dazzlingd:


You are absolutely correct.
I’m not a bad belle , but this marriage will not last 10 years

ShaqFu:
yep. Same one.

histemple:
Although they are "adults" on papaer, they are far too young to handle marital challenges.

I suspect that the boy may be an only child. If that isn't the case, then the parents didn't do a good job.

Both are most likely to still be in school and probably without any job at the moment.

I see the lady feeling the impact more. Even in the west, a 21 years old lady isn't mentally ready for marriage.

Marriage is different from boyfriend and girlfriend.

DasBeste:
Meanwhile me wey don dey take style reach 46 never even get girlfriend talk more of getting a wife.

What a world!

PreetyAngel4U:


Boyfriend and girlfriend? Is that a relationship. Na so them don do girlfriend and boyfriend dey abort children anyhow. What's the guarantee that a boyfriend will marry a girlfriend? I doubt if they will break up but even if they do, it is still better than body counts and boyfriend for 12years that ends up in Heart break.

I have seen marriages of elders 40+ in trouble because they have refused to grow up. Still want to get to clubs and hit everything in skirts. Abi am I lying? At 21, most people who were brought up well already know what they want for themselves in life. As long as they are working towards it together, they'll be fine.


When it comes to money, some have it already stored up for them. What if they are graduates already and gotten jobs through connection that can sustain them?

I'm sure they are the good ones who didn't want to involve in what everyone else is doing by getting married. Or the girl don get belle and the parent are like, so you are matured enough for that thing?. Oya, you are getting married

obembet:


Add your dp

MyAmericandream:
You dey play?

Successfulben:
The Lamentation of an milf hoping she could turn the hands of the clock. So at twenty one your puna was already wider than the lagoon?

DasBeste:


Play wetin?

No be joke o.

I dey very very serious.

dazzlingd:


You are absolutely correct.
I’m not a bad belle , but this marriage will not last 10 years

touchalex25:
How can I have Puna when I’m a guy?

Successfulben:
You're a gay you meant to type?,

touchalex25:
No Sir….but with the way you jump to wrong conclusions seems your a teenage girl

GoodbutBadguy:

Let me be ur BF

Aurielfinizu:


Good advantage is children will grow to be like their siblings... I love that..

Disadvantage is when the heat of wedding comes, Oso ga eme..

They just have to know God well at this age for the marriage to be fruitful..

Me at 40 am still looking for wife in this stupid Abuja lol

Allisgud:
nigeria will not make it easy for u,unless u want to do the baby mama way

BigIyanga:

In Naija not Uk.
In Naija, people graduate from unis at 24-26 because of Jamb, ASUU and school politics.. how many graduates become fully independent after graduation?

Millions of Nigerians rush into marriage without considering the welfare of the kids. No wonder we have 15-20mil kids who are homeless, parentless, hawkers, child laborers..domestic servants,

lavylilly:

lavylilly:
except you are selective.

Aurielfinizu:


Bro Sis am not selective at all,
My own come be like spiritual thing..

U will be with a girl a d do everything b4 u know it she will break up without reason..

Some will even praise me as good guy but they are not interested..

I went down to dating student and after buying phone and stuff for her she went to sch and lock up and stop taking my calls

lavylilly:
How old are these ladies?