Pls i need help to mąkę a decision. I Just meet guy, he does not know my płace yet bt he is willing to pay for my flight to where he stay (we are going to meet d 1st time face to face) . I Dnt really mind bt i Dnt want to look cheap or sound desperate becos where i come from it is a guy dat 1st visit a lady. Pls i need advice, should i go or nt

My dear, there is nothing desperate or cheap about you going to meet a guy for the first time as long as you stay true to yourself, regardless of

what his intentions are for that first date. If he just wants to meet you and get to know the physical you with no other "SILLY" intentions in mind,

then go for it but if the reverse is the case , then i advise you make sure

you have a plan B incase you need to make a quick getaway in the middle of

the night

@ tellwisdom, u Dnt need to he nasty. If u want to give advice do So instead of all dis nonsense. 4 ur information, i entered plane from naija to u.k.

@sexkillz, Thanks 4 ur advice. Am really grateful. Will think about it very well.

im scared for you are you sure he's not trying to traffick you. idk just let people know where the place is and no i dont think its bad that you're goin to meet him but if you decide to do him that same day you might seem cheap but u're pretty much good. just be careful

@kemmeye, Thanks

@poster
before we can advise you, there are few questions that needs to be answered:
- how long have you known this person?
- what do you know about this person?
- what do you want from this guy?
- do you have this person's contacts CONFIRMED (aka address, place of work, family contact etc)
- why are you going to meet him?
- why cant he come to where you are?

now if you are going to go then i suggest:
- YOU pay for a hotel room (with your own money) so that you have a safe place to stay.
- you should first meet this guy in a PUBLIC PLACE.
- if ANYTHING isnt right, you get the hell out!!!
- if you can, you bring someone that you trust to the first meeting.
- you take a few pictures of this guy AND send them to a trusted friend.
- you spend TIME figuring out if that guy is the way he claimed to be online.
- you dont drink/eat anything that you are not sure of its content.

BETTER BE SAFE THAN SORRY!!!!

@ tellwisdom, u Dnt need to he nasty. If u want to give advice do So instead of all dis nonsense. 4 your information, i entered plane from naija to u.k

A question for you: Dem dish EBA inside plane?

very good tips MBJ.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
before we can advise you, there are few questions that needs to be answered:
- how long have you known this person?
- what do you know about this person?
- what do you want from this guy?
- do you have this person's contacts CONFIRMED (aka address, place of work, family contact etc)
- why are you going to meet him?
- why cant he come to where you are?

now if you are going to go then i suggest:
- YOU pay for a hotel room (with your own money) so that you have a safe place to stay.
- you should first meet this guy in a PUBLIC PLACE.
- if ANYTHING isnt right, you get the hell out!!!
- if you can, you bring someone that you trust to the first meeting.
- you take a few pictures of this guy AND send them to a trusted friend.
- you spend TIME figuring out if that guy is the way he claimed to be online.
- you dont drink/eat anything that you are not sure of its content.

BETTER BE SAFE THAN SORRY!!!!

Great tips.

You need to do a sitcom for silly women. (I am not calling you silly OP)

Thanks to everyone for their advice and tips. I no what to do now.