzuki jeep because the Suzuki engine is more expensive.
Anyone who doesn't know would think that the jeep is Suzuki when infact it is not, according to Mercological Theory of Identity.

This is what I'm saying, have you ever wondered that it's not beyond the bound of possibilities that the wife is cutting corners on her husband, she could be having a one or two with her superiors at work. How she was able to be a chemical engineer and a lawyer concurrently, baffles me but that's not the point for now. I'm saying what if she's got some other d*cks.

2. By saying a Bystander, did you mean you also don't fancy marriage?

Thanks for sharing your view

I just read the first point
And boyyyyyyy am i amazed!!
So there are people that have same thoughts as me?
Crazy!






A new follower u got fam

dhiqson:
I just read the first point
And boyyyyyyy am i amazed!!
So there are people that have same thoughts as me?
Crazy!






A new follower u got fam

I'm glad we are of like minds king. Now that you are strong, please strengthen our other brothers. Men don't mean shit to ladies anymore these days. Let's take our rightful position.